Put Lipstick on,Dress it up,a Pig is still a Pig:MODP27 - Page 33

Originally posted by: gitika712

Ash i have read the posts on LM's wall, there are some highly delusional people out there. It's saddening to even try to get your point across to them. If you refer to one of the pics i posted before it is from an ipkknd fan page, although i have maintained my anonymity there. I destroy my peace just reading about them fantasizing their way through the abuse. I am so glad i have like minded people in this forum and i can be true to the person i am here.

I can perhaps now share a moment here about how a very dear friend of mine went through physical abuse and kept shut for a whole year because she was scared that her parents would be shattered if she would utter the word "divorce". She kept shut only because she had chosen to get married to this man.

One day she was gasping for breath because she was being beaten up, she yelled out for help and the neighbors broke open the door and saved her. After that there was no thinking twice. She was divorced in a matter of months. It's been 3 years to this but she says she will never get married again.

Where as her ex has swiftly moved on and started a new life with another woman.

So here if we put Khushi a young 18 year old, let her go through the pain and torture - and then expect her to start a life again with another man, oh wait we want her to be with Arnav forever, which is down right insane.

Originally posted by: mandymeggy

Yes, it is painful coz I never knew that what was happening wasn't normal. I mean, how would i? that's all I'd ever seen my whole life- him shouting at her, hitting her, restricting her from talking to our relatives, shouting at us (i have an older sister). and all for the most randomest reasons he could find. It took a while to accept that my dad isn't normal, he isn't like other people's dads...and I have come to terms with it. Mostly coz of my older sister, she's played a huge role, but I think i knew all along, I just didnt' want to face it. and that's exactly what my mom is doing. she denies it, everytime we bring it up she retaliates with the good things he's done for us (i say those are things that any normal father would do for his children, nbd). and yes, I would say lots of social stigma invoved (She won't admit it, but I know she's afraid to speak out), and also like most indian women, she was a very sheltered person before marriage, so for her to even think of divorce was like out of the question. We've honestly given up on her, and I myself can't wait to start working and not have to depend on him for money 😔

Sorry for the rant, but i just wish we could see some more woman empowerment on Indian tv. I try to defend our tv to my friends who don't watch Indian serials, and then i get continually let down bu shows like these, that is incidentally ruling the trp charts, which is beyond my understanding 😕 your post truly came as a ray of light, and I saw that you wanted to send a letter to SP regarding this. If there is any development on that, I'd gladly like to be a part of it. glad to be a part of strong, independent, intelligent woman who know the difference between right and wrong and tell it for what it is 😊.

Originally posted by: mandymeggy

Yes, it is painful coz I never knew that what was happening wasn't normal. I mean, how would i? that's all I'd ever seen my whole life- him shouting at her, hitting her, restricting her from talking to our relatives, shouting at us (i have an older sister). and all for the most randomest reasons he could find. It took a while to accept that my dad isn't normal, he isn't like other people's dads...and I have come to terms with it. Mostly coz of my older sister, she's played a huge role, but I think i knew all along, I just didnt' want to face it. and that's exactly what my mom is doing. she denies it, everytime we bring it up she retaliates with the good things he's done for us (i say those are things that any normal father would do for his children, nbd). and yes, I would say lots of social stigma invoved (She won't admit it, but I know she's afraid to speak out), and also like most indian women, she was a very sheltered person before marriage, so for her to even think of divorce was like out of the question. We've honestly given up on her, and I myself can't wait to start working and not have to depend on him for money 😔

Sorry for the rant, but i just wish we could see some more woman empowerment on Indian tv. I try to defend our tv to my friends who don't watch Indian serials, and then i get continually let down bu shows like these, that is incidentally ruling the trp charts, which is beyond my understanding 😕 your post truly came as a ray of light, and I saw that you wanted to send a letter to SP regarding this. If there is any development on that, I'd gladly like to be a part of it. glad to be a part of strong, independent, intelligent woman who know the difference between right and wrong and tell it for what it is 😊.

Originally posted by: 4aviznd

Ohmygodohmygod, I want a man like Arnav who can hold me tight, tight enough that I need to apply concelar to hide my marks. Omgomgomg, I want Arnav to love me like no one else does...such as make me sleep outside on our wedding night. So freakin'g hot. Omgomgogmg, I want Arnav to pin me against the wall all the time and apply all his weight on me so that I become awestruck all the time. Omgogmgogggm. Waiting for my 6 months marriage to a guy like Arnav. Cmon already.

I wanna be like Khushi. Omgogmgmg. I want to keep quiet when my in laws try to have flings with me. I want to sacrifice my dignity for the sake of my family...omgomg. amazing. I want to be able to feel pain, marks, hurt. Omgomgogm. I wanna be a bahu nowww. Uff.

Originally posted by: 4aviznd

Ohmygodohmygod, I want a man like Arnav who can hold me tight, tight enough that I need to apply concelar to hide my marks. Omgomgomg, I want Arnav to love me like no one else does...such as make me sleep outside on our wedding night. So freakin'g hot. Omgomgogmg, I want Arnav to pin me against the wall all the time and apply all his weight on me so that I become awestruck all the time. Omgogmgogggm. Waiting for my 6 months marriage to a guy like Arnav. Cmon already.

I wanna be like Khushi. Omgogmgmg. I want to keep quiet when my in laws try to have flings with me. I want to sacrifice my dignity for the sake of my family...omgomg. amazing. I want to be able to feel pain, marks, hurt. Omgomgogm. I wanna be a bahu nowww. Uff.