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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Ri_luvs_ArShi

Come on Guys it is just FICTION...SO chillax!!!


I have seen worser dramas and If you want to speak up against "domestic violence" then do it for the real victims in REAL LIFE!


This is an insensitive statement. Do you know the actions of ASR may have dredged up some really painful memories for some of our viewers. Certain things they may have wanted to forget may have come to life for them again. Mental torture can be worse than physical abuse as it can send you mad. I used to watch my step-dad abusing my mom when I was a kid. I was so helpless at the time all I could do was cry. One night he took a machete to cut off her neck but my cousin and I scared him off by saying our uncle was outside the door. That made him drop the weapon and ran away as he was scared of my uncle. I still remember that night to this day. The Island in the Caribbean I came from, in those days police never arrested men for domestic violence as it was not seen as a crime. It is still the same to a huge extent as women are afraid to report it out of shame because people still blame woman saying it's their fault or else the man won't behave that way. They instead ask what has the woman done to cause the man to behave in such a way. There are women who say if he don't hit them then it means he does not love them. I've heard it with my own ears!! Even when my mom had the strength to leave her husband he still stalked her. Eventually she got a divorce migrated and started her life afresh. She was lucky others are not!!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: mandymeggy



i was reading back and realized i missed this. yeah, you're absolutely right...it is a vicious cycle. My grandfather(dad's father) was an abuser too. Was in the army, so he was physically intimidating as well. My dad hates him, tells us he ruined his childhhod. And then I wonder "haven't you done the same?".

We already know Arnav has a bitter past, something he hasn't been able to get closure with...and that's where the violent streak stems from. But you can't romanticize that, let him deal with it first. "His love for Khushi is so strong that it will change him and help him heal". and let me tell you, it can't. Take my own mother for example, she hasn't been able to change my dad because he is still so bitter about whatever happened to him, and he never got a chance to get it out of his system. This relationship they're aiming for between arnav and khushi is already weak, and on top of that, they hardly talk to each other...so all that's left is intense physical attraction.


@Bold: Yes the cv's are not portraying it correctly. If they want him to heal they need to make the leads talk. since this reel they will show this, but in real life nothing like this happens.

The real world is harsh, so by showing in reel that love can heal the wounds is just a fantasy. So this where we come and draw the line between fantasy and reality.

Your dad needed help when he was young, but now maybe is to late.

Awareness regarding domestic violence is a must, sometimes even the mother in law gets involved in beating their bahu's.


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Posted: 13 years ago
    • Kaniz Asma Fatema Phir se ASR pe domestic abuse ka jhoota arope??!! :P:P

      seriously but,in my POV it's not Domestic Violence!!So he manhandled her..wo toh shuru se hi karta aa raha hai!!I mean,the guy has been so much in love,he couldn't even tell which way his world was spinning..he was even prepared to knock the life out of poor NK for some time...& sadly he still hasn't learnt any way of showing his love to Khushi which excludes his aggressive behavior.. every time he grabs her,it's bcos his 'akkadh' wouldn't allow him to hug her..and Khushi too shoved him whenever he was being a royal pain in the a**...:P:P

      Aur rahi baat,kamre se nikaal ne ki,toh aisa husband-wife mein ho hi sakta hai na..Difference is,in real life the hubby,more often than not,ends up outside the bedroom :P

      Arre,Domestic Abuse toh tab hota hai jab hubby wife ko chhod dusri ladkiyon pe nazar dalta hai,as the creepwa snake is doing..kissiko gaali deneka shaukh hai,toh wo snake nazr nahi ata hai kya unhe??

      Just leave ASR alone!!!!Abhi toh cutie ne hair bhi trim karwa liya hai :D..Abhi toh buss watch & drool...:P:P:P
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    • Nahid Nasrin Psyche Hahahaha! ASR & Domestic Violence!!! Arrre have people lost their Minds?? ASR is breaking domestic laws?!! Is he beating Khushi,or is he having extra marital affair? U,guys,surely Crack me up!hahaha!ROfLLL! Muahh ASR!!
      about an hour ago Like 1
    • Aayat Hussain Lalitji - I think its high time Khushi gets to prepare jalebis to calm herself a lil...Arey kaafi time se bahut pareshan hai na vo??
      about an hour ago Like 1
    • Ashu Arshi Kaniz Asma Fatema - If you read that post properly and oh UNDERSTAND IT AS WELL you will know what domestic abuse means because there are links to what actually domestic abuse means. get some knowledge girl before you make fun of people who are actually going through it. That post is not anti ASR thats how much you have understood what you read, Shame. I am a huge fan of ASR myself but grow up ok
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Posted: 13 years ago
Ash, LM's FB wall is like comic relief. I go there to have a few laughs.
No point in arguing there!
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Posted: 13 years ago
Hiru

Yes I just realised that. Urghhh look at the comments made to the post its insulting. They think their world revolves around ASR ASR ASR without reading the actual complete thread or few of its pages.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: CDlove

Ash, LM's FB wall is like comic relief. I go there to have a few laughs.

No point in arguing there!


Same here...😆, I don't see why the director wants to interact with the audience... 🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: asha...


Same here...😆, I don't see why the director wants to interact with the audience... 🤔


I think its because LM wants to see basically what sort of feedback he gets from his audience and then change the track as per the TRP's.
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Ash95 lol its like a jungle out there #Hopeless ! With that said i have to fess up... Even though i'd like to believe that i am capable of better thought processes that those ARS crazed fans i am afraid it rings resoundingly untrue...After all i am still eagerly waiting for today's episode..#hypocrite *hangs head in shame*.. i am still going to drool over ASR and still obsess over Rabba-ve and Arhi...*sigh*... Its probably because i know that the tears are glycerin and the injuries drawn over...that is why ppl find it difficult to think from a social stand point which i think is understandable... Its a show meant for entertainment and as much as we want Khushi to run the other direction she will run into Arnav's hands, kiss and make up...and i will love every moment of it..#TrueStory
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Ash95


I think its because LM wants to see basically what sort of feedback he gets from his audience and then change the track as per the TRP's.

actually im wondering if LM puts stuff there to come up with a few jokes to entertain his crew the next day. 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: CDlove

actually im wondering if LM puts stuff there to come up with a few jokes to entertain his crew the next day. 😆



Yeah... He probably reads stuff off his fb aloud during breaks... after he announces... "Hey guys... gather round for some laughs... come see how they're lapping it all up. Yo Barun... the kids still don't think you're a bada$$ so grab Sanaya a little harder OK?" 😆

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