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Posted: 8 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04


I am surprised dat u being a guy is so much irked by Shivaay. On d other hand, many girls here n on instagram support Shivaay in wateva he do n call d person against it as feminists. If Gul had made Fatmagul then there wud have been no Kerim n Erdogan wud have been d male lead😆.

LMAO and she would've shown fatmagul confused abt choosing her love no not kerim its erdogan nd selim... anyway im a guy nd im a feminist too who wants equal rights for both sexes...now that girls are kicking on our asses everywhere bit fashion,corporate,films,sports its abt time our tv too should reflect that strong women... i remember in an interview p.v.sindhu said she finds inxian tv crap,repetitive nd boring... so true..we need to up the game
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Posted: 8 years ago
#52
This is a harsh reality check for all Shivika fans.
Both my parents viewed that episode and my dad who never comment on any tv show character till date said so many bad things about Shivaay and I had to sit there and listen
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The saddest thing is Shivaay is just a character. He delivered what was in the script.

The main culprit is Gul, how can a woman come up with such ideas and scenes. Just disgusting.

Today she did this for TRP or in the name of twist. Tomorrow she would probably stand first in the line with a banner in her hands saying "protect our women, protect our sisters" in the name of getting some publicity.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I just hope she spares Tanhaiyaan 4m all dis women degrading nonsense. Well, she already showed d hero as a playboy. His fan on insta loved his kiss wid random girl while d heroine luks on n even wanting d kiss to be more intense just its dat actor who was kissing so no matter who he kisses. I wonder on they wud reacted if it was d heroine kissing any random guy. Wid d way, d showing is going I am worried for her web series. Hope she did not make d heroine there as doormat whose modernity only lies in wearing trendy clothes n giving videshi gaalis. Many people have misconception dat physical abuse n domestic violence occurs only wen a person slaps or beat someone so manhandling, pushing, pulling hair, throwing around, threatening wid someone's life r not big deals for them. Shivaay needs Daya ka thappad to bring him to senses.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#55
^^^ Daya ka thappar😆🤣 Juhi you are on roll

I have hopes from tanhaiyyan actually. Only cause it's a web series so no trp nonsense and she can show a good story minus all crap. Let's see how much she delivers. Obviously fans will latch up they are getting to see him after years. Lol if a girl was kissing a random guy she would be called s**t straight answer. Cause girls have to be Virgin and pavitra saving herself for the right guy what f**king century TV is living in?! Sometimes I wonder maybe those people (male female both) who complains about good ol days secretly run these tv shows to satisfy their inner goddess😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What's with the generalizing and bashing people over what they agree or don't agree?? if someone has a different POV than yours one shld try and discuss it in civil manner maybe they will see things differently (from ur perspective) what's the point of coming together and pointing fingers?? I don't think anyone here's more feminist thanI am, and I enjoyed the last few mins of that particular scene, I watched the episode and concluded that it was good few mins excluded and acted amazingly, I object anything else that was showed the last couple episodes and even couple before that, and shared how I felt about it loud and clear, just I happened to like some scenes doesn't make me any less woman than the rest who hated the whole episode, it doesn't make me not know right from wrong, if someone tries to pull that on me or someone else I will the police in a heartbeat and run for my life or advice anyone else to do the same.
I liked the scene and yes a big yes that to my understanding he was indeed comforting her, yes he was indeed feeling guilt at that particular moment, I do not give him any credit to him for it, I didn't like it cause i found it romantic.
if you didn't think so FINE, don't act just we saw/understood something differently you're superior to others in any form or shape.I'm not indian so I always wonder why they show such cruelty towards women in Indian shows, it bothers me a lot, I don't know if it's something that real happens in real life . i don't know if it's pure fantasy, whatever it's I don't like it period and if someone decides to object it in anyway I'm there to support, if you think someone thinks something wrong as right you don't go around and bash/mock them as reflected on this thrd, try to reason with them, you try to make them understand what's going on,present yourself in more civil manner.
STOP GENERALIZING, Not everyone who liked something you didn't needs help, most know right from wrong.

You can discuss the episode and bash Shivaay or Gul or anyone else involved all you want just try to spare the members here or elsewhere.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04


Charlie Sheen who is famous actor physically n mentally abused his 2 wives n slept wid over 5000 women. He did not told anyone for 4 years dat is HIV+ve which shocked d people. Then there were complaints against 4m 700 girls who were probably affected wid his disease. Mel Gibson who was even an Oscar winner was also jailed for beating his wife. Just cuz they were big stars they were not excused. In d same way, why SSO sud be excused just cuz of his family love n reputation? Does dat it means its okay to threaten to kill someone's 5 year old brother n behave as if its cool thing? I was pissed off by seeing his behaviour n expression. He actually lukd like a goon instead of a hero. 2mrw if Anika decides to be bitch n torture everyone 4m his family no matter if its a child or elderly person(after getn his property in some way) or throw them on streets then d same people supporting Shivaay will bash n abuse Anika to no end. In real life, if Shivaay does wat he did to Anika 4m 2 episodes then he wud be in jail. It was such a horrifying scene of 3 cars running after Anika n blocking her n then Shivaay's car cumn in front of her. Wat pleasure did Gul got in showing so much men bullying Anika? Luks like Gul has a serious mental problem n needs a doctor. May be people in her family have norms of abusing women n treating them like dirt.


Oh, with rich and famous men it's worse because no one believes women when they say that this guy was abusive and awful towards her, simply because he's rich, and she'll be branded as a gold digger. Remember Amber Heard and Johnny Depp? Amber Heard took a leap of faith and came out with proof that her husband Johnny Depp was in fact, abusive towards her. Everyone said that she was just doing this for money, she probably hired a makeup artist to create her bruises, etc. Like, this is why women don't speak up. Everyone wants to be all high and mighty and act like they'd be supportive with open arms. Bull-f**king-shit! This woman gives the media proof that she was in an abusive relationship, and then she ends up being the bad guy. And then they want to point fingers at us for not trying to stick up for ourselves? We do try, and we do, society goes and turns on us. Moral of this spiel: society is the biggest hypocrite on the planet, and I hate it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: nebuna

Hey great Post Anjum

Finally I am coming across a thread which calls a spade a spade.Content which is been shown on TV is disturbing and disgusting.,man-handling and assaulting her physically and mentally for their own reason and what baffles me more is girls thinking that being that bad is sexy and hot.I really want to shout my heart out.
coming to this PH and SP this is their routine way of showing men and women getting abused and there comes a explanation from Gul saying that Bad is the new good (yuck,YUCK,YUCK).I have seen their previous show and it had the same contents with people writing essays but again nothing changed and it has gone more bad.
All I would say is wait for the time that the same girl will turn into a mahaan and forgive him and have eye locks and romance him.Wearing jeans and off shoulder is not open minded ,thought process and taking bold steps is being open minded.


@bold: Because that is literally what all female leads are basically programmed do on television. Has a male lead ever, just once, been the bigger person and admitted his mistakes? Has he ever apologized for manhandling her? Have two leads ever just sat down, and had an honest, open conversation about this? No, no to all of this! Apparently, something so emotionally scarring just makes a girl fall in love with the person responsible, and they just ride off into the sunset all happy.
Also, what you said about the jeans and tops, completely agree! Clothes don't compensate for the torture that every female lead has to go through at some point in a show.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Actually this isn't limited to Gul Khan, there're many other shows with this similar concept and they also run with successful trp's. Given that most serial audience are female, I really dread of even the thought of the thought processes of all those women. there were ML's who kidnapped FL's and even those who sexually assaulted and it's so disgusting to watch those two act all lovey dovey later. No redemption can ever heal a scar on the heart. So can't they plzz stop showing the ML's having such cheap characters and then their redemption tracks.

It must be really depressing even for Nakul to enact those scenes as he's a really good person in reality. It's unlucky that actors have zero power in choosing what to show to their audience. I guess he wore those spunky socks intentionally to lessen the effect of the violence in that particular scene.


Oh yeah, I love when shows promote Stockholm Syndrome and romanticize abusive relationships! It makes me feel so proud of our society and the media, that I just have to give them a standing ovation and then bow to down to their greatness. It takes some really great people to downgrade women to a point where they just seem plain crazy to the audience. They take "crazy in love" to a whole other level!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#60
This is amazing! Thanks for posting this!

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