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Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

exactly I didn't like the way she threw her phone ... secondly she is beong shoddy since day one ,,,, women empowerment is ok but one should b decent

Yeah understandable that throwing stuff is not ok and she needs to control her anger, since its all pent up with all her pain, but its obvious its one of her character flaws, not empowerment thats pretty easy to see in the show so yeah other then that i am loving arzoo

i want her to fall in love with sahir and then have anger management classes where he joins her ..

Chicksoup i agree that anyone would react on such a statement ( though i will reserve my judgement as in precap arzoo talked abt his dou paise ki hasiyat first and that probably touch a nerve of his too) arzoo reacting is fine and justified but the way she reacted is wrong and immature is the point and it should be shown and taken as that only, my problem will start uf that is shown as woman strength! Because strong woman don't react like that ... For me arzoo is immature and i can relate to that, its real. But if they try and sell it as oh look how strong she is, she is not scared to hit people if an argument goes out of hand then i am sorry but thats not how strong women are. For me arzoo has her own set of weaknesses and sahir his own

As for her ankhoun ki tha dak dialogue ... No matter what she meant it came out as her saying whoever dresses up any different does it for someone's ankhoun ki thandak ... Its not about sahir its abt ither women. Also every office has a dress code ... U know one of the requirements for hirings in all good parlours is that your own skin is not bad ... Because they thrive on the slogan of making u beautiful ... Similarly what a designer wears us what inspires a customers ... And no that does not mean a short dress it can be a well stitched, tidy and classic traditional dress also. You can not wear badly designed clothes yourself and convince your customers that u r a good designer ...

Can someone translate the ankhon line for me, cause what i got from it was im here to fulfil my dream, focus on my work or skills not my clothes, im not here.to dress up for you or was it to be your eyecandy. Was that was she basically said. If so that seems fine, ive had similar respones towards people and guys and on tv and movies. Like nobody likes to be told what to wear and how to wear clothes in a insulting and demanding way. Its only going to incite a combatitive response. As for her being a designer therefore she must wear stylish clothes mmm, there are designers

Again i dont have any problem with what she wants to wear and wearing what she feels comfy in ... my problem starts when her dialogue hints that everyone else working there wears stylish clothes to please someone's eyes ... she has a right to wear what she wants unless there is a dress code in that fashion house (which some organizations do have) i just feel the dialogue could be a bit different and more sensible .. and its not just this show in most shows if a female wears simple clothes she is made to say such dialogues which make all other women who dress differently look cheap and my problem is with that, not arzoo's reaction

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Again i dont have any problem with what she wants to wear and wearing what she feels comfy in ... my problem starts when her dialogue hints that everyone else working there wears stylish clothes to please someone's eyes ... she has a right to wear what she wants unless there is a dress code in that fashion house (which some organizations do have) i just feel the dialogue could be a bit different and more sensible .. and its not just this show in most shows if a female wears simple clothes she is made to say such dialogues which make all other women who dress differently look cheap and my problem is with that, not arzoo's reaction

Originally posted by: bila_a

totally understand where your coming from. but i dont think or feel she ment it like that. It was specific to her situation and in response to somethimg directed at her. If she did say im not like other girls who dress in shorter clothes or something like that where she brings in or generalzes then yeah i would see it as not good but its a bit reaching to say she is implyimg something else.

That could be said to pretty much any saying. If i were to say i dont need to drink alcohol to have fun in response to someone who said you cant have fun without drinking,would that mean im implying and putting down anyone else who drinks, no because im saying it specific to myself in response to someone if i was just generally proclaming it to people then it would seem like im putting everyone else who drinks down much like if arzoo went around saying that ankhon line generally as if she is high and migty randomly telling people.

For me its all about context thats what makes the difference. But maybe we will agree to disagree in how we percieve it😊

And I honestly felt that dialogue was to put Sahir and only Sahir down...she did not mean to insult her co workers...