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Originally posted by: chicksoup

And I honestly felt that dialogue was to put Sahir and only Sahir down...she did not mean to insult her co workers...

But sometimes, people can ascribe different meanings to your words...and u r misunderstood. If that dialogue sounded offensive to more than one person here, obviously Arzoo has been misunderstood...doesn't that happen to all of us?

Originally posted by: bila_a

Totally agree chicken soup, sorry whats your name if thats ok, my name is nabila or just bila😊

Also @ddbuddy about the hurting women empowerment thing, i dont think it is tbh, its good to see women portrayed 3 dimensionally. Also what does it mean to be an adult, well a lot of things but it doeant mean you have to be serious 24\7. Im 19 and have and met people and frienda who act in all sorts of way. E.g watch graham norton with hugh jackmen,james mcavoy or michael fassbender, they are grown men but they act hilariously, look at female celebraties and comedians are they are hurting empowerment when you see interviews and or shows or just look at ordinary people. Reality would suggest otherwise, people are complex and weird

Also people call out on both for men and women no one is saying men cant feel pain, though the heroes are contantly defended compared to heroines. Its a definite flaw she has.

Originally posted by: DDbuddy

I have absolutely no problem in being HILARIOUS or I am not against anyone who act in different sort of way.Being adult means you are responsible for your deed. Be naught, flirty, loud, OTT whatever you want unless it harm others cause just like you everyone else has some rights.

My point is that when you lose temper that to an extent that you become violent and don't give daam about dangerous reaction of your INSENSITIVE, IRRESPONSIBLE actions, You are WEAK FELLOW. Darling Emotional intelligence is more important than I.Q and If I am not wrong Arzoo is suppose to be a Strong Women at least that is what I have been reading all along.

And what I wanted to say was that a girl throwing things at people and being voilent is not a way to potray women empowerment. And sorry I dont agree that heroes are more defended then heroines. Just suppose if Sahir would be the one throwing mobile at Arzoo then reaction would be much more strong from audience.

Originally posted by: HappyMelody

I think the writers are trying to pitch in characteristics of the female character of Zindagi Gulzar Hai to Humsafars since this show is supposedly inspired by it. Now that I've seen few episodes I do see certain similarities between Arzoo and Kashaf (ZGH female character) but so far Arzoo's behaviour is not quite justified properly compared to Kashaf

Plus there are so many loopholes like the swapped luggage. God knows how she manages herself without her toiletries, clothes etc. Writers really need to do something and fix these loopholes

Originally posted by: DDbuddy

I suppose this comparison between Kashaf and Arzoo is the reason I couldn't digest Arzoo otherwise Its a typical Indian heroine nothing odd😆 Kashaf was fiery yet brainy. Ambitious yet calm and collective.

Originally posted by: HappyMelody

I know right!! I love Kashaf and finally saw a female character who's confident, driven and collective as you've mentioned. Gul's version is not there yet sadly