Reasons for falling out of love. - Page 3

Originally posted by: tisha_g

Agreed on the highlighted part.COmmunication surely brings back the magic. Falling out happens due to lack of comm.IMO.

BTW , I still didn't understant the difference between being in love and loving.MJ. kindly explain to this confused soul😕

i might need some help here. i don't know quite how to describe it. being in love is: head over heels for someone, thinking about them, wanting to spend as much time with them as possible, looking for ways to make them happy etc.

loving someone is just that.....loving someone. like your parents or your best friend.

help me out here guys.

regarding the communication i agree that its important.......but one might be afraid to communicate some feelings out of fear of hurting the one they love. if i was to be told by my husband that he wasn't IN love with me anymore i would be devastated. i might even get some ill feelings towards him. this might even make things worse.

but then if i don't know this, how am i expected to fix the problem right?

Originally posted by: Maya_M

Jalebi (I love calling you that😆), I can't answer this question well because I am in love with my chunni ke bapu. 😳

So let me take an hypothetical situation. If there is infidelity involved then there is no point in staying in the relationship. Still I have heard people making compromises even in such situations when kids are involved. Then there are ego issues, parental interference, jealousy etc. which can be tackled but many times lack of communication worsens sitautions and couple grow apart. They simply live together for sake of everything. This is very common and I have seen many families back home who love/like each other and live under one roof but they aren't really in love.

thats what my mamaji calls my son. 😆 jalebi ram. so my son refers to him as jalebi nanaji. 😆

Sweet MJ,

I like how you said it.
To me, being in love is the magical element extended into one's routine. the occasional feeling of "oh wow.. he swept me away".. "oh wow, u smell fabulous sweety, don't drive me crazy now, gotta work", "oh u look so tired after gardening- my dil goes mmmm", or "missing him in a crowded place", "putting some exotic candy someone broought from their home country in the purse to carry it home to share".. the little things, the occasional electricty- that's being in love.

loving is routine. u love your friends, you love your parents, you love ur children, u love ur pets and u love those who did not vote for bush 😆 😆

True love is like seeing ghosts: we all talk about it, but few of us have ever seen one. Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition. Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things.

Love rules his kingdom without a sword.Love is, above all, the gift of oneself. with love n love only vinu's
😊

ye flims nay demagh kharab kardia hay 😆 😆

Dew Drop! what's happening?

Don't fall out of love for long. Fall right back in. 😳
Screw everything EXTERNAL that made you fall out in the first place and never let them back in your life. Be strict about that. Chop chop chop..

If the negative forces are internal, I have no clue what they could be 😳 .

people seldom fall in love these days... they just create an feel good aura of love so basically they are just out there shaking hands and befooling themselves.... 😆

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

people seldom fall in love these days... they just create an feel good aura of love so basically they are just out there shaking hands and befooling themselves.... 😆

😆😆😆

kia karain koi Romeo hi nahi hay aaj kal kay zamanay main 😉😆

Waisay seriously I still disagree over the existence of such love ... I do agree that men are not very good in expressing their emotions yet all love stories describing characters who are not only intense in emotions but they are very good in expression too ..

abhi everyday life main jab ye sab expect karaingay to phir to problem hoga hi naa 😆.. it is something ... for initial one or two years of marriage life was just like out of any movie plot but later .. when it become normal .. people feel ..falling out of love etc.😆............(ok guys don't kill me for anything ... don't have fall-out experience .. pahlay fall in experience ho to baat agay baday 😉😆)

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Dew Drop! what's happening?

Don't fall out of love for long. Fall right back in. 😳
Screw everything EXTERNAL that made you fall out in the first place and never let them back in your life. Be strict about that. Chop chop chop..

If the negative forces are internal, I have no clue what they could be 😳 .

kuch nahi yaar ..getting bored ..digging topics.. lighter topic so people can enjoy 😆

Originally posted by: sonp

loved reading your answers. great job. 👏