Is marriage necessary? - Page 9

Originally posted by: Ms. Bholi Bhali

doesn't the choice of right partner solve more then half the problems???

So what is the guarantee that you will get the right partner???

Originally posted by: Ms. Bholi Bhali

doesn't the choice of right partner solve more then half the problems???

Yes it does, but how sure can one be that the "right" partner is not the "wrong "one chosen? In the days of courtship everything looks so hunky dory, then comes marriage - and the first couple of years are paradise, then sets in the monotony, the grievances start pouring in.and wham!!! suddenly all the "right" seem to go all "wrong" !!!!

Tab kya karna...????

Marriage is a risk? Why is cohabitation not a risk, especially since we consider 'marriage' merely a tag, since, then, essentially, marriage and cohabitation are the same?

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Originally posted by: princessjojo

Marriage is a risk? Why is cohabitation not a risk, especially since we consider 'marriage' merely a tag, since, then, essentially, marriage and cohabitation are the same?

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Not really - in cohabitation there is always an option to part should things dont work out.

In Cohabitation, you lose only 50% of your belongings mental /material. In cohabitation, the partner does not take you for granted.

In marriage - you put 100% on daav... can lose it all and along with that your sanity as well...

In cohabitation the decision lies with just between the two partners, in marriage it lies with two families which worsens the problems even more.

P.s. I am not an advocate for cohabitation... these are merely observations.😳

Originally posted by: adi_0112

Yes it does, but how sure can one be that the "right" partner is not the "wrong "one chosen? In the days of courtship everything looks so hunky dory, then comes marriage - and the first couple of years are paradise, then sets in the monotony, the grievances start pouring in.and wham!!! suddenly all the "right" seem to go all "wrong" !!!!

Tab kya karna...????

A live-in couple can face the same problems...

Originally posted by: Bhaskar.T

So what is the guarantee that you will get the right partner???

what is the guarantee that we will take the next breath??

its all about believing urself and the person u are marrying. and yes believe on GOd too.

Originally posted by: princessjojo

A live-in couple can face the same problems...

If they face this problem they are better off parting...and that is a lot more easy to do than a divorce.

Originally posted by: adi_0112

Yes it does, but how sure can one be that the "right" partner is not the "wrong "one chosen? In the days of courtship everything looks so hunky dory, then comes marriage - and the first couple of years are paradise, then sets in the monotony, the grievances start pouring in.and wham!!! suddenly all the "right" seem to go all "wrong" !!!!

Tab kya karna...????

that is life!!! ............ not the fault of marriage. it is ur fate!!!

and it is how u take those issues. it is upto u and ur partner how u go through the journey of marriage. it depends on each person. not all are same. some are born frustrated, some are not.

Originally posted by: adi_0112

Not really - in cohabitation there is always an option to part should things dont work out. There it is! The crux of the argument. Cohabitation offers a free to use/anytime back door. The same door also plays a catalyst to impatience in working things out.

In Cohabitation, you lose only 50% of your belongings mental /material. So essentially, there is no sharing after all. In cohabitation, the partner does not take you for granted. Because there is always the fear of losing that partner? That doesnt sound like a comfortable situation to be in.

In marriage - you put 100% on daav... can lose it all and along with that your sanity as well...

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On a lighter note, one would risk his/her sanity mutliple times with cohab because live-ins seem to be easy to get into and easy to get out of, packed with the emotional baggage as well.

In cohabitation the decision lies with just between the two partners, in marriage it lies with two families which worsens the problems even more.

P.s. I am not an advocate for cohabitation... these are merely observations.😳 Please do not take any comments as personal attacks from me either. Im just enjoying this banter.

Ps: Pyaar ke Side Effects is one entertaining flick!

Are marraiges necessary?

No.

Well they arent necessay? Why should they be? Havent we seen enough of successful singles?

well and to all those including Sabaa maasi who talk about the perfect match, How do u know who is the perfect match? Is it a process of trial and error?

The current U.S. divorce rate:

The media frequently reports that 50% of American marriages end in divorce.

So 50% of the marraiges in the whole of United States are successful!

And when a marraige fails soo many people are hurt. The couple, their families and more importantly kids. Kids really suffer alot.

Why are they necessary. Cant one stay single.