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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sashashyam

Sohini my dear,

I think these kinds of disputes belong in PMs, not on a thread like this Avantika has apologised profusely, but as for me, I am afraid did not like the tone and the aggressiveness of your posts. I did not expect it of you.

I love Rajat, I am very proud of him, and I have written more in eloquent praise of his acting than all of the rest of you put together, as you well know, though I do criticise him at times when I think that is warranted But I am concerned only with his acting and not with his private life, which is only his concern.

Other people might have other points of view, and while one can try to convince them otherwise, it has to be done politely, and one has, in the final analysis, to learn to accept different points of view. One cannot pillory those with views one does not like to try and make them change their minds. This is what is called trolling, bullying someone for their views.

I hope you, and all the other fans of my boy, will not make a habit of such behaviour, which reminded me of the kind of posts the Jodhaphiles used to make against threads praising Rajat during my Jodha Akbar days. You don't want to become like them, do you now? I am sure you don't, there is my good girl!

I also hope that you take this advice from someone much older than you in the proper spirit.

Shyamala Aunty



I know

Even i read the link up reports on JA forum. Sometimes when someone reads report of such affairs no matter how false your respect for the actor goes down a bit because we hold actors on a pedestal and they can do no wrong. Hence avantika wrote that, i think many fans felt so only avantika wrote it. That does not means we are wrong.

I liked Hrithik Roshan as an actor but the way he behaved with Kangana after she called him silly ex etc now I do not watch his movies on TV too. I had enough of him acting real life its so much that i do not care what acting he does in movies anymore 😆. Even many cricket heroes fell from my eyes after all the fixing, nowadays i watch only world cups or international matches(that too not as much as before). So i totally can understand what she meant.

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Posted: 8 years ago
My dear Prem,

I am afraid I do not agree with the part in red at all. I do not care about anything but an actor's performance and I do not put any actor on a pedestal. He os she is not a deity !

His or her private life is not my concern, only his performance. But if you or anyone else reacts the way you say you did, you also owe it to yourself not to believe all rumours blindly. Which you do not seem to have done.

Hrithik was a fool, that is all. I don't see why his performance in Kaabil should be rated any less because of his folly in that case.

As for matchfixing, that is something very different, for it reduces a match to a farce. A star having extra marital affairs, no matter how immoral it might be, has nothing to do with one's assessment of his or her acting. And if you knew the whole truth about the private lives of most actors, you would end up not being able to watch any of them onscreen!😆

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I know

Even i read the link up reports on JA forum. Sometimes when someone reads report of such affairs no matter how false your respect for the actor goes down a bit because we hold actors on a pedestal and they can do no wrong. Hence avantika wrote that, i think many fans felt so only avantika wrote it. That does not means we are wrong.

I liked Hrithik Roshan as an actor but the way he behaved with Kangana after she called him silly ex etc now I do not watch his movies on TV too. I had enough of him acting real life its so much that i do not care what acting he does in movies anymore 😆. Even many cricket heroes fell from my eyes after all the fixing, nowadays i watch only world cups or international matches(that too not as much as before). So i totally can understand what she meant.

Originally posted by: sashashyam

Sohini my dear,

I think these kinds of disputes belong in PMs, not on a thread like this Avantika has apologised profusely, but as for me, I am afraid did not like the tone and the aggressiveness of your posts. I did not expect it of you.

I love Rajat, I am very proud of him, and I have written more in eloquent praise of his acting than all of the rest of you put together, as you well know, though I do criticise him at times when I think that is warranted But I am concerned only with his acting and not with his private life, which is only his concern.

Other people might have other points of view, and while one can try to convince them otherwise, it has to be done politely, and one has, in the final analysis, to learn to accept different points of view. One cannot pillory those with views one does not like to try and make them change their minds. This is what is called trolling, bullying someone for their views.

I hope you, and all the other fans of my boy, will not make a habit of such behaviour, which reminded me of the kind of posts the Jodhaphiles used to make against threads praising Rajat during my Jodha Akbar days. You don't want to become like them, do you now? I am sure you don't, there is my good girl!

I also hope that you take this advice from someone much older than you in the proper spirit.

Shyamala Aunty




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Posted: 8 years ago
Oooh chanakya and Chandra faked it. Thank God for not ruining that relationship!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
C & C Vs Greek clan...Let's see how's the game on

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Oooh chanakya and Chandra faked it. Thank God for not ruining that relationship!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
How many of you honestly feel the creatives had nothing scripted beyond Chandra's coronation 🤔
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Posted: 8 years ago
These Greek clan look like east India co. Than yawanis 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sashashyam

My dear Prem,

I am afraid I do not agree with the part in red at all. I do not care about anything but an actor's performance and I do not put any actor on a pedestal. He os she is not a deity !

His or her private life is not my concern, only his performance. But if you or anyone else reacts the way you say you did, you also owe it to yourself not to believe all rumours blindly. Which you do not seem to have done.

Hrithik was a fool, that is all. I don't see why his performance in Kaabil should be rated any less because of his folly in that case.

As for matchfixing, that is something very different, for it reduces a match to a farce. A star having extra marital affairs, no matter how immoral it might be, has nothing to do with one's assessment of his or her acting. And if you knew the whole truth about the private lives of most actors, you would end up not being able to watch any of them onscreen!😆

Shyamala Aunty

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Posted: 8 years ago
Dear Aunty,
My kid has become too addicted to YouTube and gaming. We have unlimited hi-speed internet access here. He is becoming too hyperactive and cranky because of that. So we have logged off from Internet on all our devices to curtail the time he spends on the net. This unfortunately leaves me and my husband too with very little time to spend on the Internet. But it is our collective decision for his good. As for WBD and IVMF, I will try to keep up my weekly updates after some time. But for now, I may have to take a break of two to three weeks from the Internet at least to break his bad habit rhythm. But we are doing it for the good of our child. I hope you will understand if I am not around to respond to your comments on my FF. I will miss you but I hope you will surely understand.
Shailaja.
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Posted: 8 years ago
I understand shaillu nowadays that's what kids do

It must be hard on you ,my kids too they watch about anything from wwe to blogs and Hindi songs once home from school that's it and I'll glad only one TV that too in the living room

Family comes first shaillu wish you all the best

Tell you the truth when my kids were little as all three are close TV was my baby sister I had no choice as I was on my own and it was hard but no internet we only had it recently so it was more of Teletubbies and kid's network
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Posted: 8 years ago
Aunty how are you and Ma feeling now
Hope your eyes are much Better now and pray the weather gets cooler there

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