Originally posted by: sashashyam
Sohini my dear,I think these kinds of disputes belong in PMs, not on a thread like this Avantika has apologised profusely, but as for me, I am afraid did not like the tone and the aggressiveness of your posts. I did not expect it of you.I love Rajat, I am very proud of him, and I have written more in eloquent praise of his acting than all of the rest of you put together, as you well know, though I do criticise him at times when I think that is warranted But I am concerned only with his acting and not with his private life, which is only his concern.Other people might have other points of view, and while one can try to convince them otherwise, it has to be done politely, and one has, in the final analysis, to learn to accept different points of view. One cannot pillory those with views one does not like to try and make them change their minds. This is what is called trolling, bullying someone for their views.I hope you, and all the other fans of my boy, will not make a habit of such behaviour, which reminded me of the kind of posts the Jodhaphiles used to make against threads praising Rajat during my Jodha Akbar days. You don't want to become like them, do you now? I am sure you don't, there is my good girl!I also hope that you take this advice from someone much older than you in the proper spirit.Shyamala Aunty