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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: colossial2015

I agree with you. People who are suffering from Depression cannot control their thought process. I could not do it for a long time. What people do not understand its the complete apathy of others that causes depression. When your request for help fells on deaf ears constantly, you tend to loose complete trust on people around you. Plus add the taunts and jeers you receive from others for being weak. In these cases people do commit suicide.

You are doing a great job dear. It feels really great when someone understands you without judgement. Keep up with your work. I am trying to spread awareness about depression.

thanks so much dear😃😃😃 it upsets me when people judge people for having depression or taking drastic steps who doesn't want to have a happy life? did pratyusha pray to have depression? did she want to have a super abusive boyfriend? NO, one cannot judge someone without having the same mental condition and without having the same environmental factors! People do not seem to understand abuse either! A person suffering from abuse also is shut off their mental saneness, after a while most victims of abuse tend to believe that they deserve it!

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: nikki1aaa

thanks so much dear😃😃😃 it upsets me when people judge people for having depression or taking drastic steps who doesn't want to have a happy life? did pratyusha pray to have depression? did she want to have a super abusive boyfriend? NO, one cannot judge someone without having the same mental condition and without having the same environmental factors! People do not seem to understand abuse either! A person suffering from abuse also is shut off their mental saneness, after a while most victims of abuse tend to believe that they deserve it!

This is the reason why many Bollywood actresses are into abusive relationships. These actors feel they deserve it. Vidya Balan is married to Siddharth Roy Kapur who is known to be abusive towards Vidya and his other ex wives. And some other star wives actually accept their husband philandering ways like Kajol did. Very few can break this cycle of abuse like Sussane Khan. She did the best for her kids.

Men and women whether they are commoner or celebreties need to know that no one deserves abuse and depression. Please try to get out of abusive relationship and get counselling. I wish Jiah and Pratyusha had tried to get help once.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: -cuteee.tigress
Lol this thread is turning into people talking to each other THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH! You are one of my favorite members of this forum ever! ❤️ 🤗 you are amazing

Awe thank you, I like you lots too & even moreso after reading this. 😳

Omg you're MJB!! Woa ok. Yay! 👏

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Posted: 9 years ago

#94

Originally posted by: colossial2015

This is pathetic you have written.Do you think people who are suffering from depression do not try to stay alive. They try to speak with people but generally they are shunned by friends. When life gives you troubles it comes from every possible source personal and professional. You do not have anywhere to take comfort too. You are trying to improve your life but your problems increase many folds. Try living in this situation for years.

People who have slight inclination and knowledge about mental health they will try to get help. But most of the people have family members who feel ashamed and call people suffering from mental disorders crazy and weak. These people commit suicide as they have similar thought patterns like their family.

In life there are many needs other than food,clothing and shelter. If you do not have psychological and emotional support then a person is not happy.

Please read something about depression with an open mind once. It will be helpful to you one day.

This prolly is a neat explanation.

It's important to know that most people slip into depression due to constant mental abuse. Constant!!... N dz can be in different ways. Be it family, personal or professional life. Like u said they are shunned away dheere dheere by all. There's a long fight that finally leads them there. I do not support suicide at all! But u can not judge their circumstances call them weak, coward or a psycho!

These days there's so much talk about depression... But, most ppl jump to label a person with even a slightest unconventional thought to be mentally unstable. In d name of depression instead of being der for d person, they end up scrutinising them.

I had read dz on tumblr this morning it makes so much sense.

" it's scary how many people think they want to die,when really they want to start living."

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: -cuteee.tigress
Yes, 3 times, but then I started taking medication for my anxiety and stopped living in the past. I surrounded myself with positive, good people and feel so much better now..the suicidal thoughts have not come into my mind since 2 months so it's a progress. :)
I really really like you too 🤗 thank you very much, God bless you!

Whoa! Cuteee.tigress, ur extremely cute n a Damn good tigress for sure. ⭐️

just gotta know ur love for LDR, that makes u suppa awesome as well.

I wish you the best.

Where u kaifholic? Before Mrs Jb?

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Originally posted by: -cuteee.tigress

Thank you, you are very very cute too! 🤗
Nahh MrsJustinBieber is my PM account (I write stories😆) and I have this -cuteee.tigress account as my main one that's it. Before that my username was PinkPenguinxo and others but at that time I was not on bollywood forum

Lana is love, Lana is life ❤️

Ah okay.. I do remember dat MrsJustinBieber thingy.

Bang on, about Lana Del Rey

Did u just just change d gif from summer time sadness to this?😆

Ur sucha doll. As much as I love summertime sadness it does give me d creeps. D video. Not d song.

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Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais
@A: Nope. Education sadly doesn't have much to do with it. I've seen the most well educated people spout such regressive & ignorant heartless nonsense, it has thane my breath away. Hate all these so called educated tripe. Sadly, people in India & even abroad will never understand that education is no cure for no dumbness & heartlessness. 😡

People think education broadens people's mind, but it does not a lot of people. I don't know why so much cruelty is going to acheive. If we just take one minute of our time, it will brighten somebody's day . We might be able to solve their whole problem, but even a reaching out goes a long way. On my part time job, when i see fear of judgment when i ring them up for medication, u can read it correctly with some people. I had a mutual mutual friend take his own life at 14 b.c. he could not deal with the abuse. He shot himself with a gun. Same thing a month ago to a girl who went to my higb school, due to bullying she took her life. The moment that you decide to end your life, it takes a lot of guts to come to that decision. I wish we reserve this judgement of ours .Mental illness kill each of you inside. You cannot sleep, eat or even think. You constantly worry.Even a country like U.S. does not take mental illness serious on some some level and there is so much stigma attached with it.

Cute tigress, ur so strong and survivor. God bless u. Wish u all the best.

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@Cuteee.tigress I'm so glad that you're ok.

And I hope you continue to be alright...will keep you in my prayers.

You're strong so more power & love to you.

Keep doing what you doing and surround yourself with positive people.

And if possible talk to someone (if professional better)

Sending you positive energy and thoughts.

🤗 🤗

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God Bless you cute tigress!

These Bollywood stars are just heroes on an ego trip.

You are the real hero!! It takes guts to face this world everyday and live! 👏

Well done! You are an inspiration to many!

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Posted: 9 years ago

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How can suicide ever be acceptable? To who should it be acceptable? The person is dead and gone and the loved ones are left with a lifetime of hurt, regret and anger. It's a lose lose situation for everyone involved, dead or alive. I cannot even imagine what can make someone take their own life going against the very basic instinct of self-preservation every living being is born with. The last few seconds before they take their own life must be the hardest for them. Suicide is a huge problem, the only way to tackle it is by removing stigma off of mental health issues.