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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -cuteee.tigress

@ Minirulz and Mallika-E-Bhais you both know me a bit already, my other account is MrsJustinBieber 😆😆😆

oye you are MJB?no wonder I liked you immediately as cuteee😆🤗
Edited by MiniRulz - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -cuteee.tigress

Hi I'm so sorry for that one time we had a fight over SRK-Salman... 😆 I was SO rude! I was having a really bad day then. I'm really sorry.

And thank you so much! Your comment made me realize that there are so many sweet people in the world who can look past grudges and be so full of love and light 🤗

Don't even worry about it man.
I truly understand though not as depressed i remember once I used to lash out at members too.
Was going through tough time myself so i completely understand.
Actors are not beyond people but we tend to go overboard sometimes.
Some may be emotional on own our own.
No need to apologize.

Ignore the troll above please don't give them the satisfaction.
Much love to you.
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Posted: 9 years ago
Some comments on this thread 👎🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
Suicide and attempts towards committing suicide are always difficult topics to discuss regardless of where we stand on the issue. And therefore it is even more imperative that while indulging in these discussion, we remember to employ ALL the human DECENCY and COMPASSION we can find with in our being.

No two people have to agree on this issue or with each other, but they have to be respectful and cognizant of other members as the discussion continues. This forum has a long standing history of arguments and inappropriate comments when it comes to those involved in the Bollywood industry. And these arguments/comments are usually posted because it's "fun" or it's "interesting" or it's just "an eye for an eye". And that is understandable - it's an ongoing issue, it's something that we work towards addressing every day.

But it is NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE ACCEPTABLE OR TOLERABLE to use as sensitive a topic as "suicide" to pass moral judgements and issue intolerant/ignorant comments against anyone who may or may not be struggling with this issue. We do not have to like suicide, we do not have to even like people who commit/attempt suicide, but what we WILL do and what we will be EXPECTED to do is act like a SENSIBLE, COMPASSIONATE ADULT when discussing this issue.

We will be expected to leave our judgements outside this topic and we will be expected to enter with an open mind, with the intentions of explaining our positions and debating others in a RESPECTFUL manner. And if we feel we are unable to do that, then I would strongly recommend that we avoid posting in this topic at all. Because any offensive moral judgements, which are normally not allowed anyways, will especially not be tolerated in this thread.

Thank you,
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Posted: 9 years ago
Depression eats you up. You dont even realize how your behavior show up to people. My teachers complained to my family members that all i did in my class was sit and think of nothing in particular .. extremely blank. I have been targeted by a boy whom i rejected. He eventually asked his several 'female friends' to morph up my pictures and had them sent to my family members stating that i spent night with him and he was the one who captured these pic (which obviously were morphed so damn realistically) . My friends suddenly wanted to ditch me up because my case was now such an awesome scandal in my college. My family and friends taunted me throughout and my grades fell from A to D .. My oh so sweet relatives had loveliest stories and gossips to tell their friends now. I lost alot of weight and looked like a walking zombie with absolutely no glow on my face. I was blamed for each and everythif anf that led me to depression. I have tried commiting suicide so many times but each and every time i tried suicide ..something stopped.. i wanted to.prove each and every one wrong but depression doesnt let you... the pain and tje feeling of lonliness is too much to bear with .. It wont let you share your feelings with someone because the only thought you have is that you are lonely..no one cares about you. Suicide is definitly the only option left for some people in this case... Some people do come out of this and some dont. Judging a depression patient is absolutely heartless. Fortunetly ...there were some close friends who helped me out... and i am out of it. Depression cases should be given awarness .. its funny when i still share it with some people .. they all just reply " Stop it! I am sure you are lying.. it wont be too strong.. stop.thinkinf about it...you"re fine now.. ' some people do take depression seriously. With help of some close friends whom i was able to share that i was suffering from depression ..i am.out of it and recently i recieved Gold medal for topping in my batch. Please dont judge people with depression. They have no idea what they are doing...
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: .GulabiAnkhey.

Depression eats you up. You dont even realize how your behavior show up to people. My teachers complained to my family members that all i did in my class was sit and think of nothing in particular .. extremely blank. I have been targeted by a boy whom i rejected. He eventually asked his several 'female friends' to morph up my pictures and had them sent to my family members stating that i spent night with him and he was the one who captured these pic (which obviously were morphed so damn realistically) . My friends suddenly wanted to ditch me up because my case was now such an awesome scandal in my college. My family and friends taunted me throughout and my grades fell from A to D .. My oh so sweet relatives had loveliest stories and gossips to tell their friends now. I lost alot of weight and looked like a walking zombie with absolutely no glow on my face. I was blamed for each and everythif anf that led me to depression. I have tried commiting suicide so many times but each and every time i tried suicide ..something stopped.. i wanted to.prove each and every one wrong but depression doesnt let you... the pain and tje feeling of lonliness is too much to bear with .. It wont let you share your feelings with someone because the only thought you have is that you are lonely..no one cares about you. Suicide is definitly the only option left for some people in this case... Some people do come out of this and some dont. Judging a depression patient is absolutely heartless. Fortunetly ...there were some close friends who helped me out... and i am out of it. Depression cases should be given awarness .. its funny when i still share it with some people .. they all just reply " Stop it! I am sure you are lying.. it wont be too strong.. stop.thinkinf about it...you"re fine now.. ' some people do take depression seriously. With help of some close friends whom i was able to share that i was suffering from depression ..i am.out of it and recently i recieved Gold medal for topping in my batch. Please dont judge people with depression. They have no idea what they are doing...


I wish we had some society where everyone sat down to share their own personal experience of suffering from depression and how they bravely fought against it. It would seriously do a lot good
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: .GulabiAnkhey.

Depression eats you up. You dont even realize how your behavior show up to people. My teachers complained to my family members that all i did in my class was sit and think of nothing in particular .. extremely blank. I have been targeted by a boy whom i rejected. He eventually asked his several 'female friends' to morph up my pictures and had them sent to my family members stating that i spent night with him and he was the one who captured these pic (which obviously were morphed so damn realistically) . My friends suddenly wanted to ditch me up because my case was now such an awesome scandal in my college. My family and friends taunted me throughout and my grades fell from A to D .. My oh so sweet relatives had loveliest stories and gossips to tell their friends now. I lost alot of weight and looked like a walking zombie with absolutely no glow on my face. I was blamed for each and everythif anf that led me to depression. I have tried commiting suicide so many times but each and every time i tried suicide ..something stopped.. i wanted to.prove each and every one wrong but depression doesnt let you... the pain and tje feeling of lonliness is too much to bear with .. It wont let you share your feelings with someone because the only thought you have is that you are lonely..no one cares about you. Suicide is definitly the only option left for some people in this case... Some people do come out of this and some dont. Judging a depression patient is absolutely heartless. Fortunetly ...there were some close friends who helped me out... and i am out of it. Depression cases should be given awarness .. its funny when i still share it with some people .. they all just reply " Stop it! I am sure you are lying.. it wont be too strong.. stop.thinkinf about it...you"re fine now.. ' some people do take depression seriously. With help of some close friends whom i was able to share that i was suffering from depression ..i am.out of it and recently i recieved Gold medal for topping in my batch. Please dont judge people with depression. They have no idea what they are doing...


You are way strong person. One should try not to give in life. I hope you stay happy in life forever. Some people will simply treat mental illness as stigma no matter how educated they are. People learn to understand others pain only when they have gone through something similar.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: .GulabiAnkhey.

Depression eats you up. You dont even realize how your behavior show up to people. My teachers complained to my family members that all i did in my class was sit and think of nothing in particular .. extremely blank. I have been targeted by a boy whom i rejected. He eventually asked his several 'female friends' to morph up my pictures and had them sent to my family members stating that i spent night with him and he was the one who captured these pic (which obviously were morphed so damn realistically) . My friends suddenly wanted to ditch me up because my case was now such an awesome scandal in my college. My family and friends taunted me throughout and my grades fell from A to D .. My oh so sweet relatives had loveliest stories and gossips to tell their friends now. I lost alot of weight and looked like a walking zombie with absolutely no glow on my face. I was blamed for each and everythif anf that led me to depression. I have tried commiting suicide so many times but each and every time i tried suicide ..something stopped.. i wanted to.prove each and every one wrong but depression doesnt let you... the pain and tje feeling of lonliness is too much to bear with .. It wont let you share your feelings with someone because the only thought you have is that you are lonely..no one cares about you. Suicide is definitly the only option left for some people in this case... Some people do come out of this and some dont. Judging a depression patient is absolutely heartless. Fortunetly ...there were some close friends who helped me out... and i am out of it. Depression cases should be given awarness .. its funny when i still share it with some people .. they all just reply " Stop it! I am sure you are lying.. it wont be too strong.. stop.thinkinf about it...you"re fine now.. ' some people do take depression seriously. With help of some close friends whom i was able to share that i was suffering from depression ..i am.out of it and recently i recieved Gold medal for topping in my batch. Please dont judge people with depression. They have no idea what they are doing...


You are such a strong person and a true hero realizing what depression is doing and getting out of it and coming out with flying colors.God bless you 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
🤗Big hugs to @Colossao, CutieTigress and GulabiA.
Thanks for sharing your story.

I want to put a case for people who are posting comments that sound downright mean and disgusting. They could be plain haters of Pratuysha, but I think no hater will continue when the star is dead.

Another scenario could be that they have suffered sucidal death of someone very close and they can't forgive them. I say this from experience as my Mausi ended her life leavning my two cousin sisters aged 12 and 14. I was very close to my sisters and witnessed how their lives changed for worse after their mom's drastic step.

We all were too young to understand Depression and behaved exactly like how some people have commented here. Anyone who ended their life was the worst villain for us. The anger, hurt and feeling of being let down was too strong to understand the POV of the person who committed sucide. That was around 10 years back, still my cousins and me can't get over this tragedy and any sucide brings bad memories to us.

So, please give time and space to people who are posting insensitive comments here. Let them vent out their anger on this forum. A big hug to everyone who has been insensitive to such topic. I am sure there is a hidden pain and anger somewhere 🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago


I know it is easy to blame suicide survivor.
We can only help suicide survivors by giving positive thoughts.

Ek to wo pehle se hi dukhi hain aur upar se hum aur pareshan kar dete hain.

Everyone is not that strong or we may be not in that situation to understand their pain.

Main yehi kahunga there are many ways,methods to come out of depression...

Edited by ChotaBheem - 9 years ago

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