Blast From The Past: Saif Leaves Amrita Singh - Page 9

Originally posted by: anonymous39

[quote]She is a dignified women, which is seen when she did not drag Saif to court when he stopped giving any kind of financial assistance[/quote]

But the matter was already in court. I think it was a rough time for Amrita because she was waiting for the divorce settlement to come through and probably didn't have a lot of money at that time and needed to start working again. But it was not for forever. It was just to keep herself stable until the courts could properly divide financial assets.

<font size="2">Saif should have been a good guy and provided her some specific amount of money to care for the children during that time. But leaving open all his bank accounts to let her do whatever she wants doesn't make a lot of sense honestly. They weren't married anymore so it's natural they would not have free access to each others accounts now.</font>

<font size="2">Btw, a lot of Saif's money at the time was I assume family money that he already had before he married Amrita. She would not have any right to that money. Community property is what's earned during the marriage and Saif was not that big a star at the time. He was struggling a lot for most of those 13 years. They probably lived a big luxurious lifestyle based on Saif's nawab money but Amrita would have no rights to that.</font>

Originally posted by: anonymous39

Agree that Saif should have definitely helped Amrita during that time, especially to provide for the children's needs. But people become jerks during a divorce and Saif was no different. I would not be shocked if Amrita was also being rude in other ways like limiting access to the children. This is the norm in almost every acrimonious split.

I wouldn't judge people just from how they behave in a divorce. It brings out the worst in everyone. Saif's cheating is of course another thing. That he is a total jerk for. I really don't know how Kareena trusts him especially after his antics like getting tattoos and showing off. It makes him look like a stupid child, not a grown man.

Originally posted by: anonymous39

[quote]She is a dignified women, which is seen when she did not drag Saif to court when he stopped giving any kind of financial assistance [/quote]

But the matter was already in court. I think it was a rough time for Amrita because she was waiting for the divorce settlement to come through and probably didn't have a lot of money at that time and needed to start working again. But it was not for forever. It was just to keep herself stable until the courts could properly divide financial assets.

Saif should have been a good guy and provided her some specific amount of money to care for the children during that time. But leaving open all his bank accounts to let her do whatever she wants doesn't make a lot of sense honestly. They weren't married anymore so it's natural they would not have free access to each others accounts now.

Btw, a lot of Saif's money at the time was I assume family money that he already had before he married Amrita. She would not have any right to that money. Community property is what's earned during the marriage and Saif was not that big a star at the time. He was struggling a lot for most of those 13 years. They probably lived a big luxurious lifestyle based on Saif's nawab money but Amrita would have no rights to that.

Originally posted by: anonymous39

No, he was not obligated by the law to provide anything until the courts settled the divorce and split the assets. The actual divorce process can end up taking a long time, sometimes even years! During that intervening time, there are really no rules and it turns into a free for all. Some people refuse to provide money, some people refuse to allow access to the children, and all sorts of stuff occurs.

This is the time frame where custody has not been granted yet and alimony has not been decided. This stuff takes a long time. Once everything was signed on paper, Amrita did get child support from Saif. She also got the house they used to live in and he got joint custody of the kids.

Of course he should not have been a jerk and helped her out during that time in the middle when everything was not down on paper. But that's life. I also take all the stuff that comes in the papers with a grain of salt. Each side tries to make the other one look bad.

Amrita would have gotten him arrested if he was breaking laws or doing something illegal. It's not that simple.

Originally posted by: .DejaVu

Thats why never have a joint account. Have you own savings account.