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I have to say many things as usual😆😆😆 I'm a talkative person and a writing one also.....I can talk about this as a SRK fan...I don't think it's about the fans at all...I think every fanbase goes through bashing-the-significant-other phase...
Till recently, Gauri was quite despised. And I can vouch for the fact that mostly it wasn't because of her clothes or makeup but absolutely due to the fact that she was SRK's wife. We fans didnt ever leave a chance to mock her...obviously coz we figured that SRK deserved someone better and all that stuff.
But honestly, I think time manages to make a celebrity's fan a lot more understanding. I can truthfully tell you that today I hardly come across any SRK fans that have a problem with Gauri. If they do, its geniunely based on constructive criticism. The fact is that we have come to love and understand SRK so much along so many yaers...that now we are able to accept his choices without any reluctance.
So I really think it's about time...every fresh new star has his other half bashing phase.
Case 1 : SRK
Actually I like more his itws than many of his movies. I like the fact that his determination and his hard working led him to superstardom. And some of his movies make me feel really good. As I often say, BW movies always manage to make all the wrong in your life turn into right somehow, that's the magic of BW. But above all I like the way he loves his wife.
So as an SRK "fan" no problem with Gauri, actually I admire her a lot because she's always behind, has to bear the "crazy" fans, the fact her husband was romancing cute girls, shooting abroad often or away from home. I would like a male version of Gauri Khan. She seems someone really honest and well grounded. If SRK was married to someone like Bebo....I would be really disappointed for him...😃
It's ironic how some of his fans think that SRK deserves better because when he met her, she was Beauty and he was kinda the Beast...Her family has money, SRK had none (family and money), she was considered to be beautiful (fair long hair), SRK was perceived as plain...😆
And now it's the othe way round, people find her ugly, think she's spending "SRK's money" and that's she's unfriendly.....The thing is Gauri Khan doesn't fake being someone she's not. And she doesn't like hype around her. Unlike her husband. In an itw Gauri said that Aryan should have the same character as her and SRK replied "nobody's that perfect' talking about her. So I guess she's really someone exceptional for SRK. And SRK is smart enough to see through people so if he chooses her he has some GOOD reasons.
Actually I think SRK doesn't deserve her 🥱because she doesn't have any ambition in life except being a good wife and a good mother. And he so needs the fame and success...😕😕😕
I'm happy he's married to her because the personality he shows publicly is influenced by his wife. He is always polite well mannered and considerate to others and it's thanks to her. In his early itws he was aggressive, rude and angry. He was fighting with every journalist who wrote bad things about him it's Gauri who made him apologize....So if fans like his personality they like Gauri because he's what he is thanks to her....
I like Gauri but I have to admit that in the fashion department she has the worst taste in the world and she always tries to copy J.LO or Angelina Jolie (figure, clothes and make up)....So she's not perfect or flawless but that doesn't make her unlikeable for me.
Case 2 the SRKajol crazy fans 😃
I do think they are one of the most amazing on screen pair just like Vivien Leigh&Clark gable.....When I watched their movies the first times I didn't know who was who but I liked them....Then I knew SRK was married and then Kajol was....I was like : they look good together, but it's only reel life not real life. Actually I like Ajay a lot...he's calm smart soft spoken and does movies he wants to and doesn't talk rubbish in itws.
Sometimes I watch SRKajol vids on ytube and I truly believe that if they were single when they met they would be a real life couple but It has to do with circumstances....And some of their crazy fans wish that Gauri had died...Kinda like KKHH storyline....😕😕😕 And they bash her because in their mind she's the only one obstacle for SRKajol love😕 And I don't like that they imagine too many stuff off screen..for example SRK leaves Gauri for her..Some bash SRKajol because they believe the on screen interaction is the proof of real feelings between them and they find them hypocrit to say that they're only friends...😕😕😕
Case 3 :
Shahid Kapoor When I watched Fida he wasn't with Bebo I guess so i've always seen him as single, then after the break up I began watching his movies. And he was still single. I like his movies and his boyish attitude But I'm not pagal over everything he does or every co star he has even if Shahid Priyanka is a good pair, SHanelia is a good pair too, with Bebo he was cute too....
As long as the story line is interesting he can pair up with anyone...😳 the same in real life as long as he's happy, I have nothing to comment on....it's his choice...I'm nobody to tell that he doesn't worth XYZ or that XYZ doesn't deserve him....That's not a cool attitude. What I like is his acting and his personality he seems to show.
Case 4 :
I liked Bebo because the first Hindi movies I saw included her as cast....But when I watched the extra bonus dvd vid of the K3G making she was asked : why did KJo cast you for the movie? - Karan wanted beautiful people...😕 as in "He wanted me because I'm so beautiful..." and I thought she was stupid and arrogant...Now I think that she has always been taught that as a Kapoor child she's extraordinary so she just repeats what she was taught.....🤢 I like her acting once in a blue moon.
So I've never disliked her because of Shahid or Saif or the break up I think everyone is free to decide their path in life...Recently someone has uploaded the segment in KWK in which she says "when you love a man you don't look at another man"..😭 and all the comments were saying that she was the B word.
And I do think that she matches Saif because they seemed so lost at times before their being together that if they have found in each other a bit of comfort and love that they always wanted to have, good for them!
Bebo&Shahid seem cute and Shahid always described her as a devoted lover. So no fans have to judge when they don't know what happened...
As for the Saif Bebo haters, Saif was with Rosa and was supposed to marry her and then he broke up with her then began dating Kareena...so Bebo basically didn't break any marriage...
Some Bebo haters despise her because they're fans of Hritik....
As for Hiritik I like his acting and his dancing style but I don't like him as a celeb or as a human being because i've seen a french report about him showing him in his big car and a lot of poor kids were around his car and he didn't even wave at them and he was saying "They're poor but happy"😕😕 Very bad pciture..it was really condescending and it was like he didn't really care about them being poor...Then later in the report he said "In India we're considered to be God" and obviously he really thought that he was somehow and I was like "Who's that guy, who does he think he is"...and since that day I can't like him even if I find his wife sweet and loving and that he seems someone really kind I just can't help thinking of that first feeling of 🤢🤢
I don't like the initial media use of Duggu vs SRK : hinduism vs Islam ....and the bashing of SRK whan he had back problems, I didn't appreciate the P**SI ad of SRK in which he mocks at Duggu either..I find those wars pretty ridiculous and the worst thing is that their respective fans follow that and in ytube we can often see srk fans bashing aamir khans or the contrary or Salman fans bashing SRK and the worst worst is Shahid fans bashing Kareena....it seems endless....or Shahid fans bashing Saif-Bebo.....🤢
The same if the first itw of SRK i had watched was the one in which he states that he's the God of Marketing..🤢🤢🤢 I would probably not care about him....
So I guess it depends on how the celebs are shown and in which light we see them, if we can relate to them in some way if we feel attracted to their looks, personalities, characters.....(some crazy fans really think that BW stars are the same as the characters portrayed)......
It reminds some Preity Zinta fan who was saying through 12 long comments on Ytube how PZ was beautiful and how srk WOULD HAVE PAMPERED her if they were married🤢 another vain illusion, she was saying that PZ had a porcellain doll complexion, that she was the most perfect actress and woman in the world that she was sooooo ..many adjectives and when I told her that I found PZ cute she insulted me..SO I watched her profile and in her profile she said that she had a real physical resemblance to PZ..so when I said that PZ was cute she believed I was saying that someway she wasn't beautiful I guess...And she even told me that I"should learn from PZ"😆😆😆 And that PZ had never done nip tuck she was sure about that, and that she DOES KNOW EVERYTHING about her......and that she had all the pix of PZ....For me that girl is crazy.....because she projects herself through PZ...
I like SRK but I'm not SRK I'm not Gauri I'm not their kids I just like his movies and the fact that he shows respect to people, I like Shahid but i don't want to befriend with him I like him on screen. Period.
Some crazy fans are frustrated people and they are insulting and bashing for the sake of doing it or to release some pressure..As for me I don't have time for hatred only for love so I label myself as a friendly😆 So I can discuss about Duggu's acting without insulting and bashing him. I'm not a fan of Salman but I ackknowledge that he seems someone generous and protective of his family.
On ytube I've told to some crazy hater that insulted me because I've made some casual comment : "I love you" he/she replied back "I know" ahahahahaah😆
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