Elli vs Naag Man! So who was wrong? - Page 22

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Did anyone here ever say they were aware of all sexual harassment issues or had attained some sort of higher knowledge Nirvana about women's issues?

Absolutely not! In my case, I am extremely fortunate to have been blessed with a relatively secure and sheltered life. The harassment or challenges I have faced as a woman are trivial compared to serious issues women face. here have been many instances where my sheltered life has made come off as ignorant, oblivious or apathetic because I have a hard time understanding the issues faced by other women. Sometimes, unless we actually experience what other people go through it is virtually impossible to fully understand and empathize with it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong in saying that people may not be aware of sexual harassment issues, because the fact is most of us with sheltered lives have a lot to learn. I am not ashamed to admit that I don't know it all. However, rather than dismiss people's problems as trivial and move on, at least I am willing to engage in a discussion and learn. And I don't see any reason why others on the forum can't be willing to admit that we all have something to learn and engage in a mature discussion. As far as I know most people here on the forum are indeed willing to do so.

I think your rabid sarcasm seriously falls flat and misses the point here. Posts like this show that feminism, women's issues and those who discuss it on the forum are nothing but a joke and butt of ridicule for you. I'm glad you can enjoy and have a good laugh mocking "feminists" and making fun of people who try to stand for women's issues.

I won't say what your behavior and attitude reflects. I'll let others draw their own conclusions.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

1. No one is saying that a girl who doesn't condemn Armaan is a dumb retard. However, women who support Armaan may not be fully aware of sexual harassment issues.

Please go back to this thread and some other related topic threads and see what all has been said about Pratyusha...and now will be said about Hazel for saying she liked Armaan in house.

Overwhelming consensus of all those baying for Armaan's blood is, that any girl who chooses to stick her neck out and says..come on...lets move on with it, is someone incapable of appreciating the fierce realities being faced by womanhood, feminism and assaults being faced by it, real or imaginary!

Main post has clicked LIKES of: mamathamukundan, n_shaily, .awesomeness., ManjuBlore, ChillHum, swarima, -Rani, -JungleeBilli-, ushmi, amandaclarke, dipali13, SoPunk, Sanaya.deewani, tweetie19, Vips_, boredsoul, riya_ss9, JasToronto, sirjee, shivani003, sarasingh86, ShivRajput, VerboseG, Malika, sscomp32, Deepika100,

So according to you, all women who clicked here,may not be fully aware of Sexual harassment issues, while you are fully aware of all sexual harassment issues and threat to women of world.

How generous and how charming indeed!👏

2. Armaan wasn't just "stupid". Armaan was smart, cognizant, aware of what he was doing and chose to push an issue with Elli. Men who say forget it and move on may not be well aware of some challenges women face in society.

I feel Armaan was plain stupid, whereas you say he was 'smart, cognizant, aware of what he was doing & chose to...", Some more here epitomize Armaan as picture of devil himself and whatever is wrong with men in general (some even said men are worse than dogs, but lets not go there...)

Well, I am a simple Engineering graduate with a Masters in International Business.

You, I guess have a Masters in Human Psychology & Behavior research, backed by decades of professional practice that enables you to 'see through' a person in a 5 minute of edited TV clip!

Good...I can only hope of reaching those Masterly levels and still never reach there...alas!😕

Of course most moral issues are subjective issues and based on situation/perception. However, there still are some objective and universally accepted judgment of right and wrong. There can still be a discussion in such situations. Even if a person has a mental notion of what is right or wrong, there can be a debate on points and counterpoints. A lot of good things in the world happened because someone somewhere went "Hey, this isn't right at all and we ought to do something about it".

Today morning I saw a news report of a woman of UP who was having an affair with some chap and together with him hacked her husband to pieces!

Armaan's one great act of stupidity has made so many of you jump in with 'First Sign of Trouble...the moment a man...blah blah..."! If I were to extend same analogy to this woman and say each time a wife seems upset with you dear husband, its time to wake up and consider that she is having an affair with someone and soon you might get chopped to pieces...🤢

..IT WOULD BE AS ABSURD, as many of the 'firm conclusions & declarations', have been made here about Armaan's stupidity and the threat emanating from it to any female!

Over the top reactions make for fascinating reading, serve very little purpose in life actually!🤔

* I am least interested in interacting with a fake like you. If I responded to you , it was because a few pages back you made a direct post to me and atleast it wasn't vomit worthy...only pompous sounding!

On this topic, I have said whatever I have to see. You want to stop going or keep going with your trusted 2-3 Piranhas and keep flogging this Armaan horse for full 3 months, I DON'T CARE! Don't post to me and I care two hoots whether you make pompous posts, self contradictory posts, meaningless posts or come up with plain nonsensical rants! I am just not bothered! Thank you.

Edited by -Cruiser- - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: -Cruiser-

<font color="#0000FF">Stop quoting selectively and no need to be mischievous by yet again shifting goal posts.

And please! You stop worrying about my behaviour and attitude. Seriously worry about yours.

Your eternally lecherous drools of lesbianism, group sex, and other sick fantasies, on a forum where overwhelming number is made up by young girls and boys in their early teens, have already resulted in quite a few threads getting locked this season. Do you have no memory or think others do not happen to be on those very threads where your morality and value lectures go for a toss and a display of your sickening desires is usually on display?🤔

A person like you should be the last one to lecture anyone on morality and causes.....Last season your public drools, hanging tongue on Sa-Ashka and all your sick fantasies are all there in archives as well.

If any man, would similarly drool on a girl and make posts similar to what you make, do I have to be a genius to predict what you and your select few partners in crime would do? You would lecture that man of poor upbringing, lack of values and what not!...Stand in front of a mirror before this lecturing beemari gets hold of you, which happens with you on an alternate day basis almost!🤢

Our Exact exchange was following one, just a page or two back....and that precisely reveals, WHY and HOW, you have yourself foisted yourself upon a Higher pedestal, from where you look down upon any other Man or Woman, whose opinion are contrary to yours!

<font color="#FF0000">In Black are your pompous, "I know the best' declarations and in BLUE, my rebuts!</font></font>

Originally posted by: axeion

^Cruiser. Reported for below the belt personal attack on a fellow member.

Originally posted by: -Cruiser-

<font color="#0000FF">Yeah...Supporting Piranha calling all Men Dogs, even failing to realise she unwittingly ended up taking a dig at her own father, grandfather and brothers is here to report a personal attack...completely incapable of understanding that her boss invites suitable retaliation with her usual pompous" I won't say what your behavior and attitude reflects" 🤣

Go on amusing the world with your rants!

I am least interested in interacting with you. ...go on bashing Armaan, Elli, Men, Dogs, whoever your mind takes a fancy to...

just don't address your 'wisdom' to me...Very difficult??</font>

Originally posted by: axeion

. I think its below my dignity to engage in any further conversation with you.

Just a friendly advice, do not create threads if u really can't handle opinions that don't align with urs.