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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: axeion

Partially agree, because you said you dint understand why women use the gender card... so that they can drill it into other's head. The junk that human brain has accumulated over centuries of male dominance needs lots of digging n drilling before it can be cleared fully.

And no mate, you can have the teddy bear. I have my own lil puppy to cuddle!


Hope puppy got para-influenza Injection?
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rapier


Glad you didn't let it pass. You can attack me as much as you want as I can't see you. Sure,Yes extra exposure to feminism is a problem. Yes I am serious. Yes when there is a 85 years old man is standing and seat been given to some 20 years old girl who is perfectly fine to stand. Judgement is human nature, I judge people, you don't? Now I am getting late to school. See you soon. Inbox me your reply if want, Otherwise It may skip my mind you see. And please also state why would you bold Problem twice? Lmao

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Posted: 12 years ago
Hey Cruiser... Man I disagree u with on this one,Naagman was bang out of order with his comments especially the lapse pardoongi one.Elli may not hve said a thing while the convo was going on buy that Dnt mean she was t uncomfortable.Whrn she had some alone time to herself it started to get to her more as the convo was replaying back In her head.At times in life one doesn't get to fully say at a given time what is needed ,but later it jus hits you that W*F jus happened?
Like alot of others on here Didnt expect such a post from u!
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Posted: 12 years ago
Bhinder the man could have given the girl his seat not out of respect or because of feminism but also because maybe he was 'chance maraoing'. Who knows. We all can speculate. Maybe you should question the young man's ethics. Does his values teach him to respect the elderly? Was he being conscientious of the woman out of respect or did he have an ulterior motive? It's not black and white. Did you ask him his motivation?
Edited by Picasso9 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: bhinder.thind


Well, I disagree. Sure, there are problems for men too, because everyone has them. We all get judged, not denying it. However, women have it much worse...much much worse. Everyone judges, but the crap a woman, especially, has to face, is constant and much worse. I can name a million incidences.


Sure, women may have some advantages (like getting a stupid seat or cutting in line...which are so petty that I can hardly classify them as advantages), but the disadvantages far outweigh the advantages. Giving the bus incident as a reason to tell feminism to back off and call it a problem is something I found quite silly. That is why I mockingly bolded "problem" twice.


Also, feminism has extra exposure? Where? I thought the problem is that it doesn't have enough! Actual feminist issues are STILL an issue! Where the hell is the over exposure?! In fact, we need the over exposure so the point can be drilled into people's heads so people don't have to think before they respect women (men and women included!). But sadly, we are nowhere close!


Alright, you go do well in school kid! We'll talk later. You can respond when you come across this. I don't feel like PMing.


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Posted: 12 years ago
Feminism is nothing more and nothing less that equality for all human beings irrespective of gender. If you believe that men and women should be treated equally and receive equal opportunity on account of their true merit and not their gender. Then congratulations, you are a feminist.

Feminism is not about not about seeking special rights and privileges for women nor is it about hating men and blaming men for all everything. Women and men who make feminism about these things do disrespect and disservice to the notion of feminism.

On an ironic side note a lot of the unfair privileges females get or that society tends to provide - like giving a girl a seat on the bus, holding a door open for women or pulling out a chair, giving women maternal privilege in custody battles, male only drafts are actually the result of "patriarchy" where women are to be cherished and protected by men. It is called benevolent sexism. Which is why feminism is essential for both men and women, so that both genders get fair and equal treatment. Feminism actually seeks to end the "cherished and protected" stereotype for women.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Disagree with you Cruiser.
Elli was clearly uncomfortable,she tried to take it lightly at first,but Armaan continued going overboard with his lewd remarks. Pratyusha is no less,she literally scanned Elli from top to bottom & encouraged Armaan to do same. How come it was friendly?. They just met in bigg boss house & that also a week before only. One should know where to draw a line even if they are good friends.

Gauhar atleast had spine to support Elli,she knew that Elli might not be able to protest verbally against that douchebag Armaan,so she tried to be Elli's voice. And,i really respect her for supporting Elli. Nothing can be expected from Apoorva & Kushal,one of them only respond to his wife & other one just try to show how manly he is,but sadly not manly enough to take stand in real time.

Armaan apology was just for Tv. And,i can't believe you found Pratyusha sensible. A woman encouraging a prevert to scan other woman can't be termed as sensible (even if it was in a friendly way according to you). There can't be friendly way for such acts.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Feminism is nothing more and nothing less that equality for all human beings irrespective of gender. If you believe that men and women should be treated equally and receive equal opportunity on account of their true merit and not their gender. Then congratulations, you are a feminist.

Feminism is not about not about seeking special rights and privileges for women nor is it about hating men and blaming men for all everything. Women and men who make feminism about these things do disrespect and disservice to the notion of feminism.

On an ironic side note a lot of the unfair privileges females get or that society tends to provide - like giving a girl a seat on the bus, holding a door open for women or pulling out a chair, giving women maternal privilege in custody battles, male only drafts are actually the result of "patriarchy" where women are to be cherished and protected by men. It is called benevolent sexism. Which is why feminism is essential for both men and women, so that both genders get fair and equal treatment. Feminism actually seeks to end the "cherished and protected" stereotype for women.


I absolutely agree with that! It definitely is not about hating men, or even belittling their issues. I think some men and women hear feminism and automatically think "women better than men" and that's where the defensive attitude comes in. Feminists do not think men are evil. Feminists' main goal is to get women the respect and equality they deserve without having the women ask for them!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie


Don't get this Anjani...

Where did I BLAME ELLI?😲😊


Politely, but firmly! Sheer stupidity to play along with coy blushes and giggly grins at face while conversing and later turning oneself into a crucified martyr and a victim!

I take major offense with this statement!

And Cruiser, I am astonished to see you quoting my name when I have never interacted with you beyond this discussion!

Really, I refuse to indulge in any more talks , clearly my personal boundaries have been violated by someone who I have never interacted nor has this discussion called for name calling!


Very amusing!

Why don't you edit your profile?😲


If my PUBLIC profile loudly declares my name as Pyaarelal, I believe I am declaring to the world that I am Pyaarelal! 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
Cruiser- I just dont want to have any sort of communication with you here, and as far as my name is concerned ofcourse you still don't get to use it when clearly you and I have never had a conversation , ever. so I would appreciate that you maintain the internet etiquette . And In all the conversations here I havn't seen anybody address me like that , so I took offense, hope you get from where I come from and rather than finding it amusing. A total internet stranger , stalks my profile , quotes my name in the middle of argument, - not disrespecting but think about this!

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