I suppot Vandana and her POV

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zara321

@zara321

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Posted: 8 years ago

#81

i understand vandana is a mother and worries about arjun, thats perfectly fine, but if she has worries then why doesn't she just go and speak to arjun, speak to him about it, instead she goes to saanjh and asks her to stop the wedding, and worse than that she takes arjun away from the mandap on the wedding day, humiliating maya in front of everyone

i mean if she has genuine worries then the way she is trying to handle it is just not right, she has told arjun before about her 'superstitious' worries and arjun ignored it coz he doesn't believe in all of that stuff, so instead of respecting her sons wishes she is behind his back trying to break his marriage

i'm sorry but is this show trying to say superstitions are true? coz there r people watching this show and they cud get influenced by such stuff

Edited by zara321 - 8 years ago

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Yanci

@angelk1

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Posted: 8 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

It's okay if u don't find any good in maya or can't connect but that doesn't mean that like few ppl can say maya supporters must be insane to support her. Why can't one disagree & have some other opinion !
See in this serial no one is flawless whatever u say.. even saanjh or maya both have pros & cons but when saanjh fans say she's flawless that cracks maya fans. That why these war zone start too. And maya isn't entirely at fault. So saanjh fans saying she's some psycho or villian isn't agreeable.
Infact every char of this show is with pros & cons but maya fans accept that flaws where as saanjh fans say she's completely flawless.

See I will have to disagree on some of your point. I said I don't like some of the things she does. That doesn't mean she doesn't have some good quality. I like the fact that she's taking care of her mom knowing her mom has problems. Her advice to Arjun about family was really good. I value family, so seeing her trying to help him with his, on that eps made me think and lets not forget ashwin torcher made me sympathize with her. But her games to tricks I didn't like.

And your right, people can say what they want. But at the end of the day is that gonna stop you from taking her side...no. so it's best to ignore those types of comments. Lastly, saanj flawless, that's new. Who ever said that is stupid. No human is flawless in this world and saanj is no exception. Majority of my argument is me trying to defend her character . Not once did I glorify h er or praised her majority of my post. matter fact, I even laughed an commented on the trip scene where she was running an crying all over the place 🥱🥱😛( still cracks me up), to finish this, once again it's not all saanj supporters that thinks that way. We all knew what we we're expecting , I mean the story is call beyhad for a reason. Even though it's mainly focuse on Maya obsessive love.

Edited by angelk1 - 8 years ago

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annihilation

@annihilation

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Posted: 8 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: Nithunavi
That's what I'm saying... Unless it gets personal it's not wrong.
I got ur pov but here ppl started attacking personally like for eg. Idiots thing & etc.
And yeah what is with this "u r so courageous that u had put ur views on saanjh" did anyone here objected anyone to not put views on saanjh ? No right ! Then why all saanjh fans are or may be neutral too making it seem like people whoever put views on saanjh are not allowed.
And yeah few people here who are posting saying they are just writing neutrally like u said...but I didn't find such posts neutral bcoz if the person is neutral the post shud be saying abt all Characters pros & cons but such posts always have only negatives of maya .and all positives of saanjh. Honestly I appreciated a girl here.. I forgot her name but recently a post was made and many maya fans didn't comment on that post but I did responded positively to that post bcoz that was clearly neutral. So the thing is.. people are doing something & saying something.
I don't understand😕 what's the point to say neutral then ?
May be this's what making it a warzone !

a) You just agreed to the third part of what makes it a war zone.

b) If you're holding onto that line of mine where I said the TM made a move that needs courage, it specifically meant for Vandana centric topics. And after that I gave him/her a heads up that usually topics on Vandana and Saanjh aren't received well due to conflicting opinions and clashes. If you're really cool with people saying what they want to, I don't see why you have such an issue with what I said.

c) I'm not speaking on behalf on any particular fan group, I was only telling TM about my general observation on the way this forum functions. So, don't ask me why so and so person or so and so fan group do what they do and why they do what they do.

d) Despite me having explained it all to the best I could, you still aren't able to get me at all then this is where I step back and put an end to our discussion.

Peace.

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Saranya

@charanyaaj

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Posted: 8 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
Guys in a hostile forum especially when your POV is not in line with POV of majority to put across a post needs courage and conviction. Right or wrong is different. Whether I agree with POV is also different. But I will applaud the TM for putting this post, because as a person who have been in multiple forums knows how difficult it is. To read through the multitude of bashing and negative posts that comes your way can drain a person and can also make not to put your POV at all.
@charanyaaj though I do not agree to your POV as far as Vandana goes, but I understand what you will be going through after reading through posts here. Because when I was in EHT forum, I used to write favorably about Dev Goenka a character more than half the forum bashed. Some posts will be war zones, some posts very few will read. It was depressing to be frank but then I did continue writing whatever I felt. Because that was my POV. So I would say to you please go ahead and put your points. You might be right, you might be wrong. Many may not agree with you, but then it is your POV.😃

Agree vandana's character also has many flaws because no-one is perfect but here vandana agreed to the marraige though she wants saanjh as a dil actual prob started only after mehendi that's what I'm trying to say she is not bad mom I saw many posts like selfish etc.
If she stop arjun from marrying maya being a girl I won't support that but I will blame jhanvi and maya for cause of that problem. After knowing about ashwin I feel it's jhanvi's responsibility to tell about maya to arjun.

I have been in many forums and concluded one thing the fight is not about characters it's about actors and their fans.

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naaznin

@naaznin

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Posted: 8 years ago

#85

Dere r many children who suffer mistreatment in childhood dat doesnt mean dey dnt have ryt to beautify their future...Even children who commit heinous crimes like rape r released by court n given a chance to reform..Though i dnt think any bdy can reform after committing rape or planned murder

Bt here Maya in self defence has attacked Ashwin... wat is wrong in dat..

I wud give kudos to d girl👏Arjun said right he wud also hv attacked ashwin...Ashwin is a physical abuser n a criminal

Vandana is wrong becos she doesnt hv any proof dat Maya is a psycho she is blindly believing ashwin..C'mon hw cn u believe sumone who is an abuser n has tortured his wife n child all life..He shud b jailed

If she wud b having sum proof on Maya's madness den it wud b ok bt forcing her opinion on her son is nt correct..

Edited by naaju - 8 years ago