I suppot Vandana and her POV

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annihilation

@annihilation

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Posted: 8 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: TheUnique

Actually I was going to point that out. People here r constantly attacking Maya supporters calling them idiots ..illogical.. stupid senseless.. obsessed with Maya ..dumb ArYa shippers... fanatic Jen fans... immature & so on but still when someone posts a topic supporting Saanjh or Vandana... they all r like as if the person has been courageous enough to open such a topic cuz it needs guts to have a topic opened in favor of Saanjh or Vandana among the illogical idiots! What hypocrisy! 😆 I am really amused.
Also they think it's degrading & disrespectful when a Maya supporter calls people obsessed with Saanjh but r quiet fine when someone liking Saanjh calls others idiots! It's not that u guys have not called ppl supporting Maya obsessed.. This member Kaushi has been going on & on about how obsessed Maya fans r so y point out when someone calls the same for Saanjh fans.
I always find ppl supporting Saanjh or her actions always have a tendency to think they r far superior than the rest & the sanest beings of this forum ...well that's what u think but maybe some ppl don't find her actions that great cuz in real life specially in today's day I don't think there r many girls who takes so much from a friend who I find is only using her for his selfish needs disrespects her cuz the way he shouted at her in front of Maya will still dream of being his wife & constantly say usay sari khushi mill jaye ...it just makes her look pathetic & a girl with no self respect.
So when u call others idiots or think yourself to be the most sensible intelligent being don't forget u r actually watching a show that is being aired on an IDIOT BOX.. ..with the rest of the ppl u think r idiots 😆 I am actually surprised that such intelligent ppl r over here 😆

@TheUnique - Since, I want to avoid the scope of having misread or misjudged, I'll ask you directly. Do you have something to say to me in particular? Because, I see my post quoted in there.

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annihilation

@annihilation

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Posted: 8 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: Sanju_

Both sides have over-zealous fans who do go overboard sometimes but continuously putting a blame only on one particular fan group seems little unfair to me 😕

Since I missed out on replying to this particular bit, doing it now. No, I did not put the blame on any one particular fan group. I only said topics on these two said characters have a great chances of turning into war zones because of various conflicting opinions and clashes.

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

Since I missed out on replying to this particular bit, doing it now. No, I did not put the blame on any one particular fan group. I only said topics on these two said characters have a great chances of turning into war zones because of various conflicting opinions and clashes.

Excuse me for interfering... @anni.. what is this warzone & etc ? I heard u tell this many times... That's why asking...

Why is that a problem if people argue or discuss or debate over a certain characters or topics in this forum ?

Why can't we do that ? Isnt this forum is for putting forth everyone's opinion & discuss abt it ??

I don't see any wrong if ppl are discussing in a manner until it goes personal.

Edited by Nithunavi - 8 years ago

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Bharathi_gurti

@Bharathi_gurti

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Posted: 8 years ago

#64

Hey I agree with you to some extent...but in love marriages you can't go for horoscopes seriously..I don't know the importance of horoscope generally but if vandana is denying this relationship based on Pandits word's then I don't like it..but the point is vandana saw Maya breaking glass seeing sajun together and she must be actually worried for that obsessive side of Maya..but as how people assume that vandana deep in her heart wants saanjh blah blah and blah that's nonsense..these are all fictional characters and you can only read thier dialogue s and actions and not thier mind...that's the height of stupidity...if they want to show what the character thinks only then you can say ,yes vandana thinks this way and that way!!! But how can you mind read a fictional character and keep on arguing if it was saanjh vandana winter accept kundli,,,does this makes any sense!!! This is called peoples illusion and not characters...one can't argue with these delusional thoughts...look how you spoke about vandana and now the topic is changed to saanjh and vandana..have you seen anyone making a topic on how arjun will feel by such manipulations!!have you seen anyone Cates for arjun,no they won't...above all MAYA HERSELF BELIEVES KUNDLI AND SHE FEARS ABOUT IT!!!SO WILL PEOPLE CALL MAYA AS A HYPOCRITE.IF SHE DOESNT BELIEVE THEN SHE WONT BE AFRAID OF THAT KUNDLI NONSENSE AND WONT FEEL DISTURBED...

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annihilation

@annihilation

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Posted: 8 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

Excuse me for interfering... @anni.. what is this warzone & etc ? I heard u tell this many times... That's why asking...
Why is that a problem if people argue or discuss or debate over a certain characters or topics in this forum ?
Why can't we do that ? Isnt this forum is for putting forth everyone's opinion & discuss abt it ??
I don't see any wrong if ppl are discussing in a manner until it goes personal.

War zone as in a combat area in which the rights of neutrals (or either or both or all parties) are suspended. The problem is never in having healthy, tolerant and peaceful discussions/debates.

- The problems lies where people (generally speaking, don't mistake it for anyone in particular) refuse to back down and rest their cases.

- The problem is when inspite of having told the same points over and over again, people need to have an upper hand in the last.

- The problem is when people mock each other carelessly under the pretext of discussing characters, use the characters as a shield to make a certain comment against each other or offend each other personally.

You know how it mostly goes? 'You are a Maya fan, that is why you think she is right', 'No, you're a Saanjh fan and thus the need to justify her', 'No, you're just as obsessed as Maya is', 'No, you are just as obsessed as Saanjh is', 'You get Vandana? why? Because she likes Saanjh. Oooh, hidden agenda there', 'How can you like both Maya and Saanjh, oh, it must be because you can't read characters well', 'you are literature person, a literature person purely assumes stuff', 'I am a technical person hence I get it better', 'what's technicality to do with literature, oh I doubt you're even a person', 'you're an idiot!', 'No, you call me idiot, you're an idiot yourself'., etc etc. I'm sure you must have got the drift by now. 😆

PS Those just examples above to explain how such discussions usually go on. Please don't jump on me saying I quoted x y z person out of the desire to put them down.

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kavita

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Posted: 8 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti
Hey I agree with you to some extent...but in love marriages you can't go for horoscopes seriously..I don't know the importance of horoscope generally but if vandana is denying this relationship based on Pandits word's then I don't like it..but the point is vandana saw Maya breaking glass seeing sajun together and she must be actually worried for that obsessive side of Maya..but as how people assume that vandana deep in her heart wants saanjh blah blah and blah that's nonsense..these are all fictional characters and you can only read thier dialogue s and actions and not thier mind...that's the height of stupidity...if they want to show what the character thinks only then you can say ,yes vandana thinks this way and that way!!! But how can you mind read a fictional character and keep on arguing if it was saanjh vandana winter accept kundli,,,does this makes any sense!!! This is called peoples illusion and not characters...one can't argue with these delusional thoughts...look how you spoke about vandana and now the topic is changed to saanjh and vandana..have you seen anyone making a topic on how arjun will feel by such manipulations!!have you seen anyone Cates for arjun,no they won't...above all MAYA HERSELF BELIEVES KUNDLI AND SHE FEARS ABOUT IT!!!SO WILL PEOPLE CALL MAYA AS A HYPOCRITE.IF SHE DOESNT BELIEVE THEN SHE WONT BE AFRAID OF THAT KUNDLI NONSENSE AND WONT FEEL DISTURBED...

It is not an assumption that Vandana wants Saanjh. It is a fact in that show. That is what I've been emphasizing that no one checks the horoscopes in love marriages. Some families don't even do that in arranged marriages too. They tell their children if you like the guy or the girl, go ahead. No marriage is perfect. One has to face whatever comes whether good or bad.

There are many instances which indicated that Vandana wants Saanjh as her DIL. When Maya bailed out Ayaan, she was not that happy as Maya did that. When she united Arjun with Vandana, even then she was not happy. As far her breaking the glass during the party, anyone would react like that when their love interest dances with their best buddies especially when they make out love in that friend's eyes for her love interest. Even normal persons react that way. Maya fears the kundli only because of what the pundit said in Mauritius.

Vandana's family astrologer predicted more positives than negatives but she is taking what is convenient to her.

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#67

Vandana is a woman whose honor was protected by a man by marrying her. She herself said that too Saanjh that Arjun's father decided to marry her because society was making so many unwanted comments about her because she was staying with a widower and the motherless child. Theirs was not a love marriage. But a man's consideration towards a woman who has been caring for his child who is left motherless. He didnt wanted society to tarnish that woman's name and the respectable thing he could do to her was marrying her. And yes they fell in love later and had a son.

Vandana is a woman who has experienced what society talks and the reality are two different things. What society sees and the reality are two different things. Such a woman is going to rip apart the honor of a girl publicly. I am not sure whether she will call Maya insane publicly, but if she does that for me her character touches the nadir. Because fine you dont want your son to marry the so called insane girl, your problem, maybe you are right as a mother, but without knowing whether she is actually insane or she has a medical condition you wreck her reputation, if that girl go and do suicide who will you blame , yaa it will be easy she is insane so she did it or blame the fate. Hatam kissa. She does not deserved to be called human if she makes that public accusation of Maya being insane.

And whose words she is taking. Ashwin. Who kidnapped her, about whom Maya was talking in the press conference about the abuses she suffered.

And she calls Saanjh. I would really like to ask her if she had a daughter who loved a man and that man is marrying another girl, would she have send her daugther to solve that couple's problem. Will you do that with your daughter. Answer is no. You will only do what Suman does. Support your daughter to come out of the grief, not send her again and again in front of the man who has left her for another woman.

What Vandana doing to Maya is incorrect , what she doing to Saanjh is also incorrect. She treats Maya like other girl and Saanjh her DIL, who should be available to solve all her and her family's problem.

Prem behaved like a father who has a daughter whose feelings are hurt by the man whose marriage is going to happen. He cannot pretend he likes Arjun or happy about what all he is doing. He is angry and he showed it. Prem is one character I like most in the show. Because he is direct. He doesnt hide his feelings. His words and actions match mostly on the positive side.

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Saranya

@charanyaaj

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Posted: 8 years ago

#68

Guys what's happening? The thread totally become warzone like someone said yesterday.
Please it's my POV on vandana's character and it's not necessary that everyone should accept our views. Everyone has different POV and I think it's nothing wrong in expressing our views. Healthy argument is good but here it's going somewhere.

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Yanci

@angelk1

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Posted: 8 years ago

#69

First off, the comments coming from Maya fans are funny and very polite ... indeed. But anyway, I'm extremely shock people can read my mind since I'm supporting saanj an Vandana, they say. But like everyone cry about being accused of being obsess. Theirs nothing wrong with that. I'm so obsess that by the end of this post, I will have four to five paragraph . This show is like a drug, I just want to get on my flying unicorn and spread it to the world bringing gay happy thoughts -_-, that's how much obsess I am.

Anyway, I don't mind the blaming game, but I don't think anyone should speak for everyone else about the reason they support a character. Some are neutral people who only writes about the characters pros an cons, while others try to make others see reasoning, like the opposite partie. Lets be honest here, we're all at each others neck talking bad about saanj or Maya. No one is right or wrong. Everyone is intitled To their own opinion.

This forum is categories by three audience, Mayas fan, saanj fan and the neutral. Maya fans is obviously the bigger party. Thats why everywhere you turn, some are commenting and repeating the same post. some of saanj and Vandana doing I don't support. I'm not even a saanj or Maya fan. But it's crazy how I ended up defending saanj after seeing so much bashing on her character. The same could be said with vandana.

If you sympathize with Maya and post a forum about it, I don't give a flying squirrel. the Same with saanj, which is a rare case. to end this wonderful post, we're all beyhadh ohana which means family. Which also means we're all obsess.

Edited by angelk1 - 8 years ago

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Yanci

@angelk1

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Posted: 8 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

It is not an assumption that Vandana wants Saanjh. It is a fact in that show. That is what I've been emphasizing that no one checks the horoscopes in love marriages. Some families don't even do that in arranged marriages too. They tell their children if you like the guy or the girl, go ahead. No marriage is perfect. One has to face whatever comes whether good or bad.

There are many instances which indicated that Vandana wants Saanjh as her DIL. When Maya bailed out Ayaan, she was not that happy as Maya did that. When she united Arjun with Vandana, even then she was not happy. As far her breaking the glass during the party, anyone would react like that when their love interest dances with their best buddies especially when they make out love in that friend's eyes for her love interest. Even normal persons react that way. Maya fears the kundli only because of what the pundit said in Mauritius.

Vandana's family astrologer predicted more positives than negatives but she is taking what is convenient to her.

I disagree about the last part. Maya prays to the gods yes, but durring the trip, when Arjun asks the pandit to read Maya hand, wasn't Maya the one who hesitated and told Arjun to leave. Matter fact it was more then one time. But with Arjun reassurance she agreed to it. You said Maya fear the kudal. Only because of what the pandit said. But I disagree. That scene was just to weird, I think there's more to Maya being afraid of her kudli , something deeper that even jhanvi knows.

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