I suppot Vandana and her POV

I just come across such post like Maya deserves happiness and she suffered a lot and all...
I support vandana in this case. Which mom accept a dil like maya? Practically speaking it is not possible. I feel maya feels arjun is her possession I realised in the way she proposed him in parachute if he said no then????
So for maya she wants everything should be in her favour. I feel it's not true love she wants to possess arjun. She is doing all these things for that.
I agree maya deserves to be happy, she faced a lot of problem likewise arjun also deserves to live peaceful life. Do you guys think is it possible if he marry maya? That is vandana's pov. For a mother her child's happiness is important. Like how jhanvi hiding and supporting maya's truth from arjun and whole world.
I don't know whether arjun loves maya truly or not but he deserve to know the truth. If he accept maya then he is truly in love with her. What if he is not ready to accept the truth?? Then also she will face same kind of problem like ashwin did. It will increase her problem more. She deserves to be happy only it is possible if arjun knows the whole truth and ready to accept her. Then only all her problem will reduce.
Hiding truth is not solution for anything...

No comments on vandana.
But on arjun, he himself stopped her yesterday and stated he is only intersted in her present and future

Originally posted by: sellysona

No comments on vandana.
But on arjun, he himself stopped her yesterday and stated he is only intersted in her present and future

How a mom will stop caring about his son's life? She is doing this for a long time even arjun was not spkg with her. If he says to stop caring it's not necessary to stop worrying about him.

Take an applause first because it takes courage to come out in support of Vandana in this forum because the moment you talk about Saanjh or Vandana's pro attributes or talk about how realistic their fears, insecurities and reactions are majority of the times, your topic has great chances to turn into a war zone. 👏 You made good points and I agree with them.

yes, I have seen few posts like Maya deserves happiness, she suffered a lot blah blah.. but for a mother, her child's happiness comes first, when jhanvi can do anything, even think of killing someone, for her daughter's happiness, then why not vandana just think of cancelling the wedding, for her son's happiness. It had been saanjh earlier, people said she was irritating, getting in between arya etc. Now people are saying Vandana is irritating. To be frank, people want their favorite jodi to end up together. Anyway I think Vandana is correct in her terms.

Originally posted by: charanyaaj

How a mom will stop caring about his son's life? She is doing this for a long time even arjun was not spkg with her. If he says to stop caring it's not necessary to stop worrying about him.

Okay, to ans your this question i would like to ask u a question. In earlier episodes, pandit had said that about arjun ending up alone with all wealth and fame and sanjh to have bad times and have to fight etc etc..
Pandit clearly indicated that sanjh arjun are not going to get together. But still, she pushed sanjh to go for arjun. If she believes so much in predictions she must hve stop her pushing sanjh and would rather concentrate on teaching arjun not to get lost in riches. But she didnt evn cared for pandit words that tme.
And again, this new pandit told her all good points about maya arjun shadi and only one bad point that maya has obessive love.
A good elder would talk to both her son and maya and settle the matter. She knws arjun loves maya.. So she must thn try to guide maya towards right path.. Frankly you knw, i know, we know about maya manipulations. Vandana doesnt know. But still she is acting wierd..
I can consider her worry for her son, but which good elder tries to stop shadi chupke chupke. She is a woman herself. She herself have been scorned by society but still she is not once thinking about what would happen to a girl left in mandap
.. If she wants to stop wedding she must tell directly to arjun and request him pr blackmail or whatevr she cn do to stop shadi.. But leading a girl to mandap and thn taking away her groom is cruelity..
If she had a daughter of bad nature, will she try to guide her no matter what she does or would isolate her. Would she expect that a man leaves her daughter on marriage mandap if her daughter was rude or dominating etc.

Vandana problm is not pandit predictions. Her problm is maya. The day arjun officaly introduced her as his love aftr mauritius trip, that tym too she was behaving like maya is witch.
Seeing a girl break glass bcoz she waa jealous of seeing her love interst and his frnd together is not that terrifying to justify vandana behaviour. Evn in real life few ppl gets madly jealous and breaks things. Those ppl are not evil or witch..

I jus tink vandana is a hypocrite & nutn more than dat..

I frankly dont want to comment on vandana care bcoz i may havr diff views..
But still, her ways of breaking shadi is not right.. A good caring elder will not act sneaky as she is doing..

And also i would like to add, ppl telling that few ppl want thier jodi to happen so commenting against vandana. I would like to say ppl supporting vandana are those ppl who support saanjh arjun..
Actualy thy are not supporting vandana bcoz thy think she is right. Thy think vandana is right bcoz she is on saanjh side. .
Infact ppl will support ashwin also if he does something which is good for saanjh .

I agree wid u @sellysona..

Originally posted by: sellysona

I frankly dont want to comment on vandana care bcoz i may havr diff views..
But still, her ways of breaking shadi is not right.. A good caring elder will not act sneaky as she is doing..

And also i would like to add, ppl telling that few ppl want thier jodi to happen so commenting against vandana. I would like to say ppl supporting vandana are those ppl who support saanjh arjun..
Actualy thy are not supporting vandana bcoz thy think she is right. Thy think vandana is right bcoz she is on saanjh side. .
Infact ppl will support ashwin also if he does something which is good for saanjh .

no girl, you are wrong. I support vandana, but i don't have any pair up issues, I don't support saanjh arjun jodi or maya arjun jodi. I just watch this serial for its different concept. The fact is I started liking this serial for it is not like other typical romantic serials. I will stop watching it once there is no excitement.