I suppot Vandana and her POV - Page 8

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

War zone as in a combat area in which the rights of neutrals (or either or both or all parties) are suspended. The problem is never in having healthy, tolerant and peaceful discussions/debates.

- The problems lies where people (generally speaking, don't mistake it for anyone in particular) refuse to back down and rest their cases.

- The problem is when inspite of having told the same points over and over again, people need to have an upper hand in the last.

- The problem is when people mock each other carelessly under the pretext of discussing characters, use the characters as a shield to make a certain comment against each other or offend each other personally.

You know how it mostly goes? 'You are a Maya fan, that is why you think she is right', 'No, you're a Saanjh fan and thus the need to justify her', 'No, you're just as obsessed as Maya is', 'No, you are just as obsessed as Saanjh is', 'You get Vandana? why? Because she likes Saanjh. Oooh, hidden agenda there', 'How can you like both Maya and Saanjh, oh, it must be because you can't read characters well', 'you are literature person, a literature person purely assumes stuff', 'I am a technical person hence I get it better', 'what's technicality to do with literature, oh I doubt you're even a person', 'you're an idiot!', 'No, you call me idiot, you're an idiot yourself'., etc etc. I'm sure you must have got the drift by now. 😆

PS Those just examples above to explain how such discussions usually go on. Please don't jump on me saying I quoted x y z person out of the desire to put them down.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

It is not an assumption that Vandana wants Saanjh. It is a fact in that show. That is what I've been emphasizing that no one checks the horoscopes in love marriages. Some families don't even do that in arranged marriages too. They tell their children if you like the guy or the girl, go ahead. No marriage is perfect. One has to face whatever comes whether good or bad.

There are many instances which indicated that Vandana wants Saanjh as her DIL. When Maya bailed out Ayaan, she was not that happy as Maya did that. When she united Arjun with Vandana, even then she was not happy. As far her breaking the glass during the party, anyone would react like that when their love interest dances with their best buddies especially when they make out love in that friend's eyes for her love interest. Even normal persons react that way. Maya fears the kundli only because of what the pundit said in Mauritius.

Vandana's family astrologer predicted more positives than negatives but she is taking what is convenient to her.

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

That's what I'm saying... Unless it gets personal it's not wrong.

I got ur pov but here ppl started attacking personally like for eg. Idiots thing & etc.

And yeah what is with this "u r so courageous that u had put ur views on saanjh" did anyone here objected anyone to not put views on saanjh ? No right ! Then why all saanjh fans are or may be neutral too making it seem like people whoever put views on saanjh are not allowed.

And yeah few people here who are posting saying they are just writing neutrally like u said...but I didn't find such posts neutral bcoz if the person is neutral the post shud be saying abt all Characters pros & cons but such posts always have only negatives of maya .and all positives of saanjh. Honestly I appreciated a girl here.. I forgot her name but recently a post was made and many maya fans didn't comment on that post but I did responded positively to that post bcoz that was clearly neutral. So the thing is.. people are doing something & saying something.

I don't understand😕 what's the point to say neutral then ?

May be this's what making it a warzone !

Originally posted by: angelk1

So if a person is neutral they should write about all characters.if they have nothing to say about the others then what. And from what I have seen, I don't see many positive post about saanj, it's either she's pagal, the worst, she should turn negative, she should die,s he has no right, she's not smart, she's obsess, more shaded, cry baby, she's nosy, she's a stalker, she's mad, she's a thief, she's coming in between, if anyone should die it should be saanj, and the list goes on an on. I've only read three post that are Good, but other then That where's the rest.

Originally posted by: angelk1

So if a person is neutral they should write about all characters.if they have nothing to say about the others then what. And from what I have seen, I don't see many positive post about saanj, it's either she's pagal, the worst, she should turn negative, she should die,s he has no right, she's not smart, she's obsess, more shaded, cry baby, she's nosy, she's a stalker, she's mad, she's a thief, she's coming in between, if anyone should die it should be saanj, and the list goes on an on. I've only read three post that are Good, but other then That where's the rest.

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

And not only that saanjh will come into suhaagraat of ArYa...so what is this language,the person who assassinated a character in the name of opinion ..

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

Look i didn't asked to write about all but if a person is neutral to a show or a character then that character pros & cons both shud be included.

But many posts in name of neutral writes only either positive of one Character or completely negative on one.

See I follow Shruthi di posts. That seems neutral to me bcoz she writes out like neutral one.

For eg she has written maya's over confidence will break soon even I agreed on that point bcoz it's time she will break atleast once & fall & get up too. and always it's not win-win thing for all.

But only few posts here are in that way. Sometimes even I disagree in Shruthi post but that doesn't mean she's not neutral that time. It's completely her opinion. But her opinions vary time to time but not all posts here are like that which say they are neutral that's what I'm saying.

I'm not saying I'm a neutral one , I'm obsessed maya fan or Jen fan whatever u think. But for me maya char is more connected in this show.

And even I like ashwin guy for his cunning char & his acting.

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

What is this language when ppl say "maya is a bitch" "Mays is an over glorified vamp" " maya is psycho" ???

In the name of opinion even I have seen such things. So chill !😆

Originally posted by: angelk1

I've said it many times before, I sympathize with Maya, but theirs somethings I don't agree with. But for once I agree with your whole post. I agree not to disagree, but instead to agree.