Like Seriously..!! Updates Page 9 - Page 7

Originally posted by: NeverBeDismayed

Saaanjh is a r***d of first order.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

Maya's medical insurance rejected 3 times, Maya's behaviour is NOT Normal: U want me to give u more recent examples for that? Then here: No normal person sets fire to the office floor to 'test' someone's love. No normal person would transfer all the shares of their company to someone, even someone as close as their fiance. Maya did not think once about Arjun's reputation. All she is doing is making sure she and her mom are safeguarded from Ashwin. She's making Arjun a puppet, literally who in the future is not going to think on his own. His actions, his thoughts will be Maya's.

Coming back to the point, u want to believe that Saanjh 'dug' into Mayas bag then go ahead. Buy I will give it the benefit of doubt and wait until tonight. And even if Saanjh has dug into Mayas bag then given the circumstances I see no wrong in it. Its necessary for her to reach the truth.

Maya has done worse than that by getting her forcefully sacked.

If ur trying to protect ur love, doesn't mean u can dominate over someone's life and choices. There were huge debates and ul argued why that was not unethical, then how come u calling Saanjh unethical now?

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

First of all I salute you for being so courageous to share the details about your life.I know that what you had to go through cannot be undone but I hope that you won't stop being happy and optimistic.You have an entire life ahead of yourself and you will find happiness and security for sure.And remember one thing.You are NOT mad.Neither you nor your parents.You just have a lot of emotional baggage to deal with.

Not only in India but in many places all over the world,the word 'depression' and 'therapy' is a taboo.And it's a sad reality that even some educated people choose to believe that.The society doesn't waste a single moment before deeming such a person to be a 'mad' person.And that's why such people find it tough to opt for counselling even if it's a method to heal them.They are afraid because people will call them 'mad','mental' and what not.They choose to suffer silently and bear the mental and emotional carnage.

I have seen a somewhat similar case in which one of my cousins had slipped into depression because of her failed marriage.Moreover when she was married,her husbands and in laws used to taunt her on a regular basis.They made her feel worthless.Though she got out of that marriage,she could not get her peace of mind.She knows that she needs therapy and counselling but she is afraid to do so.

Now coming back to Beyhadh and Saanjh's actions,I have mixed feelings about it.She is going overboard with her detectivegiri.There was no need for her to pry into Maya's medical files and even if she found out that Maya is suffering from depression,she shouldn't have told Arjun about it.I call that interference in someone's personal life.It's Maya's problem and Maya's decision to tell Arjun.At some point she has to stop meddling in Maya and Arjun's life.

But at the same time I do not think that Saanjh has formed an opinion about Maya based on her depression issues.She has not termed Maya to be 'mental' or 'crazy'.Or atleast we haven't got any voiceover about that.She found out this information about Maya and decided to tell it to Arjun.I don't see her judging Maya on the basis of her depression.Though I admit that it was wrong on her part to tell it to Arjun.If she had found out something then she should have spoken to Maya first.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

This is a well written and unbiased post. Saanjh has not termed Maya as mental or crazy but she definitely has that in her mind. That is why she is behaving like that. As a friend, she can be concerned about Arjun's well-being but friendship has to be within its limits.

Maya has got her own reasons for not revealing these to Arjun. She can tell these only when she is fully confident that he will not leave her no matter what. Her insecurity level is very high which can be reduced only when she gets an assurance that her loved ones will stand for her. She had a rough phase in her life which makes her afraid. Saanjh is knowingly or unknowingly being insensitive towards her.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

Maya's medical insurance rejected 3 times, Maya's behaviour is NOT Normal: U want me to give u more recent examples for that? Then here: No normal person sets fire to the office floor to 'test' someone's love. No normal person would transfer all the shares of their company to someone, even someone as close as their fiance. Maya did not think once about Arjun's reputation. All she is doing is making sure she and her mom are safeguarded from Ashwin. She's making Arjun a puppet, literally who in the future is not going to think on his own. His actions, his thoughts will be Maya's.

Coming back to the point, u want to believe that Saanjh 'dug' into Mayas bag then go ahead. Buy I will give it the benefit of doubt and wait until tonight. And even if Saanjh has dug into Mayas bag then given the circumstances I see no wrong in it. Its necessary for her to reach the truth.

Maya has done worse than that by getting her forcefully sacked.

If ur trying to protect ur love, doesn't mean u can dominate over someone's life and choices. There were huge debates and ul argued why that was not unethical, then how come u calling Saanjh unethical now?

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

TM, my best wishes for you. You have suffered so much and still standing strong and proud, may God be with you in darkest times. 🤗❤️

Never liked sanjh but If I play devil's advocate...If we see something wrong in a guy/girl our bffs are in relationship we do a bit poking right? Maybe bitching with others for information, for eg. I didn't like how she went through Maya's purse but I understand her motivation. What she needed to do was sir with Arjun at HOME ,not running after him in office, tell what we suspicion she had then leave the matter. She feels protective of him, if tomorrow it's revealed that Maya was trapping Arjun (in her head) she will blame herself. The reason it's coming off as so wrong is her 24/7 being around them, and previous we have seen how she lives in her delusional world and often clingy, for a lack of better term.

Now don't think I belong to any FD. Loving Jenny.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Maya is gray from the beginning of the show & Saanjh will be white. These are the things which have been told to us. But if Saanjh is really white, she has to bring out Maya's truth without compromising with her level. Threatening her about the earring, eavesdropping, overhearing the conversation between the couple, checking her personal files and her bag without her permission are much below her dignity.

If you are talking about getting Saanjh sacked forcefully, she is Multani's client and these things are common in a private firm. Having said this, I'm not saying that it is right. If she wishes to keep an eye on her, it is because of her insecurity. I agree that it can't be justified but then what can you expect from a person who is not emotionally stable? But is it necessary for a white character like Saanjh to go to that level to protect her friend? If Saanjh too stoops to this level, what is the difference between the two when it comes to obsession?