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Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Saanjh is Arjun's best friend but friendship has to be within its limits. Just to get the information, it is not a right thing to look at someone's personal files, especially her boss. Woh jis thaali se khana khaati hain, usi thaali ko chhed karti hain.

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

wrong now she is cheif legal adviser to arjun . n thats what she will do she will confront him . infact she tried to speak to him. if she would have done this without any instigation, if her goal was to prove maya insane to separate maya n arjun than i would have agreed to u. but here she gets email, insurance file in her desk . email doesn't not say save maya but save arjun. she went over board with jasoosi antics. i would have taken printout of that email n given to arjun n allowed arjun to decide what he wants. frankly i wouldn't have wasted so much of tym on him . but this saanjh who not only loved him but his frn . their bond is hatke so she will go little extra mile unlike normal people/general frns.

Originally posted by: thelostgirl

If best friends protective nature is like this i dont want any best frnds

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I know it gets suffocating to have somebody hovering over all the time deciding for you what's good and bad even if they mean no harm but it causes harm in that relationship like when Arjun started lying to saanjh
All I want to see is the progressing changes in dynamics of their relationship between all of them be it saanjh and Arjun and saanjh and aayan and most definitely Arjun and maya and some bond between maya and ayaan and hoping some positive in this drama

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

^^ i am not justifying her spygiri , but i don't think her intentions are to separate arjun n maya. she has turned inquisitive after all those evidence she got . she never stated any where ( dialogues / Voiceover ) that she thinks maya is not suitable for marriage because she sufffers from depression.

Originally posted by: DriftInfinitely

^^I don't think being extra close is a legitimate excuse to encroach upon people's personal space.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Every person would need counseling at some point and if required, they also go to the psychiatrist. Many people have got the misconception that those who go for counseling or to the psychiatrist are insane which is not true. One of my dad's sister has a mental problem. My dad says she was initially fine but suddenly she felt that somebody is following her and she was afraid of going to school. My grandpa failed to understand her and was beating her up for refusing to go to school. It had mentally affected her.

My dad says that going to the psychiatrist does more harm than good as they will put you on pills which make you sleep but that is not a fact. I had lost my mom at a very young age say 22 years. I had also undergone the treatment to get over this shock though my dad was against it. He was thinking that the pills will induce sleep but they had helped me in my well being.

Coming to the show, Arjun is not a kid. He is capable of deciding for himself. She is more protective towards Arjun than his family which means something is definitely wrong with Saanjh.

Originally posted by: DriftInfinitely

Saanjh may not have stated that she thinks her depression is a problem, but her actions do suggest that she believes this to be the case. That she has issues with Maya's mental illness can be seen from the way she reacted to finding the hints about Maya's mental problem.

The CVs will probably make what she is thinking clearer in the upcoming episodes.

If in the future she joins hands with Ashwin, I would be very surprised that Saanjh cannot see how manipulative and shady Ashwin is.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Depression is not a valid reason for Arya to separate. In some cases, it is love which helps a person to overcome depression. Same is the case with Maya. Arjun loves Maya immensely. Vandana, Ayaan, Prem, and Suman are also fine with it but it is Saanjh who is behaving like that. She is no one to decide about others life.

Originally posted by: ishakumar

@lostgirl
I knew that you were young but my the innocent way in which you write your message!
Im also young lol
Only 20 :)