Shiv should control Anandi

Dominating husband is the last thing Anandi needs in her life but i feel Shiv should control Anandi to some extent...from now on he should striclty tell her to keep away from Saanchi and leave her alone...Saanchi was at fault for being so rude to Shiv but not at fault for being rude to Anandi...Anandi is actually suffocating Saanchi with hercare...she is inviting situation where Saanchi can insult her...it would be very stupid if even after all this Anandi would serve Saanchi...she should striclty tell Ira that she won't take any responsibility for a girl who seems to consider her nothing...Saanchi isn't really that small child that won't understand anything...Shiv's easy hands and letting Anandi do whatever she wants makes many situations more messy than needed...Anandi always needs someone to tell her where to stop

Originally posted by: libsrocks

Dominating husband is the last thing Anandi needs in her life but i feel Shiv should control Anandi to some extent...from now on he should striclty tell her to keep away from Saanchi and leave her alone...Saanchi was at fault for being so rude to Shiv but not at fault for being rude to Anandi...Anandi is actually suffocating Saanchi with hercare...she is inviting situation where Saanchi can insult her...it would be very stupid if even after all this Anandi would serve Saanchi...she should striclty tell Ira that she won't take any responsibility for a girl who seems to consider her nothing...Saanchi isn't really that small child that won't understand anything...Shiv's easy hands and letting Anandi do whatever she wants makes many situations more messy than needed...Anandi always needs someone to tell her where to stop

well that's the crux isnt it?

Originally posted by: Shinya

@BOLD-- I completely completely with you.

In stead of screaming at sanchi, he should have told Anandi not to interfere in sanchi's life.

Sanchi is a grown up woman who knows what she is doing. Moreover, she never once interfered in ananid's life.. So why is anandi after her life?

sanchi interefered in anandi's life from the beginning as she was not her type. Even when anandi was not interacting with her, sanchi took every opportunity to humiliate anandi.
Ira will find fault with anandi if she keeps away from serving sanchi. Ira will start mujhe pata hain tum sanchi ko pasand nahi karti.

Shiv is kind of hypocritical and also seems flawed/clueless in how he deals with others. He just left it to Anandi to win over everyone. He did not help her get a sense of what his family was like or actively help her adjust and engage with individuals. He also didn't help his family deal with Anandi, instead just shouted at them and still does the same when he finds them ill-treating Anandi.

Instead of merely telling Anandi to leave Sanchi alone he should also talk to Ira and Alok and tell them to keep the lead in dealing with Sanchi. Ira can put responsibility of household on bahu but can't make bahu take responsbility of her kids! Anandi is not Sanchi's mom!

Shiv should know that he has more influence over Sanchi than new-entry Anandi. When he gets time he should deal with Sanchi himself more often than leave Anandi or others to deal with her.

Shekhars have to accept that Sanchi hasn't accepted Anandi a part of her family and life yet. Instead of forcing Anandi on Sanchi they should continue to take care of Sanchi like they used to, earlier. Discussions on Sanchi, main say in her matters should still be there and Anandi shouldn't be involved if Sanchi does not like it.

Shekhars claim they care for Sanchi. But they don't. In SaJa case also they fought for their ego than for Sanchi alone. They are more concerned about Sanchi accepting Anandi or mending her own ways herself or someone else taking care of her than taking any responsibility as her family themselves!

Why a man cannot control her wife...even a child knows the answer for this.Do I need to write down that... 😉

Sanchi interfered with anandi's life by insisting to be married to Jagya, anandi's ex. She also tried to get closer to BH than anandi.
While anandi's intereference in sanchi's life is that of a well wisher, sanchi's interference was dangerous.
That cake thing is not childishness. Seems someone is trying to join shekhars by calling sanchi's acts as childishness than viciousness.
While anandi's acts are irritating, sanchi's actions and reactions are not only irritating but outright vicious.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Shiv is kind of hypocritical and also seems flawed/clueless in how he deals with others. He just left it to Anandi to win over everyone. He did not help her get a sense of what his family was like or actively help her adjust and engage with individuals. He also didn't help his family deal with Anandi, instead just shouted at them and still does the same when he finds them ill-treating Anandi.

Instead of merely telling Anandi to leave Sanchi alone he should also talk to Ira and Alok and tell them to keep the lead in dealing with Sanchi. Ira can put responsibility of household on bahu but can't make bahu take responsbility of her kids! Anandi is not Sanchi's mom!

Shiv should know that he has more influence over Sanchi than new-entry Anandi. When he gets time he should deal with Sanchi himself more often than leave Anandi or others to deal with her.

Shekhars have to accept that Sanchi hasn't accepted Anandi a part of her family and life yet. Instead of forcing Anandi on Sanchi they should continue to take care of Sanchi like they used to, earlier. Discussions on Sanchi, main say in her matters should still be there and Anandi shouldn't be involved if Sanchi does not like it.

Shekhars claim they care for Sanchi. But they don't. In SaJa case also they fought for their ego than for Sanchi alone. They are more concerned about Sanchi accepting Anandi or mending her own ways herself or someone else taking care of her than taking any responsibility as her family themselves!

When Bhairon was insulted by sanchi non stop, shiv kept quiet. And also anandi did not open her mouth. When shiv himself is mildly insulted by sanchi anandi lashes out. And shiv acts victimised. This same shiv could not admonish sanchi when she was being rude to Bhairon, anandi. ganga(trying to slap) etc. Now let him pay the price.

Nowadays, KB has become such a place where sadistic people are thriving, it is a relief to see Jagya, ganga. But the shadow of KB is falling on them in a big way in the form of anup.