Ganga should not have refused - Page 6

kools,

Originally posted by: sectoreight

As for Jagya, his actions are very disappointing in the context of his so-called "redemption"

He gave big big speeches on his "usool" and "sahi vs. galat" and his "personal responsibility" and at the first sign of trouble he put his tail between his legs and ran.

All these big words "usool" etc. are tested when times are tough.

Anybody can say "I will not steal" this is my usool when they have a lot of money in their pocket.

The true test comes when there is no money in the pocket.

So usool is not something that you follow only when times are good. and at the first sign of anger from anandi or sumitra that you dump.

In addition, he has still not learned the value of communication.

Even if he didn't like anandi, in the context of her being his wife (atleast knowing that she thought he was his wife, whether he agreed to the child marriage or not)... he still had a responsibility to communicate to her that he was not feeling happy, here is what is going on in his life etc.. etc...

Same with ganga ... even if he had prefaced his Jaipur statement and request for marksheets to ganga with two sentences "Ganga, I know I offered you a job, but I am sorry, the current circumstances in my household with my mom and my wife-to-be don't allow for me to keep you here, will you please forgive me? May I find you a job somewhere else" ... that would still have been decent.

Once again he just glossed over his past promise without acknowledging it, or her understanding of the situation.

He is clearly the slimy skank that he always was.

This is what I felt too. He just cant communicate properly when it is really important. He is so abrupt and curt.

exactly.

A good intentioned person like Jagya is misunderstood by so many people around him like sumitra, anandi and now ganga too.

ganga on her part must ponder over the thoughts before those sentences uttered by Jagya and think that this is how Jagya is. Andar se soft uper say abrupt.

Some men are like that. Good at heart but bad at communication skills.

Jagya has perfectly good communication skills. He has spoken to a lot of people about his feelings on this matter and communicated with crystal clear precision.

Interesting debate going on here. 😊

I think it is the CVs, their haphazard and rushed handling of the story and characters that are to be blamed for this mess.

- They dragged Anandi in all this by making DS have her convince Jagya for remarriage and Jagya also extract a promise from her that she'd help him choose the right life partner for him.

- They made things murky by stretching Sanchi's infatuation with Jagya too much!

- They now made Anandi give this lecture to Jagya on responsibility despite her being aware that Ganga loves Jagya and Jagya certainly does not like Sanchi. She doesn't know about Jagya's feelings for Ganga but at least knows he does not like her. So why make her lecture him?

- Why did they make Anandi tell Ganga to take care of Singhs? Why did they have her help Ganga in understanding their likes and dislikes and teaching her stuff? Why did they make her lash out at Singhs when Ganga left at midnight? Why all this if later she had to be shown not thinking about her and rather lecturing Jagya over responsibilities towards Sanchi now?

- They made Jagya questionable and subject of accusations again in two ways:

First they made him give promises and reassurances to Shiv and Ira about this marriage with Sanchi - despite his Clear dislike and incompatibility with Sanchi. (Anybody would then question him for not coming clean on his feelings or for not fulfilling his responsibilities if he really was sure about this alliance)

Second, they made him run towards Ganga and think of her all the time and even admit love for her (to himself) YET in last episode they made him suddenly cut off from her by offering her a job elsewhere and saying to himself that Ganga changed upon going outside!

- What CVs are doing with DS is also a mystery! Why does she make a face when Sumitra gets eager for SaJa marriage? What does that show? 😲
They have kept her silent and sidelined the main person who was responsible for going all out for Jagya's remarriage! No one knows what is on her mind!

- Why was Lal Singh silent all these months on Ganga? Why didn't he tell about her love for Jagya to Jagya earlier? How does it make sense to tell all this after his engagement to someone else?
Let's assume Anandi did not tell because she was in an awkward position caught between Singhs and Shekhars. But LS was free from such pressures! So why the hell was he silent all this while? Had he told this earlier to Jagya then this would have helped Jagya get more clarity too!

- How come Shekhars are clueless about Sanchi and think of her as ready for marriage to Jagya despite obvious lapses in her drama every now and then? Shiv could easily catch Jagya's amnesia drama. Why couldn't he sense his sister's drama yet?

- Why does Sumitra hate Ganga so much and is still fixated on her? Earlier it was understandable that she was shaken by Rat's attacks on the family in pursuit of Ganga and Mannu. What is there now that Rat is in jail and Ganga is also away? Has she sensed Jagya or Ganga have fallen for each other??

- Ganga is sometimes hopelessly attached to Jagya and weeps at seeing him with Sanchi. Sometimes she is herself willing to stay away for sake of peace in his family and his marriage with Sanchi.
At one point she said to herself that they were leaving Jetsar forever. Yet at other point she kept thinking of Jagya, was overjoyed at his visit and also expected to get a job at his hospital.

What does she exactly want?

How fair is it for her to weep for or be attached to a man who is about to be married to someone else?
After all, wasn't she the one who had earlier scolded Jagya for thinking of Anandi ji who was someone else's wife? (After that Holi hug in an inebriated state by Jagya to her when he called her Anandi)

She only knows that Jagya cares a lot for her and Mannu. She has not yet learnt that he loves her too. Then why all crying and feelings of attachment?

Also, at times she acts strong and is willing to sacrifice her love and subdue her feelings. But in next episode CVs make her weepy for Jagya/Singhs again!

I don't understand what CVs are doing to Ganga!

- What do Singhs want?! They keep sending gifts for Ganga through Jagya or once DS herself visited her. But they keep having quarrels in the house due to her. If they consider her as just someone they helped and shared a good relationship with, then why increase her attachment further by sending her gifts?

There are lot of questions thrown up by recent episodes. Characters do one thing in one episode but do something else in next episode! 😕

Ganga got the right clue ...she sensed Jagya wants to distant her himself and jaitsar.
She took right decision IMO, if cut the ties them cut it properly, she knows what are the problems she being there at jaitsar. She always had her mind at right place...but cant control her heart, so this distance can help.

But she feels it is due to her and dont know its his love and for her which is making him take this decision.

They understood each other...but They never talked about it...love cant be taken for granted and it doesnt have a room in such tight situation.

Misunderstanding is from Jagya's POV...he is walking on tight rope...cant skip it unless he is clear about the situation that Sanchi is fake for his family and Ganga and his love is mutual...then all will be clear for him.

Originally posted by: Truthseeker

No leaves, a girl who has self respect lives with it all the time irrespective of whether she is in love or not. These women(Sanchi, Ganga) we are talking about , don't have it basically. So they don't show it. Wrong on my part to expect that.

The problem is the present lovestory is not fully developed. Instead they are showing sacrifices, saving lives, promises etc. And in tv soaps self respect and sufferings of a woman dont go together.

@ Skepblun - loved your last post

What makes ganga's track tolerable is the presence of mannu.If there was no mannu, her track would not have got much sympathy inspite of all her sufferings.

What makes Jagya's track tolerable is that he has not fallen in love with sanchi and starts giving her lots of hopes and dreams.. If he does it, he will lose any sympathy that is now being generated.

What makes anandi's track tolerable is the presence of shiv. Without Shiv's soothing presence, it will be somewhat difficult.