Ganga should not have refused - Page 5

Originally posted by: santhiyaa_J

Ganga is having self-respect so she don't want his help not like Anandi seeking haveli members help B4 marrying Shiv

Anandi had packed her suitcase at once and was ready to leave when Jagya entered with Gauri. It was DS who had a heart attack and could not bear to see her leave.

Anandi was family of Singhs. She was married to Jagya.

She was not a stranger rescued from roads. Hence Singhs had attachment with her and stopped her from leaving.
She supported them emotionally when their son left. She restored their lost respect with her good work about the village. Or else Singhs were shamed in front of the entire village!

Don't drag Anandi in all discussions about Ganga.

Originally posted by: sectoreight

Certainly, but his timing is really really off don't you think?

She let him have the tirade 6 months ago with both barrels blazing ... and he only restrategizes NOW?

Jagya has to be a real dimwit to come to this conclusion now... he should have been thinking of this and demonstrated some foresight when it came to ganga's appointment... and he should have gradually eased her into the prospect of a job elsewhere.

I can understand if anandi yelled at him yesterday so he decided today... but six months later seems real odd. He led her on.

Originally posted by: sectoreight

Yeah that was weird -- isn't that the whole point of making someone independent ? That they take decisions on their own and move on with their life. why should jagya grudge her that?

It's almost like he was expecting her to plead for a job with him ... saying "mere paas aur koi sahara nahi hai"

regarding self respect. It seems girls in love dont think of it.
sanchi is snubbed so many times by a serious Jagya and yet she goes on and on.

Now ganga is snubbed by Jagya directly and she got the message and quick to react. ganga did not give much thought to it as long as Jagya was extremely nice to her. His coming to Mangalore, gifting her a saree all these things gave some false hopes to her. Especially that saree.

I agree both ganga and Jagya cant be blamed considering the circumstances.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

regarding self respect. It seems girls in love dont think of it.
sanchi is snubbed so many times by a serious Jagya and yet she goes on and on.

Now ganga is snubbed by Jagya directly and she got the message and quick to react. ganga did not give much thought to it as long as Jagya was extremely nice to her. His coming to Mangalore, gifting her a saree all these things gave some false hopes to her. Especially that saree.

I agree both ganga and Jagya cant be blamed considering the circumstances.

I rest my case with all I have said previously. Nothing to add.

For me as i see it

U r absolutely right, I really wonder how these people always find mistakes in Jagan 😲 they even surprise me sometimes.

Jagya is the one who wants her to join his hospital but these guys wants her to think about Sumitra but forget him ( the one who supported her throughout ) and wants her to refuse him 😕. Coz she got her nursing degree and become more independent so she has to leave the person who fought for her, who supported in her tough times. that is not self respect. That is ungratefulness.

yeah, like u said she wants to go back to her hometown and work in his hospital, she just need his encouragement nothing more from him. Now she was shaken by knowing that he is avoiding her so she was hurt, she cried but didnt let him know her tears and refused his new offer. That's what self respect means, atleast from my view 😊

Originally posted by: sectoreight

I rest my case with all I have said previously. Nothing to add.

I can only view ganga through my own lenses -

In Ganga's place - I would have gone back to Jetsar once, gone to the haveli and thanked everyone for having supported me at a place in my life. To show my gratitude for their having helped me. I would also have thanked sumitra out of courtesy.

I would have gone back to Doctor saa and thanked him for everything he has done in the past, even if I felt that he let me down at this one juncture (the job in Jetsar).

Personally, I think I would have already made my arrangements by now, for my own job.

But if I hadn't I would not have been quick to anger or upset, and would have accepted Jagya's offer of going to Jaipur, just because he is a known and safe person helping.

Otherwise, I would have told him that I appreciate his help, but Jaipur is not for me, and I prefer to find my own job and become independent after this.

In the event that I decided to stay in Mangalore, I most certainly would not be running after a person like Balachander to get a job as a nurse. someone who is obviously a gunda and an unknown stranger. I would approach one of the college professors who had taught me and ask them for help in getting a job.

Her actions, even the emotional ones don't even make sense to me.

Her emotional ones make sense to me because when we are emotionally upset, we take impulsive decisions.

Going to Jaitsar just to thank them is out of the question as all of them are not very happy to meet her. They may help her but they dont want her back as of now.

Thanking Sumitra. Ganga has done so many times but that stoneheart simply has become stone deaf too.

As for Balachander, ganga has seen only the positiveness of him and he carefully avoided showing his negative side. So trusting him is not such a big deal for an innocent ganga.

As for Jagya, his actions are very disappointing in the context of his so-called "redemption"