should jagya retain his friendship with ganga? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Truthseeker

Nice post. If I put aside the fact that Sanchi is a manipulative person with not so good intentions, then I find J's obsession towards settling ganga all by himself wrong ...while not considering his would-be's opinion. But again , if it was any girl with a good individuality in Sanchi's place, she would speak out her mind with her would-be and if she finds out that he has no respect for her opinions, she will certainly re- think of her marriage with this guy instead of taking grudges on the other woman.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

The Jagya-anandi friendship and shiv being okay with it is very different from the Ganga-Jagya friendship.

Shiv knew clearly that anandi had no feelings left for Jagya.

He also knew that whatever overtures Jagya was making towards anandi were not because of any great love that Jagya had for anandi, ... but it was just that Jagya's ego was pricked and he was doing it out of 'badmaashi'/mischief to create misunderstandings between anandi and shiv. So he is fine with their friendship now and then too. He knows there is no love between the two.

Saanchi does not clearly know that Jagya has no feelings for ganga. The relationship is going strong from both sides. so naturally saanchi will have more agitation than shiv did.

Originally posted by: sectoreight

With all due respect, Jagya is not emotionally involved with anandi's causes or spending all his personal free time with her.

With ganga, he is committed to ganga's causes and spending all his free time with her.

Originally posted by: sectoreight

This is really amusing. How shiv clearly knows?

Originally posted by: sectoreight

The Jagya-anandi friendship and shiv being okay with it is very different from the Ganga-Jagya friendship.

Shiv knew clearly that anandi had no feelings left for Jagya.

He also knew that whatever overtures Jagya was making towards anandi were not because of any great love that Jagya had for anandi, ... but it was just that Jagya's ego was pricked and he was doing it out of 'badmaashi'/mischief to create misunderstandings between anandi and shiv. So he is fine with their friendship now and then too. He knows there is no love between the two.

Saanchi does not clearly know that Jagya has no feelings for ganga. The relationship is going strong from both sides. so naturally saanchi will have more agitation than shiv did.

Originally posted by: sectoreight

In the absence of any measuring stick that shiv can dip into anandi's heart and know her true feelings, I think all he (or any of us) can do is to take a person at their word/face value. They were both adults, he asked her clearly, she answered equally clearly.

We also know anandi's sincerity, because when dadisa asked her to dump shiv and come back to Jagya, anandi refused and said that she would not do anything to disrespect the commitment she made to collector saab. If she genuinely had feelings for Jagya, she would have jumped at dadisa's offer to become Jagya's beendhni again.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

At that time she went too far to look back.

Originally posted by: sectoreight

How too far? She was not formally engaged to shiv nor was she married to him. He asked her to clarify her stand BEFORE the formal engagement.

It was the same situation saanchi was in -- just rishta had been formalized verbally.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

You are just trying to simplify things which are too complex.
I will write a detailed separate blog on my thoughts about this aspect.