should jagya retain his friendship with ganga?

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hooked

@hooked

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Posted: 12 years ago

#111

Originally posted by: lovesunshine
]i agree hooked but here the types of love are different

anandi's love for jagya was bachpan wala love..😛

Shiv's and anandi's love to each other is is ishq wala and bharose wala love 😳

Ashima's (for shiv) was one side wala love..
mahi's is one night ke baad wala love 😉

ganga's is worship wala love

gauri's was badle wala love😡
jagya's is confused wala love..😕

above all saachi's is ' I'm gonna win the race wala love'😈

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Good One !

My bad - I forgot about the kinds of love. Saanchi wala is the most competitive kinds. she has to win the trophy at any cost. Be it lying, short dress, scheming, bribing, whatever it takes.

Saam, Daam, Dand, Bhed - - the end justifies the means. 😆

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lovesunshine

@lovesunshine

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#112

Originally posted by: hooked

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Good One !
My bad - I forgot about the kinds of love. Saanchi wala is the most competitive kinds. she has to win the trophy at any cost. Be it lying, short dress, scheming, bribing, whatever it takes.

Saam, Daam, Dand, Bhed - - the end justifies the means. 😆

😉 you bet !!

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sectoreight

@sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#113

/Why compete in attachments instead of accepting that person as a whole and moving on . Shiv accepts Anandi with her attachment to social causes .

Yes, but anandi's social causes don't involve her spending inordinate amounts of time with a young man at the expense of time spent with shiv. 😆😆 Big difference.

What would happen if anandi began to spend days together with chanda's husband in the name of 'rehabilitation' ... and obsessing over every trivial detail of his life in the name of 'setting him up for independence'. Lets say she forgot to call shiv even. And then shiv sensed that chanda's husband was beginning to develop feelings for anandi 😉

Then I think it would be a completely different issue.

The social causes are her job...not another person.

I doubt shiv would have issues with her attachment to her job... but would he be so cool if she had an attachment to another man??

Edited by sectoreight - 12 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#114

Anandi has now taken this up for a group of women if in the past it was individuals

Jagdish has helped an individual coz he came across her many many times and developed a human interest in her case .

Should not one do that ? If he or she wants to ? Just coz he is getting married or engaged ?

And what inrordinate time he spends with her ...he works all day long in the hospital , goes home , does not stay at the hospital , but is only insisting that he is with her during super crucial times ...like the divorce or her admission and why should not he do it ? Bcoz its the opposite sex and the fiancee may not like it ? Anandi can take a personal interest in Chanda's case but its ok coz she is a woman but Jagdish helping Ganga is not ok as she is not a man ?

What is the use of education then . If this kind of pettiness is still rooted in the minds what use does Saanchi's education has .

Why this sexist thought process in helping a human being .

Shiv and Anandi had a discussion about the time that would perhaps be needed for this cause . Going to bars , having police cases , halting every one's domestic abuse . does not require inordinate time away from sasural ? But its ok coz Chanda is a woman ...

but not doing any of these things but being at crucial stages like divorce proceedings or admission with an uneducated abused woman is spending inordinate time and its oh so not ok as she is of the opposite sex , if she is helped it should be via a woman only

I 'm sorry sectoreight , i disagree😆😆

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago

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sectoreight

@sectoreight

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#115

don't be sorry kools! 😆 Love your opposing points of view.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#116

The reason, the agenda behind these types of arguments is hatred for ganga, hatred for Jagya. Sumitra also depends on the same type of arguments.

Thus sanchi becomes a pure girl, her love is pure and Jagya and ganga are playing with her innocent feelings.😆

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#117

Sanchi is obsessed with Jagaya she wants to make him only hers , she has all the rights on him , she has rights over all his attention , care , concern , time Rest she cannot bear anyone having any of these from him Leave Ganga she was jealous of Nandu He came in the room when she was about to express her love to Jagaya and seeing Jagaya shifting his all attention to Nandu Sanchi was making faces so should Jagaya keep a distance from Nandu, 😆she cannot tolerate Singhs with Jagaya she was complaining to her friend Singhs don't give any privacy to Jagaya all the time they are with him and that was the time when he was injured and returned home after weeks in hospital usually family members are with the person in this time but Sanchi couldn't even take that so Jagaya should keep a distance from his family , 😆Sanchi has problems with his work so he should leave his job 😆Sanchi was even throwing tears Jagaya leaving her for sometime and going to Lal Singh on his birthday She was fuming up seeing them hugging and Jagaya happily talking with his hospital staff 😆so what what Jagaya should leave to please Sanchi Sanchi's insecurities are related to this she thinks she owes Jagaya He is hers only she has rights over him rest when he gives attention to anyone else or anything else be it his work she becomes angry so what what Jagaya should leave for her 😆

Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago

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sectoreight

@sectoreight

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#118

sidra - too funny post 😆 thanks!

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#119

Why should Jagya forget and break a friendship he started way before he met Saanchi

Your question does not apply to Saanchi -Jagya relation because Saanchi has no respects for Jagya's feelings...for once she never thought how jJgya is feelings about all this and how uncomfortable he must be about becoming BIL of his ex-wife so why should Jagya respect her...did Saanchi gave any thought to his feelings that he should...she is unnecessarily forcing herself on him and is o ready to face the reality and rejection

Shiv does not get insecure about Anandi-Jagya feelings becuase he trust his love and Anandi...he knows that his love will never let Anandi get away from him...he knows that Anandi did not left him when she was not even in love with him so why would she now but it's not same foe Saanchi because Saanchi's love lacks purity...she is insecure because unconsciously she knows Jagya does not love her and he is least interested in this marriage...she knows that if she stops her drama Jagya will lose interest...the girl who cannot maintain a relation with her family unless she fakes how can you expect her to maintain and relation with some outsider even if she loves him...Saanchi's relation will never work with her true image and she knows that hence she is insecure about everything

if Saanchi was good at heart then she would never had got unsecured to such extent...if Saanchi would have been good no matter how deep Jagya's relation is with Ganga he would never have been so close to her because he would have started getting attracted to Saanchi like Anandi got to Shiv and would have himself cared for what she thinks...Jagya is not respecting Saanchi's feelings because he is not getting any respect from her

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