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Posted: 13 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: sreevask


Leaving haveli means that Anandi herself approves & ratify the crime of Jagat.Why should she do it?

I do not think staying in the haveli indicates her disapproval and
I do not think leaving the haveli ratifies the crime of Jagat.
Her living or not living at the haveli has nothing to do with ratifying the crime.
What does ratify the crime is anandi's refusal to file a criminal case against jagat.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32
hooked perhaps I am giving too much credit to the CVs lol


: )

anywayzz... by this thinking atleast I think I can remain sane for her in sane actions.

Pagal ladki she is
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well the cvs are crazy. we know that.
i have watched soap operas in five languages/cultures -- and there are always extra marital affairs.
But this is the first one where i have seen the mistress goes and yells at the wife... and that too for being married to her lover first. 😆😆😆😆😆😆.
I have never seen anything like this. Usually in all other cultures - it is opposite -- all wives go and yell at the mistress and tell them to stay away from their husband.
Here it is completely bizarro-world. The keep goes and shouts at the wife and tells her to stay away from her lover. 😲
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34


Balika vadhu is a funny game called "Blind fold", where in

some chose 2 be blind by a cloth called "sacha pyar" (JG),
some by "affection from child hood"(A),some by "over affection"(DS),
some by "false prestige"(bb & co), and some by "chemistry"(u know)

Phew ! It's "ALL IN A GAME",& we must enjoy it!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: tinoo

I do not think staying in the haveli indicates her disapproval and
I do not think leaving the haveli ratifies the crime of Jagat.
Her living or not living at the haveli has nothing to do with ratifying the crime.
What does ratify the crime is anandi's refusal to file a criminal case against jagat.


She'd file a case when she finds it necessary(when she finds a suitable guy)..It is the necessity of J to file a case to get rid of obligations with A to run a legal life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#36
@sreevask -- there is a difference between filing a police case against J and filing for a divorce.
Two completely separate things and one is not contingent on the other.
She can file a case against him to punish him and send him to jail while still remaining his legal wife.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

@sreevask -- there is a difference between filing a police case against J and filing for a divorce.

Two completely separate things and one is not contingent on the other.
She can file a case against him to punish him and send him to jail while still remaining his legal wife.


True..But as iI mentioned in previous post,she's been blinded by the affection as also as she may hurt haveli log @ the ill fate of their ladesar.Next obstruction is the haveli / khandan izzat (A is a khandani aurat na)
For this reason only she refused even though Bhairon himself came forward at the very first instance
to file a criminal case against J,who later stopped by A bringing the izzat issue & won the hearts of haveli log.

But bhairon shd 've taken a decision n go ahead if at all he wants his son,izzat,justice 2 Anandi back.Why allow him to go ahead & suffer (himself & all incl G) later?
He must 've curtailed it earlier when he went to meet J at Mumbai itself na.What was the out come of Bhairon & Sumitra's visits to mumbai.had their pravachans n slappings worked out?

Similarly G also visited haveli to know about J.what was the outcome?

Even A herself allowed the affair to be chronic to the irreparable level.

There were occasions n opportunities neglected to create an un necessary (avoidable) mess that we are trying hard day n night ,tooth n nail with all our might n mind 2 find a way out.

Dear tinoo,u have a very good reasoning capabilities that I always admire.I request to use them to suggest the best solution that must knock the senses of CVs to pave the way for all of us to rest in peace.

We all are here 4 u to support for a practicable closure of the nonsensical n illogical treatment of the story that's dividing us.

Given the present scenario,what would be the best justice to all the characters unbiased?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sreevask


Dear tinoo,u have a very good reasoning capabilities that I always admire.I request to use them to suggest the best solution that must knock the senses of CVs to pave the way for all of us to rest in peace.

We all are here 4 u to support for a practicable closure of the nonsensical n illogical treatment of the story that's dividing us.

Given the present scenario,what would be the best justice to all the characters unbiased?

@sreevask -- well thank you for the admiration but I believe I have said this several times.
My suggestion would be
1. file a case against jagya and ensure he is punished.
2. file for a divorce and ask bapusa to give me my share
3. move forward with my life and carve out my own identity.
I dont understand your logic -- why should she wait to divorce Jagya till she falls in love with someone else and wants to marry him?
At that time, it gives Jagya and gauri power to cite that anandi is having an extra marital affair (because she is still married to jagya) -- and consequently, anandi can be sent to jail for infedility or being badchalan.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I want to clarify my value system that I follow -- which is what grounds all my views.
I firmly believe that any relationship I have should support me towards my highest good and my highest joy.
I do not tolerate toxic relationships in my life.
Consequently, using this spiritual value system, I really dont see the point of hanging on to something just for revenge or to prove a point.
Is this marriage working towards my highest good? No.
Does it support me towards my higest good? No.
Do I feel nurtured to be the very best person I can be? No.
Is it a toxic relationship ? Yes.
Then fine. Ta ta and bye bye.
So, I really dont sit in legal argument about whether I am right or wrong.
I just decide if something feels good or not, and proceed on that basis.
Others may have other value systems, and consequently their views may be different.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

@sreevask -- well thank you for the admiration but I believe I have said this several times.
My suggestion would be
1. file a case against jagya and ensure he is punished.
2. file for a divorce and ask bapusa to give me my share
3. move forward with my life and carve out my own identity.
I dont understand your logic -- why should she wait till she falls in love with someone else and wants to marry him?
At that time, it gives Jagya and gauri power to cite that anandi is having an extra marital affair (because she is still married to jagya) -- and consequently, anandi can be sent to jail for infedility or being badchalan.




Anandi need not worry about J.There should be valid grounds for divorce or to punish.
The first one is fake marriage certificate,and the second one is parpota's DNA.These establish the infidelity that takes care all.She has to wait for parpota to come.Otherwise culprit escapes.meanwhile she must pursue higher education & become economically independent rather than shiksha abhiyans n social service through lunch pack seminars n slappings.

Give ur suggestions .Thanks...

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