Anandi: The real motive - Page 3

Originally posted by: tinoo

@hooked - yes. and maybe some sort of transitional arrangement is required.

perhaps, until anandi finds her feet, bhairon takes a flat on rent in jaipur, enrolls her in a b.a. in social work program, and sends sumitra there to stay with anandi in the flat, so that she does not feel completely like a fish out of water... and he and dadisa can make a trip every weekend.

It is not like sumitra has any great duties at home or children to take care of where she is needed at the haveli. she can stay with anandi, until anandi makes friends and then transitions to a hostel.

thats it tinoo.. No one of those rotten singhs want to take responsibility.

And also, this shows that Anandi needs help and she is mentally not stable. She has serious psychological issues.

She went into depression and she forcibly regressed all those feelings and targeted it towards society in the face of improving them and totally ignoring those repressed feelings.

This is why, when ever hte topic comes up about her leaving the haveli or doing something for herself etc. she will respond in a way that will not make her move on. or improve her condition.

If bhairon suggested what you suggest , watch, she will change and make a situation where she never parts away from the haveli or any memory of Jagya.

But I am sure if they suggest Mumbai ,she will agree.

Anywhere else is a no no.

First she will have to go to a psychologist, deal with her depression. Get her anger out and then once she is healed will she able to move on.

Its SOO not easy. I know, I have seen women like her. sometimes women just kill themselves or just give up living and live like zombies, join sanyaasi moment etc. etc

and that is why I praise Anandi that she has targeted those feelings in improving other's lives.

Better than killing herself and remain sulked up locked in kitchen right.

I think i should name this thread as, the Real ANANDI! whats her motive lol

it will make us understand why she does what she does better : )

Actually Suchi in my humble opinion I think you are giving the CV's to much credit for intelligence with this whole psychological angle.

Bottom line I think is that the CV's don't give a crap about the psychological make-up of Anandi. All they care about is TRP's and this whole love triangle/bigamy formula is a tried and tested plan to garner success according to them.

If there was truly one person on the creative team or even from the Colors Channel with an iota of intelligence, they would put a stop to this farce.

I'm sorry but I am royally pissed of with the current turn of events and unless and until Anandi is given a backbone, all the explanations and excuses in the world will not give the current set of CV's any saving grace.

We need to see positive, inspiring change. We need to see dire consequences for wrong doers (GAGA). We need to see crappy, disgusting men finally get SEVERELY punished on INDIAN television. It's about time somebody had the guts to go against the grain and show that women should become like Durga and Kali and exact justice.

I honestly don't care about how Anandi's experiences explain her psychological weaknesses. All I want is for the cvs to show the aam janta the RIGHT way to get out of these situations. Not by hiding the legality issue. And certainly not by condoning extra marital affairs and having the legal wife pave the way of acceptance for the illegal couple.

Enough is enough now.

Originally posted by: parri814

All I want is for the cvs to show the aam janta the RIGHT way to get out of these situations. Not by hiding the legality issue. And certainly not by condoning extra marital affairs and having the legal wife pave the way of acceptance for the illegal couple.

I think even if anandi's psychological make-up is that of weak person without any backbone -- what are the rest of the people in the household doing?

BTW fellow forum members, I'm really missing REDAPPLE. It's been a while since we've had her input.

Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

I think i should name this thread as, the Real ANANDI! whats her motive lol

it will make us understand why she does what she does better : )

I call it rather THE REAL THREAD,being the first constructive approach to the problem instead of finding fault with the suffered & pooja path of negative roles.

I.ve been posting the same thing since months together regarding Anandi's leaving haveli.

Posted: 14 September 2011 at 8:51am | IP Logged

A is cool as she need not loose her cool at all! Because she put the ball in the court of J n Haveli people!

It is the head ache of J n G to get their faults corrected;only with the consent of A, before begetting parpota.

It is the head ache of Haveli people who performed the child marriage n spoiled her life and as such to settle alimony,arrange for her maintenance till she gets married.

In spite of all these, the only thing she lacks is that, she is not making the best use of resources to achieve something in her life n demonstrate a living example of her successful life that would enliven hopes of such ill fated Balika Vadhus.

Posted: 30 July 2011 at 10:12pm | IP Logged

As long as Anandi remains the legally wedded wife of J no body can send her to to her parents.In fact

for a married lady,sasural ki ghar means Husband ONLY,& as such she need not serve at In laws at jaitser!She should & Must go to Mumbai to stay with Jagya.Then comes the Maza!!Nobody can deny it,esp the "illegally & unsocial"ly wedded bazar aurat G!!

It is the legal obligation of J & J's parents as they brought her 2 haveli.They can't leave Anandi simply like that without settling her alimony & all!

Why should Anandi herself come forward for divorce?It will never make any sense as she did not have any necessity from her side & she did not come 2 haveli for that.It is the cheating husband who is in dire necessity as he initiated an illegal move & it is up to him to worry about the divorce,settlement & all!

UNTIL THEN ANANDI MUST STAY @ MUMBAI WITH HIM,THROWING GOURI OUT OF KUNDA THAI'S HOUSE!!

Posted: 31 July 2011 at 12:49am | IP Logged

As per the law, for a married woman,sasural ki ghar means the place where her husband stays & not where her in laws live.She need not look after Haveli people & marriage does not mean that!!!

Also,as J had already crossed the mandatory age limit to cancel his child marriage it is up to him only to look after his wife!!

IF HE IS ABLE TO LOOK AFTER GOURI(WHO IS AN ILLEGAL CONTACT) WHY CAN'T HE LOOK AFTER ANANDI???(to hell with the chemistry which has no meaning for a na layak,non-earning,legally disputed slime,J, who can not pay alimony & a dependent idiot)😡

AFTER ALL IT IS ANANDI WHO IS PAYING HIM OFF FOR HIS DAY-TO-DAY NEEDS!!⭐️

Bhairon & co need not respect his animal lust!! Enough happenned so far!!

If Anandi does not want to divorce him what can he do?😲

So itz better Bhairon & Sumi bring A to Mumbai to J & leave her @ J saying that it is ur obligation 2 look after her !and a wife's place is @ her husband only! Also as A is ur paymaster!😆 (Then see the bashing of Kunda thai to G!!!)

If DS remembers the words of A's mom as to why had they kept A with them?,she'd definitely order Bhairon to send A to J.Then it'd be up to J to look after legalities as he is only the responsible person for this.He can not deny A now,nor he can say A 2 get out of his house as that 'd be illegal!!😕

So Bhairon shd not keep Anandi with him.Of course he can help her study,arrange for legal advice n all but keeping A @haveli IS a crime as J & A are legally wedded couple!!

As far as gouri is concerned,a simple legal notice from A's parents can throw her out to the streets,if not 2 behind the bars!!

Hope the CVs get to this aspect!!

Posted: 12 September 2011 at 4:36am | IP Logged

Yes. Anandi shd not stay @ Haveli.Instead, she shd stay with J as for a legal wife husband is the natural guardian...(NOT the haveli)

The ball is in the court of J & Haveli people ...It is their obligation to arrange for a divorce & settle alimony etc.,that too, IFF anandi agrees 4 a mutual consent!

Why shd she break her head n heart 4 d set of dhokebaz (J n Haveli log)? They can't escape d statutory (NOT moral) obligation...

Haveli Izzat had already bit the dust n now nothin's left over...that wd stop applying 4 divorce and the whole process can take up to 18 months after filing 4 divorce...

Neither J nor Bhairon r hurried to settle d case of divorce...Until dat time NONE can touch her..n Anandi is absolutely @ freedom 2 pursue d field of her choice..without any hurry..what so ever..

Hence Anandi is @ full freedom 2 pursue anything anytime..None can throw her out also it is the responsibility Bhairon to get her married to a suitable guy.

Parpota has no rights over coparcenary/ancestral properties,He'll have rights over the biological parents (that too not as a birth right...he can enjoy the properties earned by JG only when they die intestate [[[read http://legalcrystal.com/blog/tag/sec16-hindu-marriage-act/ ]]]] also [[[[ courtesy http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_illegitimate-children-not-entitled-to-ancestral-property-supreme-court_1388181 ]]]

Dear members we need not worry as, it is the arrangement made by Anandi herself which is better known as a "surrogate (marriage) arrangement" for her beloved hubby as being practiced even today in "zulu" culture of Africa.

[ vide http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Surrogate_marriage ]

There are innumerable cases where wives leave their husbands un noticed of their extra marital relationships for (1) want of social security n (2) lack of economic independence.

But Anandi is @ upper hand now, as every moment of JG is the bheek of Anandi.She can put them to bars just when her mood turns off.They can't escape even after parpota,which solidifies/precipitates the crime of Jagat.

Leaving haveli means that Anandi herself approves & ratify the crime of Jagat.Why should she do it?

The problem had been initiated by Jagya & it is he who had 2 find a way out,but NOT Anandi.Betrayer must take accountability n settle issues with the betrayed wife.Even to this moment jagya is least bothered of his wife Anandi & the hell she's going through because of him.

Otherwise,every husband runs after doosri,teesri etc, & his wives leave haveli(house),& grant divorces.Is it the solution?No na.

She'll stay @ haveli as long as she wishes n leaves as & when she wishes.

Originally posted by: vasuja

Suchi I love your positivity...

One of the main reasons I want Anandi out of the messy haveli is JG couple right now look perfect and it looks like they have problems in their relationship only due to Anandi...Thats not the case though...G is very ambitious and J wants a modern looking, earning subdued wife...I liked the scenes in mumbai becoz it clearly showed keeping Anandi aside the couple had varied priorities and temperments. Now Anandi's presence makes it look like she is creating havoc. Anandi does not need to be in haveli to torture Gauri. If Gauri is left in haveli with DS she will run like wind...Anandi's presence is not allowing G to be accepted as bahu...Nothing can be a bigger punishment for Gauri than being accepted as Haveli ki beendini in real sense. DS will drive G crazy and J who wants luxury will quietly watch the tamasha.

oh ya...You mean to say if your husband gets a keep for himself and she starts wearing a sindoor...you will also leave your sasural to make place for the keep?😲

@person above me . U always say keep, gauri is his 2nd wife . A keep is derived from the word kept ..'kept hidden'. Last time I watched they wanted to keep her hidden but she was on bike shouting it around town. Please don't get offended 😈

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