Toxic relationship - Page 4

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anu could have rejected the idea of adoption. Anuj did not force it on her. It's not like she has never rejected Anuj's proposals.

And Kinjal is a nutcase. Mujhe Mummy Chahiye. She has a biological mother who is more than willing to take care of her but she still manipulates Anupama knowing she has lots of responsibilities to come to her.

Yeah true she could have but it was stupid of him to just say it outright during their honeymoon of all times. He didn't force it no, but he seems like he didn't think about it much either.

Let's see what CA turns into. Seems like she's going into the same direction of, let's interact with toxic people because 'family is family' even if they're abusive.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Couple of points:

-You forgot to say wife AND husband don't spend time with each other. Sounds very one-sided the way you said it, like it's only the wife's job.

Well I was clearly talking in context of anuj and anupama so its clear who is giving time and who is not. So it's from the wife's point of view in this example

People are confusing priorities here. Under any circumstances, DIL is not more priority than a husband. Period.

If Anuj can have nurses, Kinjal can afford to have nurses and stay with Rakhi too.

Anupama show is getting boring post Anu-Anuj marriage, thanks to Anu’s misplaced priorities.

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

People are confusing priorities here. Under any circumstances, DIL is not more priority than a husband. Period.

If Anuj can have nurses, Kinjal can afford to have nurses and stay with Rakhi too.

Anupama show is getting boring post Anu-Anuj marriage, thanks to Anu’s misplaced priorities.

This 💕. No matter the circumstances, a DIL can not have higher priority than a spouse. But what can be expected from a woman who prioritizes her abusive ex in law above her birth mother.

I agree with u if anupama caring for daughter in law that does not mean she has forgotten her husband . Mere khayaal se husband and wife ke beech mein khuch to freedom space hona chahiye

Aisa khuch nahin hai hai agar wife khuch time husband ke pass nahin to koi crime ya sin ho gaya

Being marry that does not mean a wife only committed to husband only . Anupaman not only wife nahin hai she is grand mother too she has right to stay with her daughter in law too for few hrs

Are yaar agar kinjal ko Anupama ki itni hi jarurat hi toh wo usko apne ghar le aye na Anuj ko chor kar jane ki kya zarurat hai.

Originally posted by: ishajimmy

Are yaar agar kinjal ko Anupama ki itni hi jarurat hi toh wo usko apne ghar le aye na Anuj ko chor kar jane ki kya zarurat hai.

Aree yaar, tab pata hai kya hoga

Example ke saath samjhati hoon .

Imagine Anu with Anuj

Kinju; Mummy, baby ro rahi hai

Anupama: meri kinjal ko jaada jarrorat hai. pata nahi ek aurat ko hi kyun batna padta hai

anuj:I understand, tum jao.

Anu with anuj:

Kinju: mummy , baby ka diaper change karna hai

Anupama: kimju ko meri jaada jarroart hai

Anuj: i agree. waise bhi tumhare siwai koi aur kar nahi sakta ( Kasam se bata rahi hoon, diaper isko bhi change nahi karna aata hoga kyunki nappy mei pale honge iske bacche. kyunki jis gaon mei rehti hai, wahan diaper toh pata hi nahi hoga).

tum jao.

Anupama with Anuj:

kinju: mummy, mummy, muumy, dekho na isne doodh nikaal diya, mujhe bahut dar lag raha hai, aap plz mere paas raho na.

Anupama: iss samay kinju ko meri sabse jaada jaroorat hai, ab mai do jagah toh nahi reh sakti

Anuj: I underatand. meri anu kabhi galat ho hinahi sakti...

Anupama to kinju: 10 pg ka bhasan, pehli baar mai bhi aise hi dar gayi thi, tab Baa, badi baa, 4-5 padosan bahar se aayi thi. tab jaa kar mai sambhali thi. phir bhi mujhe lagta tha Mishter Shah mere paas nahi hai.

lecture deti rahegi n msg kar degi aapke khane ka time ho gaya. yehbhi khush..meri anu mera kitn akayal rakhti hai, hamara pyaar shalimar. humar pyar JK ka seb, hamra pyar naagpur ka santra, humara pyar maharshtra ka kela, hama pyaar hawai kila🤣🤣🤣

Ab Anuj vannu to hai nahi ki Exercise karte samay par na pakde, time par protein shake na mile, charger na pakdyae, khana , chai ekdum time par na mile ya phir GK ko khana nhi poocha toh yeh chilayega.

better hai apni priority decide kar le. Ajaydevgan ki tarah do bike par na kahdi hi, khud bhi giregi aur bikers ko bhi girayegi🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

People are confusing priorities here. Under any circumstances, DIL is not more priority than a husband. Period.

If Anuj can have nurses, Kinjal can afford to have nurses and stay with Rakhi too.

Anupama show is getting boring post Anu-Anuj marriage, thanks to Anu’s misplaced priorities.

Under ANY circumstances? Seriously? Does a woman not have a life beyond her husband? If her husband is NOT the centre of her world and attention 24/7 does all hell break loose? What kind of outdated thinking is this? I'm baffled.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I agree with u if anupama caring for daughter in law that does not mean she has forgotten her husband . Mere khayaal se husband and wife ke beech mein khuch to freedom space hona chahiye

Aisa khuch nahin hai hai agar wife khuch time husband ke pass nahin to koi crime ya sin ho gaya

Being marry that does not mean a wife only committed to husband only . Anupaman not only wife nahin hai she is grand mother too she has right to stay with her daughter in law too for few hrs

Exactly. She worshipped Vanraj now people on this forum think she should worship Anuj. Tf. 😂

Ya I am not saying ki anupama anuj ki care na kare because anuj who is one really care for anuj and understand her

But anuj ka anupama ka care ka matlab yeh nahin ki sara time anupama bus anuj ke paas baithi rahegi uski care karne ke liye

I don't understand if woman marry then her life should be revolve around husband only

If tomorrow if malvika ko koi problem hoti to kya anuj apni behan ki madad karne nahin jaayega agar anuj apni behan ki madad karne jaata hai to that means anuj apni wife ko priority nahin de raha hai big no

Real life mein hum fixed priority nahin bana sakte

Practically in real lifevpriority always change according to situation

Life is not maths ki hamesh 2+ 2 =4 hi hota hai