Toxic relationship - Page 2

Yes, I join with you. Anupama should take care of Kinjal for the next 40 days. Only she can do this. In fact, she should breastfeed Kinjal's baby also. The child will be blest to drink Anupama's breastmilk. I join with you.

In emergency one need koi apna bhi hota hai to bhi acha rehta hai sirf servant ya cook se kaam nahin banta

And I am not saying ki anupama ko bus 40 days tuk shah house mein rehna chahiye

I am talking only about 2,3 hrs taking care of kinjal by anupama

Originally posted by: naaznin

Just because Anupama married Anuj doesn't mean all her previous responsibilities ended. Kinjal is her her DIL n loves her dearly. She has to be there for her. Addition of new responsibilities doesn't mean old responsibilities should vanish.

If a girl is married ppl expect she should forget her parents responsibilities n only care about in laws. Why? Does a man do the same. NO.

Also it's Anupama's children n they hold equal right on her like Anuj. Just because she married second time doesn't mean her children should suffer. Though pakhi n Toshi doesn't deserve anyone.

Also Anuj is a rich man he can have many servants n nurses till he get better. He is just sick not disabled.

It's not like woman with sick husbands can't go to work or any where else.

1) there is a honeymoon period in every new marriage. Where you only and only pay attention to your spouse. It allows couple to grow closer and know each other. Without that period no relation will survive. If a wife does not spend that period only with husband that relationship does not last

2) how on earth are grown children suffering? They are even married for gods sake. Do you know most working children in india live in different cities who cannot even visig their parents even once a year? Stop pretending grown married adults are babies. Anupama doesnt need to go to ex house to meet them, normal sane adult children will understand and visit anupamas house instead

3) VANRAJ AND BAA are NOT HER family. They are her IN LAWS.

4) dude 99% of women in India today have husband taking care of them after delivery in hospital or their own mom, no one expects mother in laws to be there overnight. Which world do you live in?

5) no one will complain if Anupama goes for her own work. But getting close to her ex husband is EMOTIONAL CHEATING! No spouse on earth will tolerate their spouses getting close to their ex

Originally posted by: surabhi01

In emergency one need koi apna bhi hota hai to bhi acha rehta hai sirf servant ya cook se kaam nahin banta

And I am not saying ki anupama ko bus 40 days tuk shah house mein rehna chahiye

I am talking only about 2,3 hrs taking care of kinjal by anupama

A paralyzed husband has way more needs than a baby who has so many people around them. That is way bigger emergency. Anything can happen after brain surgery, stroke, heart attack. At least 6 months to one year is critical

Did u see the episode or read update that anupama ne anuj ke mobile anuj ke dawi ke liye remainder daala tha when anupama was in hospital

I am sure anupama anuj ke liye khaana bana ke gayi hogi

To kya anuj ko ,2,3hts ke liye anuj ko khaana paras ke ya dwai bhi nahin de sakta withoiu anupama itna bhaari kaam hai kya

Why won't Anuj need Anupama in emergency then? How could he leave her with an old man? If Baa and Bapuji are so old to take care of Kinjal, then is GK young to take care of Anuj? And are Pakhi and Kavya babies? Why can't they sometimes hold the baby and let Kinjal rest? And what about the great Dadaji? Why can't he learn to make some nutritious food for Kinjal? If he is capable of the things he do on daily basis, then cooking is not rocket science for him. He is expert at cooking conspiracies, he can become expert at making sweets also.

My reply is same to above ur post

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Why can't anyone other than Anupama feed nutritious food? Is AnupaMaa the only one who can cook in this world? Is Kinjal's mom dead? And someone must be cooking for Shah household. Why can't that person cook for Kinjal? And I have given birth. It's not like you turn paralyzed after giving birth. You don't need to be surrounded by 50 people after delivery. Only one helping hand is more than enough.

I dont understand.. what reaction should I give?

😆 or 😈

The women who dont have MILs or whose MILs themselves need care, should not plan for the babies.

only MILs have experience, Maa ko toh suryadev baccha de jaate hai, jaise kunti ko diya tha.

Here, maalish bhi dekhna anupama di siwai kisi ko nahi aati hogi .... nahi toh kinjal jaise 1st month se uhhhh ahhhhhh kar rahi thi, saari jindagi karti rahegi. 😆.

Anyways, did audience react to the behaviour of Baa towards Dr.

I was saying yesterday, its insult to the Dr. their job is hard.

Today, Anu was praising Dr and maaroing same dialog.

kal jab Baa insult kar rahi thi iske saamne toh iske muh mei ladoo tha kya. Aaj isko yaad aaya ki Dr. Bhagwan hote hai🤣

Originally posted by: Harish111

1) there is a honeymoon period in every new marriage. Where you only and only pay attention to your spouse. It allows couple to grow closer and know each other. Without that period no relation will survive. If a wife does not spend that period only with husband that relationship does not last

2) how on earth are grown children suffering? They are even married for gods sake. Do you know most working children in india live in different cities who cannot even visig their parents even once a year? Stop pretending grown married adults are babies. Anupama doesnt need to go to ex house to meet them, normal sane adult children will understand and visit anupamas house instead

3) VANRAJ AND BAA are NOT HER family. They are her IN LAWS.

4) dude 99% of women in India today have husband taking care of them after delivery in hospital or their own mom, no one expects mother in laws to be there overnight. Which world do you live in?

5) no one will complain if Anupama goes for her own work. But getting close to her ex husband is EMOTIONAL CHEATING! No spouse on earth will tolerate their spouses getting close to their ex

Couple of points:

-You forgot to say wife AND husband don't spend time with each other. Sounds very one-sided the way you said it, like it's only the wife's job.

-Not sure where you're getting the 99% figure from, but I get your point.

-She should definitely maintain a distance with Vanraj, but the issue becomes complicated considering he's the father of their children. So unfortunately there will be situations where they will come face to face. However, some of the scenes they have shown are pure garbage and unnecessary interactions with one another where they spout the same recycled dialogues again and again.