Toxic relationship - Page 6

VS is her ex husband who is unfortunately father of her kids who mentally abused her for 27 yrs who is characterless, fraud, manipulative, kam umar ki ladkiyo par buri nazar dalne wala, khusath budha, he will come face to face with Ani but that doesn't means that Ani should forget all his kaands and let him put hands on her, and play dada ji dadiji like nothing is wrong he is the best family man, samna hone ka ye matlab nahi ki jakar gale lag jao, Baa & Bapuji, VS & Kavya itna nahi chipke honge jitna ye dono, bina hath lagaye khushi nahi dikhai ja sakti, aur kya kaand karna padega VS ko ki Anu indifference show kare iske sath, har 4 episode ke sath beete huye din yaad karne lagte hai dono, kabhi Samar ka janam to kabhi Dadi banne ki khushi, aur phir ek kaand bhar bhar ke bezzati, 2 din baad Shah's ko jarurat padti hai aur Anu madam phir VS ke sath hug karte haste muskurate dikhti hai,

Originally posted by: Potato_couch

Personally, I think Anuj is kind of manipulative for springing this on Anupama a day after marriage. If he wanted a child with Anupama, he should have discussed it with Anupama before marriage. Honestly, the issue of children can be a dealbreaker for many couples. But here, by stating his wishes after marriage, Anupama would of course be compelled to agree with Anuj.

Yes,he was wrong in doing this, nobody adopts a kid on their honeymoon, moreover Anupama has already gone through the hardship of bringing up 3 kids & her responsibilities aren't even completely over yet(according to her),also iss umar mein ek choti bacchi ko palna is difficult, but usne bina soche samjhe hi yeh cheez ki wish rakhdi Anupama ke saamne,which she obviously felt she had to oblige to.

Tbh Anupama has very unrealistic expectations. She wants to be there for everyone but it's simply not possible. If she wanted to prioritise Kinjal's baby for a while, she should not have adopted CA now. If she wanted to prioritise CA, then she should stop promising so much of her time and dedication to Kinjal. Even Baa has said, if you can't handle the responsibilities please let them know, Baa or Kavya can step in. However, if because Anupama made the choice, a distance may appear in her relationship with Toshu and Pakhi, and she has to accept the fact.

The most sensible thing would have been to deny adopting CA or not volunteering for more responsibilities, but as she is Anupama, u can't really expect anything sensible from her....can u?🤪

Yes I am talking about 40 days beca dthsud use ys after delivery sutak is mostly 40 days and who said ki ki cvs ko actually 40 days tuk dikha chahiye

They can show 40.day over as disclaimer in one 2 episode

Khuch bhi conclusion nikalte hai log

And just because baa samar toshu is taking care of baby and can take care then anupama should never visit her daughter in law even don't meet her grand child ?

Bus hospital mein apni poti se mil liya hai ab bus anupama ko ab zindagi bhar apni poti daughter in law se baat nahin karni chahiye because now she is married

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

I dont understand.. what reaction should I give?

😆 or 😈

The women who dont have MILs or whose MILs themselves need care, should not plan for the babies.

only MILs have experience, Maa ko toh suryadev baccha de jaate hai, jaise kunti ko diya tha.

o shit ! Why don't I have a mil like anupama 😭 I raised both my daughters alone ..mil ka bhi role hota hai kya I didn't know 🤣 they are there to judge you, taunt you, sometimes yeah support also ..but the latest ones warn beforehand..jo karna hai apne aap kar lena we r very old to tc of the baby.

Jokes apart ..if kinjal can't tc of a baby she shouldn't be having one ...in a joint family with grown up devar , sil, grandmother etc and a willing mother , who can also bring a nurse , kinjal needs only anupammma? Knowing well that anuj needs her too ..how difficult it would be to manage both ? What exactly will anupama do that ba, ,.rakhi and a nurse can't? There r doctors in case of any emergency and there r elders to advice on how to tc of the baby and diet of the mother , there r trained women who do massages for mother and child . And what will the father do? Sleep gleefully? Raat ko jaagke bache ko dekh

Originally posted by: Krinya

o shit ! Why don't I have a mil like anupama 😭 I raised both my daughters alone ..mil ka bhi role hota hai kya I didn't know 🤣 they are there to judge you, taunt you, sometimes yeah support also ..but the latest ones warn beforehand..jo karna hai apne aap kar lena we r very old to tc of the baby.

Jokes apart ..if kinjal can't tc of a baby she shouldn't be having one ...in a joint family with grown up devar , sil, grandmother etc and a willing mother , who can also bring a nurse , kinjal needs only anupammma? Knowing well that anuj needs her too ..how difficult it would be to manage both ? What exactly will anupama do that ba, ,.rakhi and a nurse can't? There r doctors in case of any emergency and there r elders to advice on how to tc of the baby and diet of the mother , there r trained women who do massages for mother and child . And what will the father do? Sleep gleefully? Raat ko jaagke bache ko dekh

According to Kinjal the sanskars AnupaMaa has nobody ever had. She wants her kid to have AnupaMaa's sanskars just like Paritosh and Pakhi.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

This 💕. No matter the circumstances, a DIL can not have higher priority than a spouse. But what can be expected from a woman who prioritizes her abusive ex in law above her birth mother.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

According to Kinjal the sanskars AnupaMaa has nobody ever had. She wants her kid to have AnupaMaa's sanskars just like Paritosh and Pakhi.

What sanskar does kinjal want to give to a new born 🤣How to poop ? 💩

Ek din dikhane mein makers ne 7 episode laga diye h aur abhi inki subah ni hui h, jab Shahs ko dikhana hota h toh makers itne meharbaan ni hote aur wo 40 din Anuj ka kya hoga, 2- 3 din m dikhane se dono ke liye time slot alag ho jaayenge kya, Arre haan Kinjal delivered a baby Anuj ki toh sirf brain surgery hui h aur usse hosh mein aane m sirf 15 din toh lage h aur doctors ne jo complications bataye h wo toh fever patients ko bhi aksar hote honge, itna kaafi h Anu ko Shah house ke 40 din ke tour ke liye ya aur bataun

Aisa koi nahi chahta, baat yanha dhyan rakhne ki h, Anuj agar theek hota toh wo khud Anu ke saath SH jata and audience kabhi itna react ni karti, I am OK with Anu visiting Kinjal in SH 2-3 hour in a day but shifting there for taking care of Kinju and her baby is too much wo b tab jab Anuj physically hi . emotionally bhi Anu ke upar hi depend h aur somewhere guilty b ki wo Anu ke upar bhoj ban gaya h