Toxic relationship - Page 3

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Why won't Anuj need Anupama in emergency then? How could he leave her with an old man? If Baa and Bapuji are so old to take care of Kinjal, then is GK young to take care of Anuj? And are Pakhi and Kavya babies? Why can't they sometimes hold the baby and let Kinjal rest? And what about the great Dadaji? Why can't he learn to make some nutritious food for Kinjal? If he is capable of the things he do on daily basis, then cooking is not rocket science for him. He is expert at cooking conspiracies, he can become expert at making sweets also.

The issue is that Kinjal kept saying 'mujhe Mummy chahiye' over and over again. She's probably gonna keep saying that still through the baby's childhood lol maybe even when she's an adult. So Anupama's only job will be to cater to Kinjal's kid.

This is why it's frustrating that Anuj brought up the whole adoption thing with Anu in the first place. Dude can see she's barely managing her own life and isn't even completely independent but no let's just throw another kid into the mix where the kid is going to have to interact with the toxic Shah's. And now choti Anu wants to spend time with 'everyone'. Smfh. Stupidity on his part.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Did u see the episode or read update that anupama ne anuj ke mobile anuj ke dawi ke liye remainder daala tha when anupama was in hospital

I am sure anupama anuj ke liye khaana bana ke gayi hogi

To kya anuj ko ,2,3hts ke liye anuj ko khaana paras ke ya dwai bhi nahin de sakta withoiu anupama itna bhaari kaam hai kya

How are you so sure about it?

Anupama Di ko pata tha ki kinju baby ko labor pain hone waale hai isliye khana pehle bana diya tha

ya phir labor pain start hone ke baad banaya. kinju baby ko bola ek ich min ruko. mai anuj ke liye pahta phat khana bana kar aayi.

Kinjal deserve some sort of care by anupama for some day because when kinjal use to abuse by her own son toshi ki. Darwaja kock karke kyon nahin aayi it was kinjal who support anupama

Anupama ki ghar mein koi help nahin karta that kinjal use to help. Anupama at least in cooking and bringing vegetables specially when anupama has ovarian

Baaki after 40 days kinjal khud hi apna khaya rakhegi

It is said nowhere ki anupama ko. Kinjal ke pass 365 days tuk uska khayal rakhna chahiye

Pehli baat to anuj ne hi anupama ko hospital bheja tha when anupama reluctant to go to hospital

Doosril baat jub gan pati ki pooja ho rahi thi tub us time jaroor 10 am se 12 pm hoga

To aise kaise possible hai ki anupama ne anuj ke khuch bhi bina masala wala khans 10 pm. Tuk nahin banaya ho

Anupama to subah 5 am mein uth ke naha dho le tulsi ki pooja karke sabse kitchen khans hi banane lagti hai

Woh 4,5 logon ka khaana aaram 2 ghante mein bana leti hai

Ek kaam karna chahiye anuj ko ki anupama ko apne saath rassi se bandhna chahiye ko nahin ab tum meri biwi ho saat vachan liya hai to tum ab kisi se baat nahin kar sakti isliye tumhe rassi se bandh diya hai apne saath

My parents have left me with my old grandparents and gone for business trips overnight and I was perfectly fine. As people have pointed out choti Anu is not so small that she needs 24/7 supervision. And as for Anuj, it's not like Anupama has left him to go for a vacation right?

I've heard that in childbirth, the woman is extremely vulnerable, and if Kinjal wanted Anupama and not Rakhi with her in the moment, that's her prerogative. And Anupama became a daadi for the first time. If she wants to stay with Kinjal and her baby for a few days then she totally should because these moments won't come back. As I said, right now Kinjal's wishes are the most important and if she is most comfortable with Anupama then Anupama should stay with her if she so desires.

And Anupama hasn't gone to space where she can't go to Anuj if he needs her for an emergency. Apart from GK, there are also servants in the house who can take care of him if need be.

People are expecting too much from Anupama. Just because she has a new family, it does not mean that her old family is any less important (her kids and Baa and Bapuji she considers to be her parents). I feel very irked when Kanta says Anuj is the most khaas relationship in her life. Every relationship has its own place and is equally important. Pati is not more important than bache, mata pita and career.

As I have said Anupama is enjoying being a dadi for the very first time. She is perfectly entitled to only think about that aspect of her life for a while.

Eunch may come to celebrate birth of baby. That eunch will demand one asli heeron ka haar from leela akhir leela par dadi jo ban gayi

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

I dont understand.. what reaction should I give?

😆 or 😈

The women who dont have MILs or whose MILs themselves need care, should not plan for the babies.

only MILs have experience, Maa ko toh suryadev baccha de jaate hai, jaise kunti ko diya tha.

Here, maalish bhi dekhna anupama di siwai kisi ko nahi aati hogi .... nahi toh kinjal jaise 1st month se uhhhh ahhhhhh kar rahi thi, saari jindagi karti rahegi. 😆.

Anyways, did audience react to the behaviour of Baa towards Dr.

I was saying yesterday, its insult to the Dr. their job is hard.

Today, Anu was praising Dr and maaroing same dialog.

kal jab Baa insult kar rahi thi iske saamne toh iske muh mei ladoo tha kya. Aaj isko yaad aaya ki Dr. Bhagwan hote hai🤣

Yeh there was an outrage in SM about Baa insulting doctors. So makers at the last moment added some dialogues to soothe the viewers.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

The issue is that Kinjal kept saying 'mujhe Mummy chahiye' over and over again. She's probably gonna keep saying that still through the baby's childhood lol maybe even when she's an adult. So Anupama's only job will be to cater to Kinjal's kid.

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his is why it's frustrating that Anuj brought up the whole adoption thing with Anu in the first place. Dude can see she's barely managing her own life and isn't even completely independent but no let's just throw another kid into the mix where the kid is going to have to interact with the toxic Shah's. And now choti Anu wants to spend time with 'everyone'. Smfh. Stupidity on his part.

Anu could have rejected the idea of adoption. Anuj did not force it on her. It's not like she has never rejected Anuj's proposals.

And Kinjal is a nutcase. Mujhe Mummy Chahiye. She has a biological mother who is more than willing to take care of her but she still manipulates Anupama knowing she has lots of responsibilities to come to her.

I don't understand writers

1, anu apne mayke nahi jaati thi, then SH is also her mayka then y she go there

2, if babuji need care then gk kaka also need care because they are elders

3, if AB, BB are wrong then baa n v r also wrong tih saza sirf AB BB ko kyu

4, maker ki nazar mein v r not abuser n baa is maa toh maa ki galti ho sakti hai maa galat nahi hoti so they r not there apne amal ka phal

Har scene mein v ko gussa detey hain means kyu

I really don't understand why CA inspired to v

, jo log shout kare hain kid unse darte hain na ke love kare