NEITHER VANRAJ NOR ANUJ - DT Note Pg 4 - Page 2

Originally posted by: IndominusRex

I know that it has been portrayed that he was in US .But the point here is not about US or it's culture , but regarding what actually is right. Casanova behavior is wrong for the obvious reasons , if you wanna know I can reply regarding that too. For whatever reasons maybe his heartbreak , parents' death , he did what he did and that was wrong .

And ironically the audience is enamored with him , thinking him as some kind of bhakt of prem or maryada purushottam when in reality his relationships with women are more messed up than vanraj.

I just want to draw the attention towards this aspect.

PEACE

The interesting aspect of an open forum is the myriad points of view posted. Everyone has different ideas about acceptable boundaries, and that is fine.

My issue is with you using "Casanova" to describe Anuj. Casanova was by all accounts a womaniser and a scam artist who's liaisons had overtones of scandal attached to them. We haven't heard anything of the sort about Anuj.

Saying his relationships are more messed up than Vanraj's can't be justified from whichever belief spectrum anyone comes from!

Originally posted by: IndominusRex

I know that it has been portrayed that he was in US .But the point here is not about US or it's culture , but regarding what actually is right. Casanova behavior is wrong for the obvious reasons , if you wanna know I can reply regarding that too. For whatever reasons maybe his heartbreak , parents' death , he did what he did and that was wrong .

And ironically the audience is enamored with him , thinking him as some kind of bhakt of prem or maryada purushottam when in reality his relationships with women are more messed up than vanraj.

I just want to draw the attention towards this aspect.

PEACE

Again and again u r using these abusive words to describe Anuj without knowing whole truth. PLEASE GROW UP .

It's a free world and we are all entitled to our own thought process and beliefs. I won't comment as I have no right to say you are right or wrong.

However, since this is open forum, like you, I would like to put across my thought process as well.

Casanova for me is someone who scam, cheats to get intimate with women. He only looks at external beauty and has use-n-throw attitude in general. ( No offense meant to women, being one myself, just trying to put my point)

- we all know, as per serial, Kavya is way pretty than Anupama in terms of external beauty. In the first office meeting Kavya came and stood very close to Anuj. He immediately showed his discomfort and asked her to sit. A Casanova would have enjoyed this for sure. Even when Kavya joined his office, Anuj maintained distance and infact told her to discuss with Anu only, no need to involve him.

- any women will know from their eyes, touch, what a man is thinking. Keep Anu aside, you have Devika too who never felt any discomfort with Anuj.

Lastly, how can a Casanova be behind Anu and do all the things Anuj is doing. ( Let's be honest, Anu is shown as simple housewife, not some beauty queen).

And arent Casanova more into ONS, then what is he doing with Anu.

for sure Anu is not the type to be intimate before marriage..

no Casanova would ever be interested in Anu or waste his time on her.

Originally posted by: Km181

It's a free world and we are all entitled to our own thought process and beliefs. I won't comment as I have no right to say you are right or wrong.

However, since this is open forum, like you, I would like to put across my thought process as well.

Casanova for me is someone who scam, cheats to get intimate with women. He only looks at external beauty and has use-n-throw attitude in general. ( No offense meant to women, being one myself, just trying to put my point)

- we all know, as per serial, Kavya is way pretty than Anupama in terms of external beauty. In the first office meeting Kavya came and stood very close to Anuj. He immediately showed his discomfort and asked her to sit. A Casanova would have enjoyed this for sure. Even when Kavya joined his office, Anuj maintained distance and infact told her to discuss with Anu only, no need to involve him.

- any women will know from their eyes, touch, what a man is thinking. Keep Anu aside, you have Devika too who never felt any discomfort with Anuj.

Lastly, how can a Casanova be behind Anu and do all the things Anuj is doing. ( Let's be honest, Anu is shown as simple housewife, not some beauty queen).

And arent Casanova more into ONS, then what is he doing with Anu.

for sure Anu is not the type to be intimate before marriage..

no Casanova would ever be interested in Anu or waste his time on her.

Aapne bahut ache se explain kiya👏ab itna explanation ke baad bhi koi samajhna na chahe to kya hi kare. Ur whole explanation is perfect regarding Anuj character. Sorry par jab koi Anuj ke baare mein iss type ke words baar baar use kare to emotions control nahi ho paate.

Originally posted by: magicalM

Aapne bahut ache se explain kiya👏ab itna explanation ke baad bhi koi samajhna na chahe to kya hi kare. Ur whole explanation is perfect regarding Anuj character. Sorry par jab koi Anuj ke baare mein iss type ke words baar baar use kare to emotions control nahi ho paate.

Thank you. I know we all love Anuj 😘

One more point i want to add kya pata usne bas shure ke yrs mein hi ye kiya ho jab usse laga ki wo move on kar sakta hai. Ye thodi na kahi hai ki wo ab tak 44 yrs mein bhi kar raha hai . Ho sakta hai usne 25 ya 30 tak ye sab chod diya ho.

Originally posted by: Km181

Thank you. I know we all love Anuj 😘

He is sweetheart ❤️Main usse iss show mein kabhi sad nahi dekh paaungi ek baar ko Samar ko dekh sakti hoon par usko mahi😭

This is so regressive.

You are talking like an armchair critic, or a Twitter troll I must say.

Anuj told anu clearly that he has had relations in the past, even one night stands, but if it was by consent, I don't think there is any problem or any third party person should have any problem with it, their life, their wish.

And incase you have a problem with how anuj is portrayed, then you can kindly stop watching the show because majority of the people love anuj, especially because he is a gentleman.

Originally posted by: shubhK2308

This is so regressive.

You are talking like an armchair critic, or a Twitter troll I must say.

Anuj told anu clearly that he has had relations in the past, even one night stands, but if it was by consent, I don't think there is any problem or any third party person should have any problem with it, their life, their wish.

And incase you have a problem with how anuj is portrayed, then you can kindly stop watching the show because majority of the people love anuj, especially because he is a gentleman.

Hey, I wrote my thoughts and other people shared their' , at the end of the day we have our own opinions. Incase you are so intolerant you can kindly stop viewing my post , because this is an open forum .

You can speak something new , but no HOWLING

I also stated my view only.

You only said that how are people liking a casonova like him, and I retaliated against it.

That's it, you are free to voice your opinion, just like I did mine.