Originally posted by: harshu.sundas
no her advising kashaf to take care of zaroon never bugged me because every mother does that and Rafiya does know about Kashaf's comlex nature, so she has an extra lecture for her always.. what bugged me was licking murtaza's ass most of the time ..🥱
Murtaza didnt stay after being taken care by Rafiya doesnt mean that Zaroon should be treated like a victim, he deserved his wife's care and affection which Rafiya made kashaf realize.. GOOD..
look i am independent and am doing undergrads, but still my mother tells me that my husband will kick me out as i cant cook, thats how natural mothers are, they do advise their daughters to take care of the husband and in laws to win their hearts. Murtaza's being spineless doesnt mean kashaf should be spineless in course of zaroon.. then whats the use ? that would mean kashaf is like her father who doesnt care about life partner's well being and all right ? so IMO those moments were good one.
yes no comparison .. not even Hina, the major arguements are because of Fawad, and trust me when i say it 😉
see your point above is a classic example of how each individual takes things as per ones own surroundings.
Rafiya pandering to Murtuza was another thing that used to get on my nerves.
But where the things she told Kashaf used to bug me is possibly because my mother tells me that it doesn't matter if I don't know to cook, and she used to always tell my brother that HE better learn to cook, because these days any girl who is financially independent, and will contribute to finances, will expect the man to contribute in the household chores 😆
Doesn't mean that one is right and the other one is wrong, but it surely means that there is a difference in individual choices.
Which basically boils down to what you and I are saying. That one cannot compare and it really doesn't mean that one serial is better than the other on any ground.
IMHO, even if you take Fawad, him being common in both serials, its unfair to judge him or his character too.
Both stories are different, and has piqued the interest of people in different ways.
Its not fair to compare the serials, nor justify one's opinion as the ultimate fact.
Humsafar, though it was a run of the mill story, was beautifully done. The way the emotions were conveyed, and the way it touched so many hearts, there was no doubt, something very special about it, beyong Asher and Khirad.
Fawad was fantastic as Asher, but he was very well matched with mahira who gave a wonderful performance to take the show through the way it did.