Abhira's toxic idealization - Page 3

Y should I not reply if I m tagged??? Waise bhi, in an open forum, I can and I will reply!!!!

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Originally posted by: India_TV

Y should I not reply if I m tagged??? Waise bhi, in an open forum, I can and I will reply!!!!

Then why should I not watch? Who are you and the other person to tell me what should I watch or not?

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

Abhira and Anupamaa follow the theme of "Women written by sexist men", putting your life at risk to give "ghar ka waris", being nice to abusive family and mother in-law, these are all wet dreams of Indian men

I agree there are so many sexist things being glorified.

But reality is, more then indian men it's for women who constitutes major part of their audience.

How a dil is bad and unworthy if she speaks for herself or criticize them or behave rudely.

And this thing I have seen on IF too by women only. (In initial days) how Ab has no right to retaliate because she lives in poddar house or how it's not wrong to change one's name coz dadisa wants it. They were normalising it.

Vese show's writers treat every women same be it their so called fl or pl, they just want to glorify inlaws.

I remember being angry on Ru after she was behaving lovely doevy with Vidya after getting slapped.

Or how Ab forgot Vi's shraap and hatered.

They make it look like no matter how your mil is she's not wrong because vo maa h.

And the worst part is people enjoy it too.

@bold though Ab risking her life was something I disliked most but it was not to give 'ghar ka vaaris' but to give Ar 'only khoon ka rishta who don't treat him paraya.'

Sahi….. but I want to reply….. especially when I m tagged….. na bhi Ho… thrn also I can and will reply😃😃😃

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I had to fly out for an interview leaving my 5 weeks old, a very difficult pregnancy daughter for an interview which was very important for my career. And I did it three times in that time period . Those interviews gave me job and my career. I expressed ounces of milk before leaving her with my husband. Which by the way my daughter feels proud about that we did it.

So now you will come behind me to give me 5 panna ka bhasan how wrong I am that I wronged every other women by not taking full break during my maternity leave days?

Also go ahead and compare me with this incident of my life with another woman who aspired to break someone else’s love marriage and wanted to become his wife (also breaking own marriage).

Thank you!!!

Originally posted by: Drna7

I agree there are so many sexist things being glorified.

But reality is, more then indian men it's for women who constitutes major part of their audience.

How a dil is bad and unworthy if she speaks for herself or criticize them or behave rudely.

And this thing I have seen on IF too by women only. (In initial days) how Ab has no right to retaliate because she lives in poddar house or how it's not wrong to change one's name coz dadisa wants it. They were normalising it.

Vese show's writers treat every women same be it their so called fl or pl, they just want to glorify inlaws.

I remember being angry on Ru after she was behaving lovely doevy with Vidya after getting slapped.

Or how Ab forgot Vi's shraap and hatered.

They make it look like no matter how your mil is she's not wrong because vo maa h.

And the worst part is people enjoy it too.

@bold though Ab risking her life was something I disliked most but it was not to give 'ghar ka vaaris' but to give Ar 'only khoon ka rishta who don't treat him paraya.'

Thank you for not treating it as an attack on Abhira, that's too much to expect

That's true that it is more towards women as they are the audience but if you notice a trend across the globe, you'll see a section of media is being generated to villify feminism and glorify patriarchal cultures

From tik tok to different TV shows and what these dramas do basically is putting out a narrative of "perfect woman" where women aren't treated like humans

The same track could be Abhira talking about importance of maternity leave for her and her child, she gave birth like a few weeks ago, going back to work comes later

Same drama could have been created with Kaveri asking her to work on something because she is a lawyer but Abhira needing a break after taking care of her baby

Then another track could be after maternity leave to show her going back to work then Kaveri saying that she refused before and Abhira telling her that she is ready now, physically, emotionally and mentally

Originally posted by: India_TV

Sahi….. but I want to reply….. especially when I m tagged….. na bhi Ho… thrn also I can and will reply😃😃😃

To jisko dekhna hai wo dekhega drama, especially when they are paying for subscription

Originally posted by: leafy2022

I had to fly out for an interview leaving my 5 weeks old, a very difficult pregnancy daughter for an interview which was very important for my career. And I did it three times in that time period . Those interviews gave me job and my career. I expressed ounces of milk before leaving her with my husband. Which by the way my daughter feels proud about that we did it.

So now you will come behind me to give me 5 panna ka bhasan how wrong I am that I wronged every other women by not taking full break during my maternity leave days?

Also go ahead and compare me with this incident of my life with another woman who aspired to break someone else’s love marriage and wanted to become his wife (also breaking own marriage).

Thank you!!!

Why would I come behind you? Do I know you?

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

Why would I come behind you? Do I know you?

LOL I thought that’s what is going on here as Abhira choose not to take the maternity leave.

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

https://x.com/AlpitaS08/status/1859892147711086651?t=1cJ6U_I0CkII7LRAI7g2Ng&s=19

A woman first ignores her health and goes through every bit of pain to give birth to a child, even being ready for her impending death so that her mother in law accepts her husband.

Then within weeks of a difficult pregnancy when a woman's body heals, she stands up and is shown going to work because apparently a woman can do both

A woman can do both but we women have fought for maternity leaves, we are still fighting for voluntary leaves during monthly courses because women's health is the most ignored topic, giving birth takes a toll on a woman's body, it is okay to not want to work but how can they show it here?

They could have shown greedy dadi taking the baby with her and asking Abhira to work on the case but Abhira saying that she wants to rest for a while but if she rests, wouldn't she be less than ideal?

I hate how makers use female leads to undermine women's causes

I agree totally … it is not ego .. there is something called hospital leave .. Abhira went through caesarean.. is healing .. they have various functions in the house and they are showing she has to show superstardom by choosing to go to work

I had to quit my job after 1 month of baby leave because my leaves were over .. I was not well during my pregnancy ..I eventually started work after 18 months .. simply because I could not handle so many things at one time

They should normalise all these issues .rather than doing superhero stuff