Insecurity [DT NOTE PG 2,8] - Page 3

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

kya baath hai, I wonder how always u ignore seeing ur fav Mr .Birla and focus only on Abhinav. The TM herself comparing AbM n AbN so obviously sensational hero tho ayenge na beech mein jaise won aaj kal show mein bhi beech mein thapakh raha hain😆

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

nope we will ask akshu to be learn raising your child than finding new papa everytime 😊 definitely i Don't want her to come back to her umar kaid wala pati 🥳

Even if she wanted to, Abhimanyu ain’t letting that happen. He’ll propose her right away lol.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Even if she wanted to, Abhimanyu ain’t letting that happen. He’ll propose her right away lol.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

this was the prediction 😆 but topic was insecurity of abhinav 😂

DT NOTE

Guys, knock it off. Don't bring religion into a discussion about a show that doesn't have much context to the show. Just chill and stick to the show.

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Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Not really ,kuch bhi ho,Abhinav ke bina topic or discussion hothi hi nahi hai forum mein ..that’s the fact 😆

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

He did not play with Akshara on hiding Abhirs truth. He told her multiple times to tell the truth but then left the decision on her. He still felt guilty about it.

Who told Nav is insecure about Abhir finding truth. Did we even see in any episode what his emotions are on that. The focus was all on his finances and he just feared that he will loose his son forever. He is insecured because he has right to know his son has known the truth. Because his wife and her ex hided it from him. I don't deny Nav is little insecured but not for reasons your mentioning. The two reasons are one he fears he will loose his life his loving son forever because of his finances or whatever. Second he was orphan and gained this family whom he loves so much that he is scared to loose them.

See if you don't agree on this. It's ok we both have different opinions on this and let's peace out. I have put my thoughts and you did the same.

First, he did hide the truth along with Ak, so there is no discussion. It is good that he felt guilty about it, and there was a back-and-forth between Ak and him about it, but that doesn't change the equation. They are married and made those decisions together.

Nav's insecurity has been the highlight of this show from the beginning of the leap. He has repeatedly said stuff about destiny and his role in this family. His insecurity is also very obvious during the custody battle, and it was not just about losing Abhir cause of the financial issue. Ak pointed out that Nav actually wanted to compete with Abhi. Nav himself said that Abhir should have everything he would have had (were he a Birla). The custody track did bring it out more for everyone to see, but the insecurity about his financial status has been there from the beginning.

To my understanding, Ak is only hiding the fact that Abhir knows half the truth cause she is worried Nav will be insecure. She may be wrong, and we will get to know Nav's perspective soon. As to my reasons for Nav's insecurity - I am only using the words he himself has spoken. He never refers to this family as being Ak's choice but Destiny's. He has repeatedly said to Abhi that destiny has given him this family, has given him Ak, etc. Now that destiny seems to be saying something different by bringing Abhira together; he is insecure. Because he still doesn't see Ak's choice or her devotion to this family. I have said this before; he is not insecure about Ak's love; he is insecure about his position/requirement in the family. He feels that if Abhi can fulfill this role well, then he is not required and is actually a thorn in the way of a happy family. But the point of all of this is that it is Ak's choice, and until she changes her choice, it doesn't matter if she is cordial and friendly with Abhi or if Abhir knows Abhi is his real father.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Also real parent and fake parent is not a thing. There are those who look after you and selflessly protect you. Sometimes it's your biological parents and sometimes it's not. The constant derision of adoptive relations on this forum is really cringe and has never been a part of the show before this season

The same real parent— a surgeon— kicked out the child's mother without even aborting the miscarried pregnancy which is why he didn't know about Abhir. So I don't feel too bad for him or his rights

I think fake parent is used interchangeably with adopted parent, but in any case, to say there is no difference between birth parents and adopted parents is not correct. Of course, there is a difference, and more importantly, there are rights. Real parents have rights recognized by the law. They deserve to be in their child's lives or even just know of their child's existence and decide for themselves. I don't want to get into a discussion of white day or what Abhi did to make him lose his rights cause the answer is nothing he does will ever make him lose his rights. Abhir can reject him, yes, and I see that happening anyways. But he still has rights. You can choose to ignore them or not care about them, but the Law doesn't. Adopted parents also have rights, by the way. And when and if Nav's rights are in trouble, then we can discuss more on that.

I have no issue with adopted parents or any derision toward them. But the issue is that the real/birth parent is not even being acknowledged as a parent because the adopted parent will feel insecure - Ak's words, not mine.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

nope we will ask akshu to learn raising your child than finding new papa everytime 😊 definitely i Don't want her to come back to her umar kaid wala pati 🥳

Ek toh are you "this forum" or its representative? Nahi toh phir that plural pronoun "we" is null and void.

[ Upar se "new papa" 'old papa' is not a thing. I would appreciate if you did not take this tone about a thing that very much happens in the real world. Real women (especially widows) are perfectly fine if and when they choose to get remarried. Though, I agree that fictional Akshara could always do much better than fictional Birla boy]

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I think fake parent is used interchangeably with adopted parent, but in any case, to say there is no difference between birth parents and adopted parents is not correct. Of course, there is a difference, and more importantly, there are rights. Real parents have rights recognized by the law. They deserve to be in their child's lives or even just know of their child's existence and decide for themselves. I don't want to get into a discussion of white day or what Abhi did to make him lose his rights cause the answer is nothing he does will ever make him lose his rights. Abhir can reject him, yes, and I see that happening anyways. But he still has rights. You can choose to ignore them or not care about them, but the Law doesn't. Adopted parents also have rights, by the way. And when and if Nav's rights are in trouble, then we can discuss more on that.

I have no issue with adopted parents or any derision toward them. But the issue is that the real/birth parent is not even being acknowledged as a parent because the adopted parent will feel insecure - Ak's words, not mine.

Waise just logically speaking in their case Abhinav doesn't have any legal rights on Abhir. Reason: Abhimanyu didn't sign on the adoption papers.

So at the moment if something happens to AK, abhimanyu will get full rights on Abhir till Abhir is of legal age and then if he wants he can go back to Abhinav.

That's how the law works Akshara's legal husband is not legally Abhir's adoptive father.

Akshara actually did a felony by writing wrong name in the certificate knowingly.

Rest emotionally it's a different case altogether.