Abhimanyu's pain more than Akshara's pain always? - Page 2

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Then his stand is justified over there. As he did not let her die rather he left it for goenkas to handle.

Not really, I mean, he knew how the Goenkas treated Ak before, also. And she is his wife, his responsibility, he can't just abandon her like that. Besides, the Gorillas were all hanging out together. He never wondered what happened to Ak, where is she, why isn't she with the Goenkas, and what is going on? I know he was busy with KM and stuff, but still. He should have gone to look for Ak with BP, he should have picked up her calls, and he should have listened to her. That is basic humanity yaar, even if she was with a friend, or whatever, he is still the most important person in her life. She is going to call him first if she needs help or anything. What is the point of not listening? He made a horrible mistake those seven months, and even after that, even if she is married, why didn't he go to meet her? Did all his love for her evaporate on the white day?

The thing is, the writers didn't think this through, they want us to only focus on two calls, but in this day and age, there is a lot they both could have done. There are a lot of plotholes with the whole leap. For example, BP thought she is staying with her friend, didn't her friend call and tell BP she is not staying with her anymore? BP never offered money or anything? Ak lived with Nav, who is a complete stranger, which is the stupidest thing again in this day and age. Like for example, that whole going to a hostel was so weird. With one phone call BP could have booked a hotel room for her. And Ak didn't even have a credit/debit card? She was married to a Birla and she herself is a Goenka, she should have had her own bank account and stuff. Even if she forgot her bags, she still had her phone, everything can be done with a phone these days. I can honestly point out a thousand plot holes, but they only want us to focus on two phones, and if that is what we are looking at, then yes, Abhi is wrong.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Not really, I mean, he knew how the Goenkas treated Ak before, also. And she is his wife, his responsibility, he can't just abandon her like that. Besides, the Gorillas were all hanging out together. He never wondered what happened to Ak, where is she, why isn't she with the Goenkas, and what is going on? I know he was busy with KM and stuff, but still. He should have gone to look for Ak with BP, he should have picked up her calls, and he should have listened to her. That is basic humanity yaar, even if she was with a friend, or whatever, he is still the most important person in her life. She is going to call him first if she needs help or anything. What is the point of not listening? He made a horrible mistake those seven months, and even after that, even if she is married, why didn't he go to meet her? Did all his love for her evaporate on the white day?

The thing is, the writers didn't think this through, they want us to only focus on two calls, but in this day and age, there is a lot they both could have done. There are a lot of plotholes with the whole leap. For example, BP thought she is staying with her friend, didn't her friend call and tell BP she is not staying with her anymore? BP never offered money or anything? Ak lived with Nav, who is a complete stranger, which is the stupidest thing again in this day and age. Like for example, that whole going to a hostel was so weird. With one phone call BP could have booked a hotel room for her. And Ak didn't even have a credit/debit card? She was married to a Birla and she herself is a Goenka, she should have had her own bank account and stuff. Even if she forgot her bags, she still had her phone, everything can be done with a phone these days. I can honestly point out a thousand plot holes, but they only want us to focus on two phones, and if that is what we are looking at, then yes, Abhi is wrong.

The two calls were messed up. Yeah i agres he should have gone but his story is not complete as majorly writers have shown what are akshu's actions what are abhi's reactions to it. They have kept it open ended if they want to redeem they can add some scenes in between to show abhi actually gone to search her. So it's too early to say how they want to take story forward.

Goenka's were not bad yar. They are partial but not everyone mimi loves akshu. Kairav loves akshu. They just have seen akshu adjusting so they just think she will adjust with arohi. Even though they don't take stand for her their love is still there. They ruined everyone for leap. Kairav was the first one to path up between abhira but this time he did not even questioned abhi. The writers wanted to ruin everyone.

There are two things why abhi did not go to akshu and why akshu did not come back.

Abhi ka patha nahi as they have not showm much or i missed it may he. So unless some one tells backstory i will keep it on hold. But personally even i felt white day was OTT. They just ruined everyone.abhi who was even scared when akshu got lost in jungle or some one locked her up in her marriage location was shown as least bothered on that day.

But akshu when she found she has abhinav with her she personally chose abhinav over other relation. akshu was ruined that day as she did not even felt like dropping a message to tell that person who literally wanted to be best papa in the world irresepctive of her relation with abhi she knows abhi.

Agree writers made both the leads as stupid inorder glorify new character.

All family members are shown as good for nothing.

Abhi was shown as worst husband. Akshu is shown as some one who needs male support to survive in the world. 😂

Classic example of victim blaming and internalized sexism.

People understand Abhimanyu’s trauma even if it is self inflicted .. but would justify every other character around to tarnish the female lead .. she was accused of multiple murders including that of her mother and thrown out by the guy who claimed to live her .. she was literally walking like a zombie after all the things she went through in one day .. I don’t think she took anything with her and I don’t think she wanted to be around people who would further blame her for all that she has lost .. it was shown very clearly that she was aimlessly just walking and got on to the first bus that came ,. You guys justify even the divorce and throwing out as because of Abhimanyu having been tortured so much by Akshara’s carelessness and stupidity .. but won’t even try to understand how she must have felt on that day .. lot of practical things have been said .. but a completely broken person who probably also didn’t think she had anything left to live for other than blames heaped by everyone .. how do you expect practical things like whether she had credit card , why she didn’t ask whom ever .. true Goenkas did love Akshu in their own way .. but they didn’t love her enough to go after her and ensure that she is really okay .. bade papa came back without even seeing her.. and she heard him say that abhimanyu does not want to even see her and that they also hold her responsible for Neel’s death .. so why would she want to go back really .. i guess we all empathise with different things in life .. for me if every one put themselves first we would be living in a pretty sad world .. so while it may not have been the most practical devision I won’t really blame Akshara for that decision ., that is Alshara .. Abhimanyu could have married someone else if he was looking for practical and self centered person .. it is not like her character was hidden from him.. and some fans put every decision of other grown adults on Akshara .. if Sbhimanyu tries to change her opinion by all the torture that he did in the name of love , it is not manipulation but pure love and lion roaring and what not .. but if she makes s last ditch effort because she wants to avoid abortion , that is manipulation and poor Sbhi got manipulated into allowing her to keep the babies .. if an almost 30 year old cardiac surgeon decides to marry the sister of the girl he is in forever love with, that is also her fault because somehow she is supposed to be responsible for making him change his decisions on the basis of an attraction they feel for each other .. and Abhimanyu has repeatedly chosen his family and mother over her , but somehow his love is superior and pure and inspite of that d day , she is supposed to have good memories? And consider that he really loved her? Love is not taking care when everything else is going fine ,. Love is standing by the person when things are not .. how does he not feel ashamed to even say he loves her if he could throw her out like that and have no remorse for 6 years ? And still have insane amount of anger to not even talk to her properly .. and she does say it was not 2 phone calls .. he ignored many calls fromHer as per both their admissions.. I want Abhira together , but only if Abhimanyu can be redeemed and made to realise what he did .. just saying some dialogues that I am bad is not enough .. and giving respect to the wrong people .,

Originally posted by: solembaum

People understand Abhimanyu’s trauma even if it is self inflicted .. but would justify every other character around to tarnish the female lead .. she was accused of multiple murders including that of her mother and thrown out by the guy who claimed to live her .. she was literally walking like a zombie after all the things she went through in one day .. I don’t think she took anything with her and I don’t think she wanted to be around people who would further blame her for all that she has lost .. it was shown very clearly that she was aimlessly just walking and got on to the first bus that came ,. You guys justify even the divorce and throwing out as because of Abhimanyu having been tortured so much by Akshara’s carelessness and stupidity .. but won’t even try to understand how she must have felt on that day .. lot of practical things have been said .. but a completely broken person who probably also didn’t think she had anything left to live for other than blames heaped by everyone .. how do you expect practical things like whether she had credit card , why she didn’t ask whom ever .. true Goenkas did love Akshu in their own way .. but they didn’t love her enough to go after her and ensure that she is really okay .. bade papa came back without even seeing her.. and she heard him say that abhimanyu does not want to even see her and that they also hold her responsible for Neel’s death .. so why would she want to go back really .. i guess we all empathise with different things in life .. for me if every one put themselves first we would be living in a pretty sad world .. so while it may not have been the most practical devision I won’t really blame Akshara for that decision ., that is Alshara .. Abhimanyu could have married someone else if he was looking for practical and self centered person .. it is not like her character was hidden from him.. and some fans put every decision of other grown adults on Akshara .. if Sbhimanyu tries to change her opinion by all the torture that he did in the name of love , it is not manipulation but pure love and lion roaring and what not .. but if she makes s last ditch effort because she wants to avoid abortion , that is manipulation and poor Sbhi got manipulated into allowing her to keep the babies .. if an almost 30 year old cardiac surgeon decides to marry the sister of the girl he is in forever love with, that is also her fault because somehow she is supposed to be responsible for making him change his decisions on the basis of an attraction they feel for each other .. and Abhimanyu has repeatedly chosen his family and mother over her , but somehow his love is superior and pure and inspite of that d day , she is supposed to have good memories? And consider that he really loved her? Love is not taking care when everything else is going fine ,. Love is standing by the person when things are not .. how does he not feel ashamed to even say he loves her if he could throw her out like that and have no remorse for 6 years ? And still have insane amount of anger to not even talk to her properly .. and she does say it was not 2 phone calls .. he ignored many calls fromHer as per both their admissions.. I want Abhira together , but only if Abhimanyu can be redeemed and made to realise what he did .. just saying some dialogues that I am bad is not enough .. and giving respect to the wrong people .,

Feel the same way. It’s with all itv shows, ML can do 10001 mistakes but they are forever victims. But FL ka every aspect is minutely criticised to ensure ML comes off better.

Classic example of victim blaming and internalized sexism.

Is pointing out one character's stupidity so that the other always shout is internalized sexism and victim blaming????So according to u AK won't do anything just Abhimanyu shout at her unnecessarily all the time right...Did u watch the episode of Neil death and white day???Is she had an ounce of regret .....Any sorry from her mouth ...Ak thinks whatever she does is right and everyone should accept this...What if Kairav die because of Abhi will she say bravo Abhi ...if so She should have killed Abhi....Mostly in name of feminism whatever a girl or fl do is right according to some ....I won't come in that category ...If Abhira are separated Ak is also at fault not only Abhi...

Originally posted by: solembaum

People understand Abhimanyu’s trauma even if it is self inflicted .. but would justify every other character around to tarnish the female lead .. she was accused of multiple murders including that of her mother and thrown out by the guy who claimed to live her .. she was literally walking like a zombie after all the things she went through in one day .. I don’t think she took anything with her and I don’t think she wanted to be around people who would further blame her for all that she has lost .. it was shown very clearly that she was aimlessly just walking and got on to the first bus that came ,. You guys justify even the divorce and throwing out as because of Abhimanyu having been tortured so much by Akshara’s carelessness and stupidity .. but won’t even try to understand how she must have felt on that day .. lot of practical things have been said .. but a completely broken person who probably also didn’t think she had anything left to live for other than blames heaped by everyone .. how do you expect practical things like whether she had credit card , why she didn’t ask whom ever .. true Goenkas did love Akshu in their own way .. but they didn’t love her enough to go after her and ensure that she is really okay .. bade papa came back without even seeing her.. and she heard him say that abhimanyu does not want to even see her and that they also hold her responsible for Neel’s death .. so why would she want to go back really .. i guess we all empathise with different things in life .. for me if every one put themselves first we would be living in a pretty sad world .. so while it may not have been the most practical devision I won’t really blame Akshara for that decision ., that is Alshara .. Abhimanyu could have married someone else if he was looking for practical and self centered person .. it is not like her character was hidden from him.. and some fans put every decision of other grown adults on Akshara .. if Sbhimanyu tries to change her opinion by all the torture that he did in the name of love , it is not manipulation but pure love and lion roaring and what not .. but if she makes s last ditch effort because she wants to avoid abortion , that is manipulation and poor Sbhi got manipulated into allowing her to keep the babies .. if an almost 30 year old cardiac surgeon decides to marry the sister of the girl he is in forever love with, that is also her fault because somehow she is supposed to be responsible for making him change his decisions on the basis of an attraction they feel for each other .. and Abhimanyu has repeatedly chosen his family and mother over her , but somehow his love is superior and pure and inspite of that d day , she is supposed to have good memories? And consider that he really loved her? Love is not taking care when everything else is going fine ,. Love is standing by the person when things are not .. how does he not feel ashamed to even say he loves her if he could throw her out like that and have no remorse for 6 years ? And still have insane amount of anger to not even talk to her properly .. and she does say it was not 2 phone calls .. he ignored many calls fromHer as per both their admissions.. I want Abhira together , but only if Abhimanyu can be redeemed and made to realise what he did .. just saying some dialogues that I am bad is not enough .. and giving respect to the wrong people .,

So beautifully summed up 👏

Akshu is selfless , she is mahaan she Is dumb she is stupid she lacks compassion .she is bashed even when she acts selfish and puts her family and child first..abhinav is bashed for being acha admi.but abhimanyu can be a jerk an asshole yet he is justified bec akshu kept abhirs truth from him ache log ache kyun hain , thats their fault. And ppl like abhimanyu r fine bec they r wronged by ache log. I don't get it 😕

Originally posted by: Vanavil25

Because AK is a liar...She is very talented to lie and live in an illusionary world of happiness...But Abhi is always truthfull straight forward and says what is what...Ak hides her trueself with a fake happiness ....And honestly speaking I couldn't get her point of view till now..According to me whatever she has done is stupidity...

By these standards abhinav toh dharti par ishwar ka avtaar hai 🤪

Originally posted by: Krinya

By these standards abhinav toh dharti par ishwar ka avtaar hai 🤪

To be honest nobody is making post on abhimanyu to justify him 😆 there are only few people who try to understand characters considering all aspects that does not mean we are mad about ml or we like the actor so we are saying it.

I criticize both the characters. If you scroll through last 5 pages of IF you make just see one or two posts that blames akshu. Rest all are ranting on abhim. People who criticize akshu they criticize abhim too.

Only minor people will come and justify with valid reasons.

Regarding scenes you mentioned that's common in every itv show. Fl is the star of the itv show. They only show fl is getting hurt everytime. Even anupama was walking aimlessly post anuj left.

I will not take decisions based on such scenes as those scenes majorly put for trp viewers to gain sympathy on the leads. Abhi could have also walked aimlessly on that day as his childrens are dead , his brother was dead and his mom was really ill.

He could have been shown as some one who is running away from situation but he just stayed there as he knew family needs him. I think in that terms.

but do not demean any opinions by saying ppl simply supporting a character. Why should i support him when i myself left the show on that white day and i am catching up those scenes now.. if i am really a hc or abhimanyu fan I would have never missed a single scene. Many people here are just general watchers who likes to watch what we like criticize characters when we feel so.

We do not consider those things which are common in every show.

Fl acting dumb ml acting rude as that's what seperation is as without that neither ml will get angry and fl gets seperated.

But that does not mean I hate lead couples or i hate Abhira. Once this track is over I will forget this track too and move on from its like how I did with other tracks. I can't allow these stupid separation tracks to take space in my memory. but many people here still want to judge abhi based on his past actions they still need to leave past behind to see the pov of characters.😊

No offense.