Abhimanyu's pain more than Akshara's pain always? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Vanavil25

of course her stupidity that made him shouting at her all the time..she turned him from a lover to a abuser if u think Abhi is an abuser…But according to me Abhi is not an abuser…

A lot of victim blaming in this response. You can't "turn" someone into an abuser. That's not how it works. So you think he's not a toxic character? Someone who could never take a stand for his wife especially against his mother?

Originally posted by: ..preeti..

He did search her I think, when he got to know that she didn’t go to the Goenkas after white day. I think his sis in law elder one told him about that . he search her till bade papa told him that he found Ak.

its not about who's pain is more... there are many instances in this show where akshara always downgrades abhi's pain during first leap when abhi said he died, akshara says I was dying everyday...... now when abhi says its complicated she says its 100 times more complicated for her........ like why can't u accept that both are in pain and there isn't more or less

From what I understand the two leads, Abhi and Akshu...Both have severe mental health issues and both need treatment...Akshu from psychologist and Abhi from psychiatrist...

Akshu was originally a doormat created by Goenkas...Akshu never really thinks her own emotions worth expressing, or that if she did she doesnt think anyone will understand...thats why she buries her pain deep under somewhere and acts like she is tough and people misinterpret it as her not having regret, having less pain and what not...and she is so busy hiding her emotions, she doesnt even notice sometimes she hides things she should not have, end up making wrong choices...And ofcourse, she is usually too busy dealing with all the pain internally, she ends not noticing how her actions effect other people...

Abhi is just the opposite...he thinks too much about his feelings...his pain, his loss, his brother, what he did right or wrong, what wrong Akshu did to him...how he is trying to be a better person and everyone should appreciate him for that...how he is feeling such pain that he didnt know he had a son...his anger, regret, pain, loss, reactions...it has always been about his own point of view in every situation...Never ever does he consider the other people's povs...and that applies for akshu, nav, abhir, arohi, ruhi, his mom just about everyone...he always focuses on what he is feeling, what he thinks should be done and over expressing those feelings by either anger and and abuse, or by going away or by being too much sorry for himself and overdoing the calm person thing so much everyone can see he is in pain...consciously or subconsciously he always makes sure everyone sees his emotions clearly...and at any point of time if the other person is acting what he thinks right, then that person has his support, otherwise...well we all know the otherwise...And it totally doesnt matter what the other person's pov is, what is right for them, what they are feeling...two people can be right from their own pov and still be wrong to each other...Abhi doesnt even try to understand this...

I mean leave Akshu, she is wrong too, they are just both wrong for each other...he is not even thinking that he agreed to marry Arohi and now his mom and Arohi has set up their minds like that, a little girl is expecting him to become her official dad soon, a little boy calls him docman and he already has a guy he knows is his papa...he is so busy expressing his own pain, and shouting at Akshu for hiding truth, not even thinking how those two kids wud react if they find out his truth, they dont deserve all this mental trauma they are about to go through in near future...It will be disaster for everyone when this truth goes public...Abhir already has Abhira's messed up DNA anyway, add to that being raised around monsters like Birlas and Goenkas and after next gen leap we will have a psychopath ready at hand...If Abhi was a good father like he is claiming he is and will be, he should consider how his reactions after knowing the truth will effect Abhir and how nobody deserves or wants the disaster the truth going public will bring...lets see if he does...

Why can't they get us more supernatural shows we are not meant for these shows 😆

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Why can't they get us more supernatural shows we are not meant for these shows 😆

if we had a say itv will be full of supernatural or thriller shows😆

Originally posted by: urmita

Well apparantly trp anties love toxic drama...the more toxic, the more trp...thats why😆

if we had a say itv will be full of supernatural or thriller shows😆

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

True 😆 I was in love with SP during 2000's friday and weekend was all about supernatural and fantasy shows 😆

infact off late SP shows have become so much more toxic...the old normal human wale shows also were quite less toxic and watchable...But sad reality is these things in sp gets trp, while the positive shows sab tv or sony network come up with, most people dont even notice they exist...

Originally posted by: urmita

why cant we get a good weekend supernatural show on SP, why are they being this much greedy and toxic only they know😆 even I used to love those times...

infact off late SP shows have become so much more toxic...the old normal human wale shows also were quite less toxic and watchable...But sad reality is these things in sp gets trp, while the positive shows sab tv or sony network come up with, most people dont even notice they exist...