Is eloping a good decision in real life? - Page 6

I’m going re-stress on the ‘Being grateful for your existence’ point. And fyi, I’m a parent! At no point, I want my child to be put in a position wer he has to chose between me and his life! I have to earn his respect apart from being titled ‘his mom’!!
And as far as Abhi and Akshara are concerned, they are emotionally stable! Both gave up on few things for their families and put their happiness in back burner! To me, choosing someone’s happiness other than yours is ‘emotionally stable’! Their marriage would work out well if they opened up abt their respective lives, and learnt to trust each other!

a parent does not say no just for the society,there are other honest reasons.inter religion and intercaste marriage is very common.even my parents marriage in love,i.e intercaste,but to live such marriage is not a joke.i have seen the ups and downs. saathiya movie is best example.love marriage is easy to do but ussaey shaadi kaey baad nibhana is the biggest task.

all movies show only the happy moments till marraige,but after marriage what the couple goes through,no one shows the reality.

coming to my kids,we dont even know what will happen tomorrow,why should i scratch my head now itself. i have seen the failures in marriages,both love and arranged. marriage is not a joke.thats it.

not all love marriage clicks.

Exactly! When we bring in external factors such as ‘caste’, ‘religion’ , then ‘you’ stop mattering to your parents! Hence the ‘Elope’

Everyone wants to make their marriage a success! And this is why it is important for two emotionally mature adults to elope if they are not able to convince their families. And I don’t think you will still understand my view but to each their own!

Have you seen ‘Paava Kadhaigal’ with Sai Pallavi and Prakash Raj Sequence in Netflix!! Give it a try sometime.. !

Originally posted by: _charu_

I agree abhimanyu and akshu messed up, but why shouldn't the families suffer ? They deserve this as they have been ignoring their children's feelings ..doesn't kairav know the complete truth ? Doesn't arohi know ? Neil? Manjari? Mahima? Harsh? Everyone knows abhimanyu is into akshara and vice versa ..yet by some strange logic they allowed arohi abhimanyu to happen so they deserve the brickbats coming their way.

Manish , ag and Co. Act dumb, weird and blind . Dikhta nahi ke abhimanyu doesnt talk to arohi normally so only on arohis zid they agreed for rishta..who does that ? Although abhimanyu and akshara messed up, yet , they r the ones who should get married bec if arohi marries abhimanyu, the 3 of them will forever suffer.