Is Akshara Overreacting? - Page 3

Originally posted by: stuti_naksh4eva

i dnt know what exactly to reply..😕😕
i dnt agree that it is nt naitik's fault AT ALL... i mean he is definitely at fault😳

Originally posted by: nigo123

I dont think so when it was reshmi's weddig and natik was sick and wanted to spend time with akshara she had no time for him and was soo busy and when natik got mad we all blamed him. Looking from a practical point of view, natik cannot quit his work and sit at home with akshara and he is not ignoring her all the time but in life and marriage there are times when we are too stressed and our spouse should understand and support us. Instead of feeling lonely and neglected akshara should spend her free time figuring out why natik is behaving like this.

Infact when he was too involved in her pregnancy in the beginning we were all getting annoyed that he always sits at home and never goes to work. As soon as his deal is finalized he will obviously spend more time with her but she needs to learn to wait and understand natik is responsible for 100s of employee's source of income.

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Stuti - nice post! Good attempt at a balanced post. Naitik ke points sab kaat diye based on last 2 episodes?😆 All those months of poodle time just gone a waste...🤣 Hum ladkiyaan hote hi aise, we need constant attention, 24/7. Haan baba galthi humesha ladkon ki hai, woh samjthe hi nahi...🤣

First of all, I do not want to make it about Akshara or Naitik bashing; I said this in my post & I'm repeating it. Guys, the division between opposing fans is getting wider by day & I do not want to be party to it. It's seriously becoming a turn off! Can we have just discuss as YR fans? Is that too much of a request? I may sound like a broken record but the views we express reflect our experiences, we have nothing against Akshara or Naitik. They are just used as catalysts to our opinions.

Enough Bhaashan but it was long overdue...😊 I was getting irritated by the insinuations that is causing a divide on this forum... Kaan pakdke sorry if you think it was unwarranted...😃

I can't believe I'm reading this! Naitik accused of not wanting to spend enough time with his pregnant wife...😲 Is this for real???? 😲

Let's dissect kal ka episode.

• First of all, Akshara's outfit yest was bad. This was to just show her as bechari/TRP. BM ka blouse pehna tha kya? At 6 months, itni takleef?😲 Exaggerated again but ho saktha hai. Every person is different. Holding on to belly & walking around & not to forget the great effort while adjusting her position while seated😲 Can we have a female director who has had babies? Mujhe hi bulwaliya hota...😆
  

• Barging into Naitik's cabin w/o knocking. Yes, your husband owns the place but it's not ok. There some work etiquette's you must follow & he was clearly embarrassed. But Akshara realized she made a mistake. Itni bhi badi galthi nahi thi but it's not ok.

• Once in, Naitik introduced his clients to her but was there a tad bit hesitation to introduce her? Is it because she barged in that caused embarrassment? Not cool at all! If I were her I would seriously take offense to that one.

• Akshara introducing herself almost being defensive, kyun? Insecurity over Amrita? Kyun? All this talk about not feeling pretty etc, is exaggerated. Most reasonable men, accept their wives in any shape or form. Naitik has always been very devoted to her, even during her palla days which he detested. I never once recall him judging her on her figure or weight.

• Akshara continued going around the room, talking about maa's pareshani, aapne khana, nahi khaya...😕 It was like she was in their bedroom😲 Sorry, but that is not ok, he was having a meeting. Agar galthi se undar aabhi gayi, excuse yourself & stay quiet.

• Naitik asking her to send it thru the driver but he could have elaborated. Woh jo soch raha tha, humhe dikhaya. Why couldn't he say that to her? 😕 Biwi hai, she took the trouble. So be nice! Sometimes guys can overlook such minor details and do such bewakoofi. I always crib, meri efforts are never appreciated. But I'm the kind who thinks jab gold medal nahi milega tho try kyun kare?...🤣
  

• Jaipur jaane ka zidd was childish. Self pity ke alawa aur kuch nahi; she feels neglected. Naitik clearly right here.

Humesha Akshara mujhe advice dethi hai Monday to Monday & I follow it down to a tee. MB will vouch for that, haina? Izzat ka sawal hai baba. Haan bol bhi dho...🤣 Chalo, aaj meri baari hai...🤣

• Akshara needs to come to terms with her pregnancy first. She has too much time on her hands. Reminds me of my son who constantly complains that he is having bad thoughts when he is bored...🤣

• She is fully aware Naitik is busy. Has Naitik ever neglected her in the past?😕 If he had, I would sympathize with her. A good man does not change overnight just because his wife is gaining weight or is clumsy! Why doesn't she remember all those times he wanted to take her out instead of this one instance when he doesn't? Why think of RR or feel insecure over Amrita?😲

• Aksar aise ho jatha hai when we are pregnant or even after having the baby, we feel down/weak. Bad thoughts gair letha hai. You feel that, maine itna sab kiya & he goes scott free...🤣Some women end up cursing him in the delivery room...🤣But that is nature, it's a part of life! We simply have to learn to deal with it. Does Akshara want to sit & cry or do something positive for them? Decorating or planning the nursery would be a good start!

There are some things we women have to learn to deal with independently & pregnancy is one of them. Husbands can only show concern, be supportive but they cannot do it all the time. They have stressful lives outside the home. Also, they never realize fully the extent to which our body takes a beating. Cribbing about it is only going to make matters worse for both involved; he may make it a habit & visit friends to avoid her. Being supportive & taking good care of herself is all she should do. Easier said than done but that is the reality.

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Stuti - nice post! Good attempt at a balanced post. Naitik ke points sab kaat diye based on last 2 episodes?😆 All those months of poodle time just gone a waste...🤣 Hum ladkiyaan hote hi aise, we need constant attention, 24/7. Haan baba galthi humesha ladkon ki hai, woh samjthe hi nahi...🤣

First of all, I do not want to make it about Akshara or Naitik bashing; I said this in my post & I'm repeating it. Guys, the division between opposing fans is getting wider by day & I do not want to be party to it. It's seriously becoming a turn off! Can we have just discuss as YR fans? Is that too much of a request? I may sound like a broken record but the views we express reflect our experiences, we have nothing against Akshara or Naitik. They are just used as catalysts to our opinions.

Enough Bhaashan but it was long overdue...😊 I was getting irritated by the insinuations that is causing a divide on this forum... Kaan pakdke sorry if you think it was unwarranted...😃

I can't believe I'm reading this! Naitik accused of not wanting to spend enough time with his pregnant wife...😲 Is this for real???? 😲

Let's dissect kal ka episode.

• First of all, Akshara's outfit yest was bad. This was to just show her as bechari/TRP. BM ka blouse pehna tha kya? At 6 months, itni takleef?😲 Exaggerated again but ho saktha hai. Every person is different. Holding on to belly & walking around & not to forget the great effort while adjusting her position while seated😲 Can we have a female director who has had babies? Mujhe hi bulwaliya hota...😆
  

• Barging into Naitik's cabin w/o knocking. Yes, your husband owns the place but it's not ok. There some work etiquette's you must follow & he was clearly embarrassed. But Akshara realized she made a mistake. Itni bhi badi galthi nahi thi but it's not ok.

• Once in, Naitik introduced his clients to her but was there a tad bit hesitation to introduce her? Is it because she barged in that caused embarrassment? Not cool at all! If I were her I would seriously take offense to that one.

• Akshara introducing herself almost being defensive, kyun? Insecurity over Amrita? Kyun? All this talk about not feeling pretty etc, is exaggerated. Most reasonable men, accept their wives in any shape or form. Naitik has always been very devoted to her, even during her palla days which he detested. I never once recall him judging her on her figure or weight.

• Akshara continued going around the room, talking about maa's pareshani, aapne khana, nahi khaya...😕 It was like she was in their bedroom😲 Sorry, but that is not ok, he was having a meeting. Agar galthi se undar aabhi gayi, excuse yourself & stay quiet.

• Naitik asking her to send it thru the driver but he could have elaborated. Woh jo soch raha tha, humhe dikhaya. Why couldn't he say that to her? 😕 Biwi hai, she took the trouble. So be nice! Sometimes guys can overlook such minor details and do such bewakoofi. I always crib, meri efforts are never appreciated. But I'm the kind who thinks jab gold medal nahi milega tho try kyun kare?...🤣
  

• Jaipur jaane ka zidd was childish. Self pity ke alawa aur kuch nahi; she feels neglected. Naitik clearly right here.

Humesha Akshara mujhe advice dethi hai Monday to Monday & I follow it down to a tee. MB will vouch for that, haina? Izzat ka sawal hai baba. Haan bol bhi dho...🤣 Chalo, aaj meri baari hai...🤣

• Akshara needs to come to terms with her pregnancy first. She has too much time on her hands. Reminds me of my son who constantly complains that he is having bad thoughts when he is bored...🤣

• She is fully aware Naitik is busy. Has Naitik ever neglected her in the past?😕 If he had, I would sympathize with her. A good man does not change overnight just because his wife is gaining weight or is clumsy! Why doesn't she remember all those times he wanted to take her out instead of this one instance when he doesn't? Why think of RR or feel insecure over Amrita?😲

• Aksar aise ho jatha hai when we are pregnant or even after having the baby, we feel down/weak. Bad thoughts gair letha hai. You feel that, maine itna sab kiya & he goes scott free...🤣Some women end up cursing him in the delivery room...🤣But that is nature, it's a part of life! We simply have to learn to deal with it. Does Akshara want to sit & cry or do something positive for them? Decorating or planning the nursery would be a good start!

There are some things we women have to learn to deal with independently & pregnancy is one of them. Husbands can only show concern, be supportive but they cannot do it all the time. They have stressful lives outside the home. Also, they never realize fully the extent to which our body takes a beating. Cribbing about it is only going to make matters worse for both involved; he may make it a habit & visit friends to avoid her. Being supportive & taking good care of herself is all she should do. Easier said than done but that is the reality.

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Stuti - nice post! Good attempt at a balanced post. Naitik ke points sab kaat diye based on last 2 episodes?😆 All those months of poodle time just gone a waste...🤣 Hum ladkiyaan hote hi aise, we need constant attention, 24/7. Haan baba galthi humesha ladkon ki hai, woh samjthe hi nahi...🤣

First of all, I do not want to make it about Akshara or Naitik bashing; I said this in my post & I'm repeating it. Guys, the division between opposing fans is getting wider by day & I do not want to be party to it. It's seriously becoming a turn off! Can we have just discuss as YR fans? Is that too much of a request? I may sound like a broken record but the views we express reflect our experiences, we have nothing against Akshara or Naitik. They are just used as catalysts to our opinions.

Enough Bhaashan but it was long overdue...😊 I was getting irritated by the insinuations that is causing a divide on this forum... Kaan pakdke sorry if you think it was unwarranted...😃

I can't believe I'm reading this! Naitik accused of not wanting to spend enough time with his pregnant wife...😲 Is this for real???? 😲

Let's dissect kal ka episode.

• First of all, Akshara's outfit yest was bad. This was to just show her as bechari/TRP. BM ka blouse pehna tha kya? At 6 months, itni takleef?😲 Exaggerated again but ho saktha hai. Every person is different. Holding on to belly & walking around & not to forget the great effort while adjusting her position while seated😲 Can we have a female director who has had babies? Mujhe hi bulwaliya hota...😆
  

• Barging into Naitik's cabin w/o knocking. Yes, your husband owns the place but it's not ok. There some work etiquette's you must follow & he was clearly embarrassed. But Akshara realized she made a mistake. Itni bhi badi galthi nahi thi but it's not ok.

• Once in, Naitik introduced his clients to her but was there a tad bit hesitation to introduce her? Is it because she barged in that caused embarrassment? Not cool at all! If I were her I would seriously take offense to that one.

• Akshara introducing herself almost being defensive, kyun? Insecurity over Amrita? Kyun? All this talk about not feeling pretty etc, is exaggerated. Most reasonable men, accept their wives in any shape or form. Naitik has always been very devoted to her, even during her palla days which he detested. I never once recall him judging her on her figure or weight.

• Akshara continued going around the room, talking about maa's pareshani, aapne khana, nahi khaya...😕 It was like she was in their bedroom😲 Sorry, but that is not ok, he was having a meeting. Agar galthi se undar aabhi gayi, excuse yourself & stay quiet.

• Naitik asking her to send it thru the driver but he could have elaborated. Woh jo soch raha tha, humhe dikhaya. Why couldn't he say that to her? 😕 Biwi hai, she took the trouble. So be nice! Sometimes guys can overlook such minor details and do such bewakoofi. I always crib, meri efforts are never appreciated. But I'm the kind who thinks jab gold medal nahi milega tho try kyun kare?...🤣
  

• Jaipur jaane ka zidd was childish. Self pity ke alawa aur kuch nahi; she feels neglected. Naitik clearly right here.

Humesha Akshara mujhe advice dethi hai Monday to Monday & I follow it down to a tee. MB will vouch for that, haina? Izzat ka sawal hai baba. Haan bol bhi dho...🤣 Chalo, aaj meri baari hai...🤣

• Akshara needs to come to terms with her pregnancy first. She has too much time on her hands. Reminds me of my son who constantly complains that he is having bad thoughts when he is bored...🤣

• She is fully aware Naitik is busy. Has Naitik ever neglected her in the past?😕 If he had, I would sympathize with her. A good man does not change overnight just because his wife is gaining weight or is clumsy! Why doesn't she remember all those times he wanted to take her out instead of this one instance when he doesn't? Why think of RR or feel insecure over Amrita?😲

• Aksar aise ho jatha hai when we are pregnant or even after having the baby, we feel down/weak. Bad thoughts gair letha hai. You feel that, maine itna sab kiya & he goes scott free...🤣Some women end up cursing him in the delivery room...🤣But that is nature, it's a part of life! We simply have to learn to deal with it. Does Akshara want to sit & cry or do something positive for them? Decorating or planning the nursery would be a good start!

There are some things we women have to learn to deal with independently & pregnancy is one of them. Husbands can only show concern, be supportive but they cannot do it all the time. They have stressful lives outside the home. Also, they never realize fully the extent to which our body takes a beating. Cribbing about it is only going to make matters worse for both involved; he may make it a habit & visit friends to avoid her. Being supportive & taking good care of herself is all she should do. Easier said than done but that is the reality.