Is Akshara Overreacting?

1. Lack Of time:: akshi wants to share some moments, some time with naitik. she didnt do yoga to be with naitik.. she calls him often.. she waited to have dinner with him... all she gets is the feeling of getting ignored... its not that she doesnt understand that naitik is busy with work... all she expects is a cute smile, a 2 sec hug... naitik cant just spare 2 secs to be with akshi? when he knows she needs him???
2. Going to his office:: akshi was sooo excited to go to naitiks ofc... she thought she would be able to spend some time together... going to her husbands office is no big deal... she used to go earlier too... and then naitik used to love it... why not now??? forget loving the feeling of his preg wife coming to his office to be with him... he got irritated?? he felt awkward??? what sort of a reaction is this?? he didnt even smile at akshi... instead he indirectly expressed his anger by telling her "u cud have sent this with maharajji" this is so bad
3. False Promises:: when naitik knows he wont be able to make it to go for a walk with akshi.. why is he giving her false hopes?? tell her he is busy with work... go with g3 (ofcourse in a better way).. but atleast dnt give her the hope.. that "he will try his best"... a flat truth is far better than a dying hope. akshi can understand that he is busy.. but how can she take naitik not coming for a walk even after promising??
4. Ignoring/Not replying properly etc:: Naitik comes home tired... he sleeps.. akshi has her dinner.. she sleeps beside him... she starts talking... i agree after asking one sentence... she understood he was tired.. and she shud have not continued bombarding questions at her tired hubby... but that dusnt mean she cant hold his hand😲 the couple who used to sleep hugging each other just a while ago!!! akshi just held his hand... (one.. to feel protected; two. to show naitik she is der with him) naitik can let her hold his hand right? why not i ask??? he shudnt have taken it away from her...leaving his wife sad
5. Insecurity:: i wont call it only hormones. i mean i know during pregnancy it is the hormonal system that dominates ur body more than ur nervous system... and this is a point. but the feeling of insecurity hasnt solely arised from those proteins inside our body!! Having suffered already during the sneha track... one can expect akshi to feel insecure about her hubby specially when her weight and ponch.. both are increasing day by day😳

1. Work:: he is very busy with work... we all understand that... he dusnt get a min to relax... he is tired at night... he cant see anything but work work work... thats y he is not able to spend time with his wife... bt wait a second... while driving the car... u realised u didnt say bi to akshi.. then y didnt u call her back huh??? i guess "Mr Right" thought he might be right in not saying bi to her
2. i have no other point to defend naitik.. i m sorry😳

Originally posted by: stuti_naksh4eva

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Stuti - nice post! Good attempt at a balanced post. Naitik ke points sab kaat diye based on last 2 episodes?😆 All those months of poodle time just gone a waste...🤣 Hum ladkiyaan hote hi aise, we need constant attention, 24/7. Haan baba galthi humesha ladkon ki hai, woh samjthe hi nahi...🤣

First of all, I do not want to make it about Akshara or Naitik bashing; I said this in my post & I'm repeating it. Guys, the division between opposing fans is getting wider by day & I do not want to be party to it. It's seriously becoming a turn off! Can we have just discuss as YR fans? Is that too much of a request? I may sound like a broken record but the views we express reflect our experiences, we have nothing against Akshara or Naitik. They are just used as catalysts to our opinions.

Enough Bhaashan but it was long overdue...😊 I was getting irritated by the insinuations that is causing a divide on this forum... Kaan pakdke sorry if you think it was unwarranted...😃

I can't believe I'm reading this! Naitik accused of not wanting to spend enough time with his pregnant wife...😲 Is this for real???? 😲

Let's dissect kal ka episode.

• First of all, Akshara's outfit yest was bad. This was to just show her as bechari/TRP. BM ka blouse pehna tha kya? At 6 months, itni takleef?😲 Exaggerated again but ho saktha hai. Every person is different. Holding on to belly & walking around & not to forget the great effort while adjusting her position while seated😲 Can we have a female director who has had babies? Mujhe hi bulwaliya hota...😆
  

• Barging into Naitik's cabin w/o knocking. Yes, your husband owns the place but it's not ok. There some work etiquette's you must follow & he was clearly embarrassed. But Akshara realized she made a mistake. Itni bhi badi galthi nahi thi but it's not ok.

• Once in, Naitik introduced his clients to her but was there a tad bit hesitation to introduce her? Is it because she barged in that caused embarrassment? Not cool at all! If I were her I would seriously take offense to that one.

• Akshara introducing herself almost being defensive, kyun? Insecurity over Amrita? Kyun? All this talk about not feeling pretty etc, is exaggerated. Most reasonable men, accept their wives in any shape or form. Naitik has always been very devoted to her, even during her palla days which he detested. I never once recall him judging her on her figure or weight.

• Akshara continued going around the room, talking about maa's pareshani, aapne khana, nahi khaya...😕 It was like she was in their bedroom😲 Sorry, but that is not ok, he was having a meeting. Agar galthi se undar aabhi gayi, excuse yourself & stay quiet.

• Naitik asking her to send it thru the driver but he could have elaborated. Woh jo soch raha tha, humhe dikhaya. Why couldn't he say that to her? 😕 Biwi hai, she took the trouble. So be nice! Sometimes guys can overlook such minor details and do such bewakoofi. I always crib, meri efforts are never appreciated. But I'm the kind who thinks jab gold medal nahi milega tho try kyun kare?...🤣
  

• Jaipur jaane ka zidd was childish. Self pity ke alawa aur kuch nahi; she feels neglected. Naitik clearly right here.

Humesha Akshara mujhe advice dethi hai Monday to Monday & I follow it down to a tee. MB will vouch for that, haina? Izzat ka sawal hai baba. Haan bol bhi dho...🤣 Chalo, aaj meri baari hai...🤣

• Akshara needs to come to terms with her pregnancy first. She has too much time on her hands. Reminds me of my son who constantly complains that he is having bad thoughts when he is bored...🤣

• She is fully aware Naitik is busy. Has Naitik ever neglected her in the past?😕 If he had, I would sympathize with her. A good man does not change overnight just because his wife is gaining weight or is clumsy! Why doesn't she remember all those times he wanted to take her out instead of this one instance when he doesn't? Why think of RR or feel insecure over Amrita?😲

• Aksar aise ho jatha hai when we are pregnant or even after having the baby, we feel down/weak. Bad thoughts gair letha hai. You feel that, maine itna sab kiya & he goes scott free...🤣Some women end up cursing him in the delivery room...🤣But that is nature, it's a part of life! We simply have to learn to deal with it. Does Akshara want to sit & cry or do something positive for them? Decorating or planning the nursery would be a good start!

There are some things we women have to learn to deal with independently & pregnancy is one of them. Husbands can only show concern, be supportive but they cannot do it all the time. They have stressful lives outside the home. Also, they never realize fully the extent to which our body takes a beating. Cribbing about it is only going to make matters worse for both involved; he may make it a habit & visit friends to avoid her. Being supportive & taking good care of herself is all she should do. Easier said than done but that is the reality.