Is Akshara Overreacting? - Page 4

Originally posted by: mini_00

Awesome post Stuti'😊👏 And sari loved your post too...👏👏It's common to have mood swings during pregnancy, because of hormonal changes that affect your levels of neurotransmitters (chemical messengers in the brain) and the broad range of feelings you may have about becoming a parent. Not only akshi... Everyone women responds differently to these changes.

The same thing happens in akshi's case for the past few days'Since she is a house wife and her expectation is quite acceptable but she needs to understand that it is not possible for naitik to sit and pamper her like what gayathri is doing. She needs to be independent as she is a graduate rite'but sometimes she behaves like kid.

As discussed earlier, with physical changes which HEr body experiences may make feels HER that she is unattractive and hence, depressed about her physical appearance and it's quite normal among the pregnant woman in reality... Avoiding petty quarrels between naksh is MORE important during the pregnancy between naksh but taking the blame for everything is not the answer.

This will only set a precedence between that will continue once the baby is born. It is not healthy to be in a relationship where everything that goes wrong is the fault of one person. NAITIK can carry a lot but expecting him to take the blame for every wrong is absurd. Akshi needs to learn to control her raging emotions, understand that your husband didn't change overnight -- they did. It is the responsibility of BOTH naksh to create a peaceful environment for the baby to grow in. Being pregnant does not give an akshi a nine month pass to behave as she sees fit. If the behavior is disrespectful then address it every time.

Mood swings in pregnant woman and too akshi's case often crop up due to the depression and anxiety occurring in her thinking about their upcoming responsibility of taking care of the baby and she needs naitik presence that too when she is free LOL. This factor is mostly responsible for causing mood swings in akshi as she is going to give birth for the first time.

One of the most important aspects of a successful relationship is effective communication between both naksh. Reasons behind lack of communication in akshi's case may vary from time to time but the important thing is both of them shouldn't let these problems come in the way of their relationship. Always talk things out between themselves before they get worse and never let lack of communication lead to misunderstandings .Hope they work toward that 'especially naitik since he is an understanding sweet husband.😊

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Stuti - nice post! Good attempt at a balanced post. Naitik ke points sab kaat diye based on last 2 episodes?😆 All those months of poodle time just gone a waste...🤣 Hum ladkiyaan hote hi aise, we need constant attention, 24/7. Haan baba galthi humesha ladkon ki hai, woh samjthe hi nahi...🤣

First of all, I do not want to make it about Akshara or Naitik bashing; I said this in my post & I'm repeating it. Guys, the division between opposing fans is getting wider by day & I do not want to be party to it. It's seriously becoming a turn off! Can we have just discuss as YR fans? Is that too much of a request? I may sound like a broken record but the views we express reflect our experiences, we have nothing against Akshara or Naitik. They are just used as catalysts to our opinions.

Enough Bhaashan but it was long overdue...😊 I was getting irritated by the insinuations that is causing a divide on this forum... Kaan pakdke sorry if you think it was unwarranted...😃

I can't believe I'm reading this! Naitik accused of not wanting to spend enough time with his pregnant wife...😲 Is this for real???? 😲

Let's dissect kal ka episode.

• First of all, Akshara's outfit yest was bad. This was to just show her as bechari/TRP. BM ka blouse pehna tha kya? At 6 months, itni takleef?😲 Exaggerated again but ho saktha hai. Every person is different. Holding on to belly & walking around & not to forget the great effort while adjusting her position while seated😲 Can we have a female director who has had babies? Mujhe hi bulwaliya hota...😆 i didnt notice the putfit... but yes.. it was exxagerated
  

• Barging into Naitik's cabin w/o knocking. Yes, your husband owns the place but it's not ok. There some work etiquette's you must follow & he was clearly embarrassed. But Akshara realized she made a mistake. Itni bhi badi galthi nahi thi but it's not ok. she had looked thr the window di.. i know we shud always knock and go.. but 1. she thot he was alone.. she only him thru the window. 2. it was a surprise... i agree it was a mistake though🤔
  

• Once in, Naitik introduced his clients to her but was there a tad bit hesitation to introduce her? Is it because she barged in that caused embarrassment? Not cool at all! If I were her I would seriously take offense to that one. insecurity😆😆.. we were laughing at that dialogue of hers... laughing out loud... 😆😆 thats what i said.. she was insecure... she is turning fat day by day... and she sees naitik with some fit lady😆😆 imagine her state😛😛 i wnt call it akshi's mistake... she was clearing that naitik is married... uspe line mat maarna
  

• Akshara introducing herself almost being defensive, kyun? Insecurity over Amrita? Kyun? All this talk about not feeling pretty etc, is exaggerated. Most reasonable men, accept their wives in any shape or form. Naitik has always been very devoted to her, even during her palla days which he detested. I never once recall him judging her on her figure or weight. thats a point... but the way he is ignoring her these days... she is feeling insecured... its part of her genes (rj's genes...) and nt to forget.. hormones
  

• Akshara continued going around the room, talking about maa's pareshani, aapne khana, nahi khaya...😕 It was like she was in their bedroom😲 Sorry, but that is not ok, he was having a meeting. Agar galthi se undar aabhi gayi, excuse yourself & stay quiet. yup... i agree with u completely... she was acting unreasonable... she shud stay mum.. she actually made the clients feel awkward😲
  

• Naitik asking her to send it thru the driver but he could have elaborated. Woh jo soch raha tha, humhe dikhaya. Why couldn't he say that to her? 😕 Biwi hai, she took the trouble. So be nice! Sometimes guys can overlook such minor details and do such bewakoofi. I always crib, meri efforts are never appreciated. But I'm the kind who thinks jab gold medal nahi milega tho try kyun kare?...🤣 finally a point in akshi's favour... thanx di😃
  

• Jaipur jaane ka zidd was childish. Self pity ke alawa aur kuch nahi; she feels neglected. Naitik clearly right here.agreed😉

Humesha Akshara mujhe advice dethi hai Monday to Monday & I follow it down to a tee. MB will vouch for that, haina? Izzat ka sawal hai baba. Haan bol bhi dho...🤣 Chalo, aaj meri baari hai...🤣

• Akshara needs to come to terms with her pregnancy first. She has too much time on her hands. Reminds me of my son who constantly complains that he is having bad thoughts when he is bored...🤣 --🤣🤣🤣 i agree.. idle mind is a devils workshop😛
  

• She is fully aware Naitik is busy. Has Naitik ever neglected her in the past?😕 If he had, I would sympathize with her. A good man does not change overnight just because his wife is gaining weight or is clumsy! Why doesn't she remember all those times he wanted to take her out instead of this one instance when he doesn't? Why think of RR or feel insecure over Amrita?😲 because after all shes a woman... controlled by her heart not her brain... like most of us🤔 i have heard insecurity is feeling every preg women gets... so its akshis turn now
  

• Aksar aise ho jatha hai when we are pregnant or even after having the baby, we feel down/weak. Bad thoughts gair letha hai. You feel that, maine itna sab kiya & he goes scott free...🤣Some women end up cursing him in the delivery room...🤣But that is nature, it's a part of life! We simply have to learn to deal with it. Does Akshara want to sit & cry or do something positive for them? Decorating or planning the nursery would be a good start!

There are some things we women have to learn to deal with independently & pregnancy is one of them. Husbands can only show concern, be supportive but they cannot do it all the time. They have stressful lives outside the home. Also, they never realize fully the extent to which our body takes a beating. Cribbing about it is only going to make matters worse for both involved; he may make it a habit & visit friends to avoid her. Being supportive & taking good care of herself is all she should do. Easier said than done but that is the reality.

Originally posted by: --Sari--

un-reserve kar diya. Mera face pack kaha hai?😉😆

Originally posted by: moonlight08

stuts.. pehle to awesome post! 👍🏼

secondly, just to remind u, im a thali ka baingan.. kabhi bhi kisi ki bhi side ho sakti hu..😆

thirdly.. here i go!😛

pata what, im soo confused at this point of time.. who's right, who's wrong, kis ki galti hai, kiski galti nahi hai.. infact galti hi kya hai mujhe to ye bhi nahi pata..😕 all i know is, that the situations they are placed in is certainly wrong.. it's the circumstances which are forcing naitik and akshara to behave in such a manner..

akshara compared naitik to rituraj..😲 why? circumstances bindiya and rituraj were in were entirely different from that naksh are placed in.. rituraj ignored bindiya on purpose.. but naitik.. he's not doing anything intentionally.. it's just that he's busy.. yess akshara is insecure.. and her insecurities are somewhat justified.. but certainly not to the point where she starts comparing her husband with rituraj.. im sorry..🤣🤣 lolz... i noe... naitik kaha... rr kaha

throughout yesterday's epi, i was on akshara's side.. especially when naitik told her ki driver ke saath khaana bhijwa dete.. this was rude.. i know he didn't mean to say that the way akshara conceived it,, it was still rude..

sari di has explained yesterday's epi really well.. i have no words to say after that..😊

but surely, would like to comment on the last part.. accept it or not stuts, akshara was being unreasonable.. she said.. 'pehle bhi to aap le jate the mujhe' naitik could have easily said, 'aap kitni baar gayi hai mere saath bta dijiye', and trust me, akshara would not have been left with any answer! naitik didn't say that, it was his goodness.. moreover, akshara should have understood this fact that naitik would be really busy! i got ur msg yesterday, aate jaate waqt to baat ho sakti thi na.. tell me something stuts, jab vo ghar par usse thik se baat nahi kar raha, how can u expect vo journey mein baat karega? point kaumu... i agree to this... akshi was unreasonable... sari di k post pe if u see my comment... i have said the same thing i mean he's going for the work purposes and he obviously would prepare for the same na!u know jab insaan busy hota hai, to vo sach mein busy ho jaata hai.. and frankly, i don't blame naitik wholly.. in sari di's post, charu di has explained this really well.. she said, akshara is waking up from a slumber.. which is absolutely true!

i want u to read this.. charu di is at her very best.. as usual!😃

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai/1923731/is-there-more-to-it-or-is-it-just-hormones?pn=4

Originally posted by: _Mariam_

awsome post stuti 😃 i thought to share some of my point of view's kitne ache nahi hain phir me dont hit me with chappals 😆 🤣🤣dnt worry jaan... wnt do anything to u😆 tujhe chappal marungi toh FC kiske saath kholungi🤣🤣

First of all i will start with natik i dont think he is wrong poor guy is snowed under work and tensed that he isnt seeing anything else around him, he isnt ignoring her purposley and in yday epi when he got off his phone and went in the car he did relize he missed something and that was saying bye to akshara he was about to ring her back but his battery was low and he forgot his charger so he prob thought not to use his phone, another point akshi raised with natik yday was that he didnt tell her that he was going to jaipur even though she visted him in the office again natik was tensed with the meeting as it was really important for him then being busy in work it would have slipped his mind and not talking akshi with him was a sensible decision as he would be busy in work and not be able to look after her properly what if something happens to her he wont will feel guilty,

in today's epi when natik's friends were chatting rubbish he should have stopped them yup he shud have... such a bad person... he didnt.. and then akshi mu'ed everything😭 but in the precap when akshara gets angry with him i dont think again its natiks fault as he didnt say anything and she should heard all the convo before shutting it down and he loves her a lot but is not being able to give her tym, even if he smiles at her or hugs her for 2 secs she will be happy but he isnt understanding this point at this tym she needs his support and him to be by her side. exactly what i want to convey... i mean 2 secs can be spared... he is not thaaat busy with akshara going to his office and walking in yeah she didnt knw someone was there but natik did feel akward in front of the clients he wasnt expecting her to be there, when he talked to her outside and expressed that she shoudnt came and sent it with the driver or maharji but when akshi walked away he also said i am sorry but i dont want you to face any problems, he should said it to her face instead which woudnt made her feel bad either. exactly... he shud have said the same thing to her... she is his wife right... then y u hiding stuff... dnt tell everything... but what u can say.. u can

My point of view for akshi i am not defending natik just trying to give both side takes 😳

well rem when natik wanted to spend tym with akshi before he got busy with office work cause of diwali then they magically made diwali vanish 😆 but that time akshi didnt leave her yoga class to be with him by the time she fin from there he would be in a rush and head to office, that time he used to feel sad right??? so the same thing when naitik does to her.. she dusnt have the right to feel sad😲 wowww😆😆 when akshi went to his office she went in excitment she would get to spend some tym with her husband but when she walked in his office the clients were there and natik was akward and didnt expect her there but natik could gave her a small smile which would made her happy again thanx for supporting me😃 when he said that she could sent it with maharji and when akshi walked away feeling bad he did say i am sorry i dont want to trouble you in this condition he should said it to her face instead, I rem natik did say to akshi go with ma for the walk but she said that its hard for her to walk nowdays and she wants him by her so he made a false promise that he will be there without relizing that it will have an impact on her as she will be waiting for him and will feel bad , when akshi rang and he was busy in the meeting understandable he coudnt pick up the phone but he could send her a txt saying this she would have understand, yup... that would have been a better opt.. i didnt realise when natik said to akshi you should have ate by now ok he was tierd and had his dinner already but just eating one bite would made her happy but again in tirdness he didnt relize this either , when akshi asked her tierd hubby questions she knew hw was tierd but she wanted to communicate with him also and didnt choose the right time, yes when they were sleeping natik was wrong of letting her hand go if he just kept it there she would feel protected and knew he is beside her all the time. love you🤗 😆😆 Natik isnt relizing that him not giving akshara tym is making her feel insecure at tyms as similar events already happened as she rem bindya and her words by looking at the precap akshi would think natik dosnt want her with him at this tym as she heard his friends talk , on the other hand natik woudnt relize why akshara is feeling this way as she will shut the phone on him so both arent wrong in there own way they should just sit down and talk for once.

my longest reply ever stuti and i knw its bakwas 🤣 and didnt match up to your awsome post but this was my point of view which i tried my best to put down 😳😃

Originally posted by: mini_00

Awesome post Stuti'😊👏 And sari loved your post too...👏👏It's common to have mood swings during pregnancy, because of hormonal changes that affect your levels of neurotransmitters (chemical messengers in the brain) and the broad range of feelings you may have about becoming a parent. Not only akshi... Everyone women responds differently to these changes.

The same thing happens in akshi's case for the past few days'Since she is a house wife and her expectation is quite acceptable but she needs to understand that it is not possible for naitik to sit and pamper her like what gayathri is doing. She needs to be independent as she is a graduate rite'but sometimes she behaves like kid. ya di... sometimes she sucks

As discussed earlier, with physical changes which HEr body experiences may make feels HER that she is unattractive and hence, depressed about her physical appearance and it's quite normal among the pregnant woman in reality... Avoiding petty quarrels between naksh is MORE important during the pregnancy between naksh but taking the blame for everything is not the answer.

This will only set a precedence between that will continue once the baby is born. It is not healthy to be in a relationship where everything that goes wrong is the fault of one person. NAITIK can carry a lot but expecting him to take the blame for every wrong is absurd. Akshi needs to learn to control her raging emotions, understand that your husband didn't change overnight -- they did. It is the responsibility of BOTH naksh to create a peaceful environment for the baby to grow in. Being pregnant does not give an akshi a nine month pass to behave as she sees fit. If the behavior is disrespectful then address it every time.

Mood swings in pregnant woman and too akshi's case often crop up due to the depression and anxiety occurring in her thinking about their upcoming responsibility of taking care of the baby and she needs naitik presence that too when she is free LOL. This factor is mostly responsible for causing mood swings in akshi as she is going to give birth for the first time.

One of the most important aspects of a successful relationship is effective communication between both naksh. Reasons behind lack of communication in akshi's case may vary from time to time but the important thing is both of them shouldn't let these problems come in the way of their relationship. Always talk things out between themselves before they get worse and never let lack of communication lead to misunderstandings .Hope they work toward that 'especially naitik since he is an understanding sweet husband.😊

Originally posted by: stuti_naksh4eva

face pack kyun di🤣🤣

Originally posted by: pari1508

coz she thinks akshi ko criticize karne ke baad unki or bahot saare ande aur tamatar aaenge which are gud for skin...😆