what a disgusting, petty, ridiculous mindset!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: pinky35

dont know abt others i will be the first one to buy it............😃

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

aare vohi toh mai bolna cahti hoon ki doosron ki story par mat chalo...sab ki life aur uske events unique hote hain aur jaise situations tumhari life me aate hain unhe vaise hi deal karo...preset mind kabhi mat rakhna coz jo mera saath bura ho vohi same cheez ko tumhare saath acha ho sakta hai....apni apni kismat kismat ki baat hai 😃

Akshara's situation and her in-laws are just like my sister and her in-laws(you can say akshara's situation is better than my sister's and akshara always reminds me of my sister). All of this does happen in real life even today(all these restrictions expections not going to maayka or movies or something,doing only house work,blaming only the bahu.etc). I think its good that they are showing this so that girls and parents become aware of what to expect and be careful when choosing a guy.its not just about the guy.look at the whole family.what would be better is that they should show how this is wrong and show a solution to it maybe. we are not indians but we can still relate to it so its not a problem only in india but everywhere.and media is a great source to teach something(today its always used for bad things).
people treat their bahu so badly and forget that they have daughters too who will become someone else's bahu too. in future, if rashmi or nandini gets married and they are not allowed to visit their maayka then how would their family feel(but right now they are not thinking like this..it will be good to show this in future to teach them a lesson). i agree that mothers should not make their sons munna. let them grow up.

I totally agree

to the original poster--i agree with you, a lot things here are very far fetched and nothing like reality. but i think sometimes we tend to forget that this too is a serial. TRPs do matter a lot for the creatives, after all its their funding. and there is a lot of money involved.

all said and done, it saddens me to see that the directors are not using this platform to show something beneficial to india's society and eliminate the backwards thinking.

Can you believe this is the best soap in India???

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

I think most of us are too young to write about all the aspects of marriage 😆😆....abhi bahut nibhana baki hai I think 😆....but in reality anyone who is married will tell u these things....

and even if we write a book,married log will not read our book and unmarried log who mite want to read it, wont have time to read it 😆😆

wow so many different viewpoints....i can understand young unmarried girls in India or abroad , can never relate to these circumstances bec. our upbringing has been very different , we're equally pampered by our parents ANd we expect the same treatment after marriage.......we're extra sensitive to handle anybody's taunts ,opinions or beliefs.....


Yes a few situations are over dramatized in yrkkh but THEY EXIST..few examples u will get here on the forum itself...if we think that akshara is young and immature to handle her in laws , ur absolutey WRONG because no matter how mature we become, it's IMPOSSIBLE to keep everybody happy at the same time.....so start this process with yourself..keep yourself happy first only then you can keep everyone else happy........I agree with Ritu that in India, we don't marry the guy, we marry his family also..and we do end up spending more time of our lives with them rather than our husbands....so it's better to be careful in selecting your life partner and look at the complete picture before deciding..decide what's best for yourself , how much you can adjust with them.........if u have some priority like u wanna work after marriage , dicate it to them clearly before saying yes for marriage....


It's very surprising for some that Naitik can't find his socks....that's a routine for us...boys never do anything on their own (may be not all but a majority)..even if tht thing is lying in front of them they don't wanna make an extra effort to take it on their own..u call it laziness or u can say they're pampered or my hubby's theory "i like it when u do something for me"


I wud like like to say that you can never know what marriage and love is till the time u experience it....so it's better not to jump to conclusions and create a negative image about it because of some serial or some character....we possess that much intelligence right ? we're educated adults....

Originally posted by: _charu_

wow so many different viewpoints....i can understand young unmarried girls in India or abroad , can never relate to these circumstances bec. our upbringing has been very different , we're equally pampered by our parents ANd we expect the same treatment after marriage.......we're extra sensitive to handle anybody's taunts ,opinions or beliefs.....


Yes a few situations are over dramatized in yrkkh but THEY EXIST..few examples u will get here on the forum itself...if we think that akshara is young and immature to handle her in laws , ur absolutey WRONG because no matter how mature we become, it's IMPOSSIBLE to keep everybody happy at the same time.....so start this process with yourself..keep yourself happy first only then you can keep everyone else happy........I agree with Ritu that in India, we don't marry the guy, we marry his family also..and we do end up spending more time of our lives with them rather than our husbands....so it's better to be careful in selecting your life partner and look at the complete picture before deciding..decide what's best for yourself , how much you can adjust with them.........if u have some priority like u wanna work after marriage , dicate it to them clearly before saying yes for marriage....


It's very surprising for some that Naitik can't find his socks....that's a routine for us...boys never do anything on their own (may be not all but a majority)..even if tht thing is lying in front of them they don't wanna make an extra effort to take it on their own..u call it laziness or u can say they're pampered or my hubby's theory "i like it when u do something for me"


I wud like like to say that you can never know what marriage and love is till the time u experience it....so it's better not to jump to conclusions and create a negative image about it because of some serial or some character....we possess that much intelligence right ? we're educated adults....

Such a serious discussion was going on in this thread . Didn't see it before.

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

I agree with you that this serial is showing a few things which are extreme, old fashioned and maybe dont apply to our individual cultures...but I'm very uncomfortable for you to say that this serial is driving young girls away from marriage....this is a serial and should be taken as one....do not consider it as the bible for all relations and marriage or think that all the events that are shown are real and will definitly happen to you...

All I'm saying is you can say what u want about the serial's silliness as long as you dont influence that in your personal life decisions....Television is meant to be beyond reality and thats wht they r showing...even the reality shows are not reality so let alone a soap opera like this one....

To all the marriageable girls .......What Ritu has said is very true.....one has to realize that this is only entertainment and fictionalised account and should not be confused with real life! Reel & real are different! We don't want to spoil your idyllic picture of marriage and ruin it with our pragmatism.....but in marriage everything will not fit into a comfort zone. Most of what the media portrays in the name of love is passion, a very volatile but transient emotion, with a life span of abt a couple of years.....if a relationship stays beyond that, it is because of the presence of likeness, compassion, compromise and friendship! With the Kaka kaki track they showed.......divorce and compromise is a 1,2,3 process, but in reality if someone was smart enough to understand this, the process is far more complicated than that.

TV soap & high TRP's .....The unfortunate reason is that in general, we enjoy seeing other people being miserable, its human nature to alleviate one's own misery by concentrating on someone else's messed up life. That is the reason shows like Bidaai & Balika badhu, YR are still running with such high TRP's........... I guess tears & TRP"s are directly proposanate!

God made two sex only to complete each other...this give & take may be 50/50 or 80/20 ,we only have to try our best so that both of them get equal chance to expand their wings & use their potential to the maximum by complementing each other.......just my5cents