what a disgusting, petty, ridiculous mindset!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I seriously have had enough of this bullshit! this show seems like its airing in 50s era🤢🤢 Its nothing about love after marriage or a beautiful journey of a married couple! All they show is how a girl's life is FINISHED after her so-called marraige! how the in-laws hire a 24-hour maid in the name of their son's marriage! how the bahu is supposed to just take everyone's crap and never ever open her mouth to have her say in anything.

Well she cant even decide what clothes to wear🤢🤢🤢 The mother-in-law is only concerned about her 'munna'🤢🤢 and yelling at the poor bahu that she doesn't take good care of him as if he is a bloody 2-year old🤢 what the hell is she supposed to do with that munna? feed him with feeder or change his nappies???🤢😆

wow.... this show is driving EVERY young girl away from marriage.. and making us feel as if the girl is sold to the in-laws after marriage🤢🤢 she cant even MOVE without their permission let alone going for a profession and leading a normal, independent life.

akshara is not even allowed to stay in her home for a night because 'use ek din ke liye hi bheja tha'🤢 bloody hell!!! this daddaji🤢🤢 what a sickminded moron he is!

i really dont understand what kind of audience watch this mindless piece of crap which is HIGHLY offending to normal people🤢

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I completely agree with you. they made such big deal that akshara would be staying at her parents' place for the night....it so ridiculous....they were allowing her to go back the next day, that is so stupid, what's the point then?
I can't believe that akshara can't even step out of the house without their permission, she can't even go to the mall, she has to make excuses. and they let their 'munna' doesn't need permission if he wants to go somewhere (unless he goes with akshara), that is so disgusting.

and they show that every girl is suposed to leave her college/career after marriage and walk around the house with her head covered....like she has no life and nothing better to do. ....what's the point of akshara doing college and all if she will only be trapped in that house...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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they just commercialising the serial for getting high TRP and far away from the main theme, by that time they reach to the theme of YRKKH they loose TRP as well as viewers ..

running episodes maheswari family they made like a fraud family.. is this the way to upbring your daughter, taking her away from the truth and trying to hide their daughter's carelessness .. even the character dadi supporting it.. so far she always stood for honesty and truthfulness.. instead of showing their daughter the right path, they are misleading her and making the family name go down to the drains, which is unbelievable .. by doing this, they even showing their own bahu (varsha) what needed to be done when a situation arises.. how ridicule this can be..

What they wanted to prove here, spoiling akshara's relationship with her inlaws, that too with a high handed drama.. they are many ways they could have done it.. here loosing the integrity of the theme and story .. so sad to see it..
Edited by lathika4u - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree wid u all..
these singhanias r soo old-fashioned type yar...dis is so irritaing..
akshara cant get out of the house widout dadaji's permission...disgusting..
n sabse mahaan..maheshwaris..
god..why r dey misleading akshu...akshara shud tell d truth now...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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guys i dont really blame maheshwaris for doing this! I mean akshara's in-laws are MONSTERS! they make issue even if akshara drops a pin so we can imagine how insane they all would have gone when they come to know about that ugly-looking haar!!! they are mad people! they are like animals with no brains of their own simply following ALL the idiotic, ridiculous 'reet-riwaaj' including their pampered 'munna'.🤢🤢🤢

What happened today was just the limit man!! munna cant even locate his SOCKS!! and his mother was blaming akshara for this as she has changed the place... this is SICKENING!!! a grown-up 25yr old man is actually dependent on his wife to give him his SOCKS🤢!!!! awfully disgusting! it seems like he is handicap! I m sure akshara changes his nappies, then gives him bath , then finally dresses him up and then sends him to the office🤢..SHIT! if a man is so dumb that he cant even find his socks so one can imagine what he does in office!!!! what kind of upbringing HE HAS GOT? gayatri is always pointing fingers on akshara's carelessness and her parwariash but never realising that her own son has turned out to be the most useless, stupid fellow! I mean this munna is always worried about his socks, shoes, shirts, handkerchief and such petty things 🤢! this makes me awful..! i mean in my home not even a 10year old make fuss about such small things! but gayatri is more than fine with all this but she can't tolerate if anyhting goes wrong on akshara's part!!!🤢

And this dadda ji desperately need some psychotherapy!!🤢🤢

Edited by heaven_view - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I completely agree--EKTA'S career ended because she started showing stupid, vulgar stuff like 4 marriages at even the age of 60 and living way after 100..its ridiculous...and Rajan's career is going to end because of the fact that he focuses on lame 1800's..I mean seriously if the families are so close-minded they should make a difference and show how people should change with time...there is no difference between girl's and guy's in today's world...also in Bidaai...just because you have a darker skin tone its like the worst thing in the world...that so isn't the case anymore..since a lot of successful actresses today like Bipasha Basu, Asin are not the fairest girls in the world...I really hate the way they portray characters in today's modern world we dont need any bhenji's who are less of wives and more of servants!!...I seriously wouldnt want to be married right coz of all this bad messages they portray😡😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: heaven_view

I seriously have had enough of this bullshit! this show seems like its airing in 50s era🤢🤢 Its nothing about love after marriage or a beautiful journey of a married couple! All they show is how a girl's life is FINISHED after her so-called marraige! how the in-laws hire a 24-hour maid in the name of their son's marriage! how the bahu is supposed to just take everyone's crap and never ever open her mouth to have her say in anything.

Well she cant even decide what clothes to wear🤢🤢🤢 The mother-in-law is only concerned about her 'munna'🤢🤢 and yelling at the poor bahu that she doesn't take good care of him as if he is a bloody 2-year old🤢 what the hell is she supposed to do with that munna? feed him with feeder or change his nappies???🤢😆

wow.... this show is driving EVERY young girl away from marriage.. and making us feel as if the girl is sold to the in-laws after marriage🤢🤢 she cant even MOVE without their permission let alone going for a profession and leading a normal, independent life.

akshara is not even allowed to stay in her home for a night because 'use ek din ke liye hi bheja tha'🤢 bloody hell!!! this daddaji🤢🤢 what a sickminded moron he is!

i really dont understand what kind of audience watch this mindless piece of crap which is HIGHLY offending to normal people🤢

I agree with you that this serial is showing a few things which are extreme, old fashioned and maybe dont apply to our individual cultures...but I'm very uncomfortable for you to say that this serial is driving young girls away from marriage....this is a serial and should be taken as one....do not consider it as the bible for all relations and marriage or think that all the events that are shown are real and will definitly happen to you...
Being married, I can tell you with certianity that marriage by no means is the ship of fantasy and it takes a lot of effort to steer in the right direction....and also it is not the relation between just the husband and wife....you dont marry the boy, but u end up marrying the whole family and this serial is showing you exactly that....how Akshara not only has to build up her relationship with Naitik but with each and every 1 of her inlaws, including the servants....Whether we like it or not, she is the new addition into their family and SHE has the most adaptation to do and from the perspective the serial is showing the rite thing...the love and journey that they have started is starting to get beautiful but its foolish to think that there wont be any roadblocks...and ofcourse the CVs add their mich masala to it...thats why take the serial as a serial...
yes there are things like her not being allowed to stay at her maayka and all that which to you and me are a bit extreme, and I said the same thing yesterday but someone else told me that it does happen in their culture...so I backed off...and for Akshara taking care of each and every need of Naitik...what can I say...thats her timepass if nothing....what do you expect her to do otherwise given this situation....she has ntg to do all day anyways so mite as well be around him....I think its too much babying him and no 1 really does this much today but who knows...
All I'm saying is you can say what u want about the serial's silliness as long as you dont influence that in your personal life decisions....Television is meant to be beyond reality and thats wht they r showing...even the reality shows are not reality so let alone a soap opera like this one....
Edited by ritu_iluvyrkkh - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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ritu di very nicely said u all should write a book on marriage.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pinky35

ritu di very nicely said u all should write a book on marriage.

I think most of us are too young to write about all the aspects of marriage 😆😆 ....abhi bahut nibhana baki hai I think 😆....but in reality anyone who is married will tell u these things....
and even if we write a book, married log will not read our book and unmarried log who mite want to read it, wont have time to read it 😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

I think most of us are too young to write about all the aspects of marriage 😆😆 ....abhi bahut nibhana baki hai I think 😆....but in reality anyone who is married will tell u these things....
and even if we write a book, married log will not read our book and unmarried log who mite want to read it, wont have time to read it 😆😆

dont know abt others i will be the first one to buy it............😃

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