Originally posted by: heaven_view
I seriously have had enough of this bullshit! this show seems like its airing in 50s era🤢🤢 Its nothing about love after marriage or a beautiful journey of a married couple! All they show is how a girl's life is FINISHED after her so-called marraige! how the in-laws hire a 24-hour maid in the name of their son's marriage! how the bahu is supposed to just take everyone's crap and never ever open her mouth to have her say in anything.
Well she cant even decide what clothes to wear🤢🤢🤢 The mother-in-law is only concerned about her 'munna'🤢🤢 and yelling at the poor bahu that she doesn't take good care of him as if he is a bloody 2-year old🤢 what the hell is she supposed to do with that munna? feed him with feeder or change his nappies???🤢😆
wow.... this show is driving EVERY young girl away from marriage.. and making us feel as if the girl is sold to the in-laws after marriage🤢🤢 she cant even MOVE without their permission let alone going for a profession and leading a normal, independent life.
akshara is not even allowed to stay in her home for a night because 'use ek din ke liye hi bheja tha'🤢 bloody hell!!! this daddaji🤢🤢 what a sickminded moron he is!
i really dont understand what kind of audience watch this mindless piece of crap which is HIGHLY offending to normal people🤢
I agree with you that this serial is showing a few things which are extreme, old fashioned and maybe dont apply to our individual cultures...but I'm very uncomfortable for you to say that this serial is driving young girls away from marriage....this is a serial and should be taken as one....do not consider it as the bible for all relations and marriage or think that all the events that are shown are real and will definitly happen to you...
Being married, I can tell you with certianity that marriage by no means is the ship of fantasy and it takes a lot of effort to steer in the right direction....and also it is not the relation between just the husband and wife....you dont marry the boy, but u end up marrying the whole family and this serial is showing you exactly that....how Akshara not only has to build up her relationship with Naitik but with each and every 1 of her inlaws, including the servants....Whether we like it or not, she is the new addition into their family and SHE has the most adaptation to do and from the perspective the serial is showing the rite thing...the love and journey that they have started is starting to get beautiful but its foolish to think that there wont be any roadblocks...and ofcourse the CVs add their mich masala to it...thats why take the serial as a serial...
yes there are things like her not being allowed to stay at her maayka and all that which to you and me are a bit extreme, and I said the same thing yesterday but someone else told me that it does happen in their culture...so I backed off...and for Akshara taking care of each and every need of Naitik...what can I say...thats her timepass if nothing....what do you expect her to do otherwise given this situation....she has ntg to do all day anyways so mite as well be around him....I think its too much babying him and no 1 really does this much today but who knows...
All I'm saying is you can say what u want about the serial's silliness as long as you dont influence that in your personal life decisions....Television is meant to be beyond reality and thats wht they r showing...even the reality shows are not reality so let alone a soap opera like this one....
Edited by ritu_iluvyrkkh - 15 years ago