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Posted: 10 years ago
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Just got back back home after my class...and OMG!!! what an episode! Left me in tears!! Today's episode was damn close to reality.

Children are the ones to face all the problems of divorced parents! Goshh!!! terrible and bitter truth!

Im speechless with Divyanka's performance.. God, She was stupendous... All her emotions were so raw, that I could feel her pain..The way she cried, I did cry along! The worst part was when she lost her balance and sat down n cried and when she grabbed shagun's legs... Goddd,, helplessness of a mother!

Adi-Ruhi hug was the sweetest thing today.. I was in Awe.

Precap made me even worse.. Such an emotional one! Raman-Ruhi hug and that outburst of Raman...Godd..!!! 😭

Im an emotional mess right now!

Gan Di.. beautiful collages.. esp the second one where u captured all the perfect emotions of Ishita and I loved ur take on the episode!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

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For anyone thinking Ishita doesn't care about Raman...please take a look at this collage...Ishita was absolutely hysteric...everyone in the Bhalla family was trying to calm her down...and look who succeeded and whose shoulder she took spontaneous refuge to...does that look like an action of a woman who doesn't care for her husband?

And look at him, he forgot his own pain momentarily and stepped up to reassure her that he's going to take care of it. Not the actions of a snooty, MCP ..is it?

This is a human tale..where both make mistakes, and when they get angry they yell at each other but they both also feel and understand the other side...sometimes we just need to put ourselves in their shoes before we jump into judging their actions...Raman is at fault...Ishita might have said she has no one/nothing (can't recall the exact phrease)...but they have always beem there for each other. even when they were not in love with each other. That's their YHM.



Sorry for the rant...but let's not make every episode about Raman v Ishita but sometimes that's all I see here in the forum..so needed to get it off my chest.


WORD Gan Di!👏

Raman and Ishita have always supported each other despite all the yelling.

@RED BOLD : PERFECT. You said it all in just 3 words!👏

Heart breaking collage yet beautiful, the perfect captures. God.. Cant stop crying!😭
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Posted: 10 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: sunitas123



Gan, no one is doubting his intentions. he keeps taunting ishita that you want to do things alone right, so now face the consequences! He has been behaving wierd the entire week right from the Sarika kaand and he also blamed her in anger for Rinki fiasco and ruining his life etc. Thereafter he has hidden the job, rent and esp wrt Shagun, Ishita has been chasing him but he just wont even talk to her properly. He has also hidden earlier all the expenses he sponsors Shagun for. As a wife, she has every right to know. Both Raman and Ishita have good intentions, but the way he treated Ishita now was as if he had gone back to pre accident-track days! I just saw all the old episodes and felt he was behaving better even when he did not love her! maybe he has started taking her for granted a bit too much!

Right now the custody thing has exploded, next the financial crisis will...



I agree with all the things you listed...but I'm talking about today...what transpired today was NOT because of any of those reasons...it was because he knew if Ishita knew about the Rs 4 Lakh/month deal he's planning to give to Shagun, she'd object/stress as Ishita knows very well about the financial crunch they are in. His behavior in this case is completely different from his behavior the day he had an outburst after the Sarika meeting. Please don't file them under same behavior.

Raman's mistake was underestimating Shagun even after warning his own lawyer about her games...in his rush to get Aditya back in the fold of his family again. He has made mistakes...that just makes him human...and he's be the one cleaning up the mess he's created..He always had...and probably after this he'd stop trying to do things on his own and rather discuss with Ishita before taking a major decision that impacts their family.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

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For anyone thinking Ishita doesn't care about Raman...please take a look at this collage...Ishita was absolutely hysteric...everyone in the Bhalla family was trying to calm her down...and look who succeeded and whose shoulder she took spontaneous refuge to...does that look like an action of a woman who doesn't care for her husband?

And look at him, he forgot his own pain momentarily and stepped up to reassure her that he's going to take care of it. Not the actions of a snooty, MCP ..is it?

This is a human tale..where both make mistakes, and when they get angry they yell at each other but they both also feel and understand the other side...sometimes we just need to put ourselves in their shoes before we jump into judging their actions...Raman is at fault...Ishita might have said she has no one/nothing (can't recall the exact phrease)...but they have always beem there for each other. even when they were not in love with each other. That's their YHM.



Sorry for the rant...but let's not make every episode about Raman v Ishita but sometimes that's all I see here in the forum..so needed to get it off my chest.


👏 I wish you'd make it a topic instead of a note. People should see their reactions.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire


👏 I wish you'd make it a topic instead of a note. People should see their reactions.


Yes, deserving of main topic thread. This is a good one. The amount of mohabbatein in the show between these two varies but in the Forum there is always very little mohabbatein between the Ishita/Raman camps.

I feel Raman's mistake in this scenario is foolish but not unforgivable. At the same time, Ishita is justified in being angry at him. Eventually they will forgive each other.

Wish same would happen for all the nonsense he said after minky marriage.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

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For anyone thinking Ishita doesn't care about Raman...please take a look at this collage...Ishita was absolutely hysteric...everyone in the Bhalla family was trying to calm her down...and look who succeeded and whose shoulder she took spontaneous refuge to...does that look like an action of a woman who doesn't care for her husband?

And look at him, he forgot his own pain momentarily and stepped up to reassure her that he's going to take care of it. Not the actions of a snooty, MCP ..is it?

This is a human tale..where both make mistakes, and when they get angry they yell at each other but they both also feel and understand the other side...sometimes we just need to put ourselves in their shoes before we jump into judging their actions...Raman is at fault...Ishita might have said she has no one/nothing (can't recall the exact phrease)...but they have always beem there for each other. even at the time when they were not in love with each other. That's their YHM.



Sorry for the rant...but let's not make every episode about Raman v Ishita but sometimes that's all I see here in the forum..so needed to get it off my chest.


U r absolutely right Gan...in the precap she is tensed about how to save ruhi...that's y such a behavior... And Raman is himself so guilty of the blunder he commited ...so he is just trying to console her but she is just scared of losing roo...very emotional episode...I am expecting more beautiful collages for tom epi...ishraru
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This scene...The Feels ❤️

Like Doc said and I quote "
Shagun made Adi and Ruhi brother and sister by birthing them, Ishita made them siblings "



One of the smoothest Emotion/Expression Transition by AH. I guess when there is conviction in the script, even remotely it's easy to relate and deliver accordingly



Ruhi's care free smile in this scene with her Dadu tugged at my heartstrings ❤️ She is currently basking in the love and glory of her family...her Papa-Ishima and Adi Bhaiyya...The little angel has no idea what's about to come 😭



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veeann


True, it happens in custody cases, I have seen the extent to which parents go. But when it's about payback, and about hurting the other to gain vengeance for past slights, then the children end up getting hurt. And that's why my empathy for Shagun disappeared. She is teaching Ishita and Raman a lesson, but in doing so, she is not giving a single thought to the welfare or best interests of Ruhi. She is playing dirty to win and in the process the biggest losers are her children.



I didnt have any empathy...just could understand her actions today😆 In her junoon to win against Raman and also pay him back she was completely blindsided by the fact that ultimately the ones suffering the most would be Ruhi and also Adi



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil


what is to see is this..rather than pointing the mistakes of other..in this serious crisis situation...
rather to deal together with this...
but who so ever done suffering is no less for anyone person... does anything will cum out of it if start a fight among each-other rather the fight with the situation...


Paru & Tanvi...I totally agree with both of you and haves no intention to choose side! Seeing all the Ishita vs Raman posts just got to me...because despite such wonderful performances, it always seems like people have to be team a or b. 🤢

This is a marriage where at the end of the day, both may make mistakes but they are forever a unit!

I feel like most of us in this thread are team Ishita & Raman...even if some of us are #Puttar fangirls! Haha

🤗 To everyone being awesome!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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As a mom, am a basket case of emotions right now.. You wish you could hug Adhi and Ruhi and shelter them from the utter unfairness of what they are having to face.

DT was beyond brilliant today 👏 like you rightly point out G, its hard to believe she is not a mother yet.

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut


"I don't believe an accident of birth makes people sisters or brothers. It makes them siblings, gives them mutuality of parentage. Sisterhood and brotherhood is a condition people have to work at."
Maya Angelou


Again a contrast between Ishita's kids and Shagun's kids. While Shagun made Adi and Ruhi brother and sister by birthing them, Ishita made them siblings by infusing them with love, tenderness, care and sense of responsibility towards each other, Ishita made them their father's children and gave them a bond of love. Today's Ishita's kids showed that they were siblings and true progeny of their loving and upstanding father, and it will be Ishita's kids, this pair of siblings that will bring the Bhallas out of this mess.


Doc, that was so lovely! @blue: If nothing else, this whole mess is sure to bring the siblings closer.


I loved that the family all came together finally.. Madhavi was for a change not being emotional and being very sensible in calming down Ishita.. Vandu and Bala were in action, so were Romi and Simmi (Toshiji is always about herself first and then gets the point - I choose to ignore her reaction)

Shagun (and AH) was back in her element today. Is she a 'good' mother? No, but I found it interesting that they brought in the grey shades again.. she knows she'll never win Ruhi's affection back but that getting Ru will break IshRa and she also knows that if the exchange does take place, Adhi will be able to get everything she cannot afford to give him.. a little bit of confusion there as to what outcome she wants .. its all about revenge?

Adhi's reaction to the exchange scheme - he'd thought his mom loved him and he was now gaining dad and the extended family's affection and his foundation is shaken.. 😭


Raman's mistake (if it can be called that) was to think he finally had Shagun where he could get a clean clinical break from her. Is that really possible though? He may again be making the assumption that what worked for Ruhi (the Ishima magic) will work for Adhi - only it can't, can it? Shagun has been the only constant in Adhi's life so far. Or maybe this mistake of Raman's unintentionally gets the outcome of Adhi deciding he wants a clean break from his mom? In any case the next few days are going to be heart-wrenching.


Edited by sky-if - 10 years ago

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