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Posted: 10 years ago
The note on ISHRA on page no: 11 is so awesome. The 4th picture I think , The picture doubts me whether they are reel or real. So perfect each other. It clearly emphazise the whole content of the track. I am a staunch hater of dailysoaps. But YHM changes everything. It changed my mind from 31st mar 2014. Still now ISHRA proves them so far from their professionalism. So perfect note. YHM forum is my first social site and I entered because of these adorable couple. Today Ur pictures are so perfect to outcome their emotions. Everybody can feel the pain of them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Awesome post and poignant collage...it thoroughly depicts the pain of a woman, a mother not by blood but even more than that bond. Stark contrast between a biological mother Shagun who just wants revenge and doesnt care for her kids and Ishita, who is not Ruhi's biological mother but can do anything for her sake.

The episode was heart wrenching to the core and I couldnt hold back my tears. Initially I felt sad for Raman being put at the guilt edge not by anyone else but he, himself has realized that he had faltered and made a grave mistake where in he is on the verge of losing his darling daughter. He knows that Ruhi is Ishita's life and he had by mistake put both their lives and his own life in such distress.

Ishita's out pour, her cry, her agony depicts the sorrow of every woman who is a mother. When your child is in some trouble, just a fall, or a wound, a fever...or could be anything, a mother is affected the most. I am saying this from my own experience. I sit up the whole night tending my kids. Sleep and hunger would just vanish on such days when they have fever or any such illness.

So I cant even imagine Ishita's plight when her daughter is about to be snatched away. No mother would be in a sane state in such an instance.
When such agonies strike, we really wont care about anybody else. Our only thought would be to get the kid to safety. Yes, such instances normally dont occur due to anybody's fault but even then in our insane state, we tend to accuse and vent out.
At times, my kids go out with their father. They stubbornly ask for ice cream or milk shakes. Despite my forbidding, my husband get them what they want and they catch a bad cold or even fever. I start accusing him but I know its not his fault. The logical side in me knows that kids are too adamant and wouldnt move an inch from the shop if not given what they want.

But its an instinct or the impulsive fear about her kids inside every mother that makes her react in a bizarre manner. That doesnt mean you love only your kids and not anyone else. Husband and Kids are both dear to a woman but in such situations, a mother's heart weighs down and it overpowers every other emotion of a woman, be it love for her husband or anything else.

Here Ishita knows Raman had signed by mistake or has been tricked by Shagun but then she can never take this so lightly because it concerns their daughter. Even Raman wouldnt forgive himself for his mistake.


I dont know how much sense I made...hope I got my point across! 😊


Edited by vidya.anand - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: IFollower

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Ranted on and on and posted which IF declined to post on this thread because I'm a newbie???? I didn't realise I should have copied my post to be on the safe side.

Lemme see if this gets posted.

Gan-- sorry, didn't realise u already used that quote about motherhood and attitude. I liked it and borrowed it.


Why are you sorry? 😕 You misunderstood me 😆 I said that because I got excited to see the quote that I really love .. I have reused one quote multiple times .. So why would I mind if you use the same quote.?😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sunitas123


Gan, if this was in reply to my MCP thing, then you have mixed two things in this update. I have never said ishita does not love Raman or vice-versa. In fact she loves Ruhi and Raman both, but her breakdown now is about losing Ruhi and trying to protect her rather than about saying ILU to Raman which people in various threads in the forum are saying and I have been defending Ishita as a mother. My thing about MCP was just the way events were last week which led to this- Raman was all of last week doing various things hiding them from ishita trying to protect her. Thats fine with me. But the way he has been throwing attitude at her and not talking to her etc... is to say why dont you mind your own business. You have done enough, I know better... that is what his body language seemed to convey along with the guilt of hiding stuff from her. If u remember everyone in the forum was expecting him to say sorry or grovel etc. It was like offence is the best form of defence for him.

Now he is not being an MCP, but still he is blaming Shagun for this without owning up to the fact that he has let her manipulate him again! He knows what Shagun is like and in legal matters he should have been more careful. which CEO does not read a document before he signs? I am a director in a company and wont sign a single document even if it is routine without reading, no matter who gets it!


Having said that the show must go on. For tracks to develop one of them has to create a blunder. I love RKB and Ishita both and love Ishra's journey even though it has been over dramatized at times!

@bold
No I had already quoted and responded to you for your comment.. This is my general feeling about the whole Ishita v Raman war I see here in the forum daily..
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan


Why are you sorry? 😕 You misunderstood me 😆 I said that because I got excited to see the quote that I really love .. I have reused one quote multiple times .. So why would I mind if you use the same quote.?😆


Absolutely no misunderstanding Gan 😊. I like that quote too. Hi-fi for similar likes 😃!!!!

And GM, if it is so for U!!

Once again, U create magic. And I so much enjoy coming here. C u again soon!! Have a nice day!
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya

I guess people are misunderstanding those who are saying that for ishita only ruhi matters,nobody else. We are not saying that on the basis of today's episode,but on what is about to come. She clearly mistrusts everybody in the house now,including Raman, and that is why she ran off with ruhi. Ruhi is her life,agreed,but there are others now in that life too,arent there. Her running away just shows that for her nobody else matters, its only and only ruhi in her life,negating the past year completely. No ruhi means no raman,no family?? This is actually a fault of cvs who took the story 1 year back, to start it all over again.
she cud've stayed with everybody and fought for ruhi,as she has ruhi's permanent custody. There was no need for such drastic steps. She really thinks anyone else in the family wud let shagun take ruhi away? She thinks that raman wud purposely sign off ruhi for adi?? Then she doesnt know her family and husband at all. They are grieving too, they needed to stick together and be each other's support. Raman needs her too.
the cvs are completely ignoring the fact that raman is ruhi's father and is devastated too. He is at fault but the blame game wont help! He was deceived! Like many have been, so many times! The cvs need to focus on his character too! He is not there just to romance his wife, or make mistakes then say sorry!!


@bold I don't know whether you follow my post or not but I only react to what has been shown or in precap .. So I assumed people are doing the same too. So I'll wait and respond when the part is aired .

Now to respond to the part that how could she think Raman purposefully signed off Ruhi for Adi ... Well let us see what has already been shown .. The minute Raman announced that Shagun has agreed to give Raman Adi's custody, she had asked Raman what dis she get in return... What did Raman do? He didn't tell her ( I understand his issues about sharing too as I put it in the post) ...then on holi morning she accidentally saw the contract and was about to read when Raman snatched it away. So put yourself in her shoes... She had a gut feeling Raman was hiding something major, raman didn't tell her about the 4 lakh/ month deal and the only thing she finds after Shagun came to pick Ruhi up .. Is that Raman signed Shagun's terms. Yes she was hysterical .. But she also was calmed by Raman's words when he said, he's going to take care of it..so I dont see any fault with her here .. People respond to circumstances based on their previous knowledge.. And the fact remains that even with her pleading with Raman, he hid the custody negotiation from her ... He's at fault for hiding something which both of them should have discussed ...but i can see where he's coming from. And Ishita's reaction to the whole arrangement is also justified.. IF someone comes and tries to snatch a child from her mother.. She would react exactly the same way ...hysterically .. And that's justified .. Even Raman gets it.

And watch the episode again, you'll notice they have shown Raman's devastation .. He was shell shocked and guilty when the initial discovery of Shagun's trick was made... And then seeing Ishita hysterical his protective instinct kicked in and he stepped up and calmed her down.. And then the same guy who threw out Shagun, was pleading albeit softly with her to give them some time... And then the whole flutter of activity of him trying to get a judge or someone to reverse the contract... So yesterday the Cvs didn't fail him... They depicted Raman's devastation at the prospect of losing Ruhi because of him not being careful while signing the contract. His reactiin was muted for obvious reasons. Yes I agree the Cvs have messed with Raman's characterization in the past.. but not yesterday. He was in character.

So I'll wait for the episode to air before I react to the accusations about Ishita.

Yesterday raman .. Ishita both were in character and their reactions .. Absolutely on dot.
Edited by GanBarunFan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

Awesome post and poignant collage...it thoroughly depicts the pain of a woman, a mother not by blood but even more than that bond. Stark contrast between a biological mother Shagun who just wants revenge and doesnt care for her kids and Ishita, who is not Ruhi's biological mother but can do anything for her sake.


The episode was heart wrenching to the core and I couldnt hold back my tears. Initially I felt sad for Raman being put at the guilt edge not by anyone else but he, himself has realized that he had faltered and made a grave mistake where in he is on the verge of losing his darling daughter. He knows that Ruhi is Ishita's life and he had by mistake put both their lives and his own life in such distress.

Ishita's out pour, her cry, her agony depicts the sorrow of every woman who is a mother. When your child is in some trouble, just a fall, or a wound, a fever...or could be anything, a mother is affected the most. I am saying this from my own experience. I sit up the whole night tending my kids. Sleep and hunger would just vanish on such days when they have fever or any such illness.

So I cant even imagine Ishita's plight when her daughter is about to be snatched away. No mother would be in a sane state in such an instance.
When such agonies strike, we really wont care about anybody else. Our only thought would be to get the kid to safety. Yes, such instances normally dont occur due to anybody's fault but even then in our insane state, we tend to accuse and vent out.
At times, my kids go out with their father. They stubbornly ask for ice cream or milk shakes. Despite my forbidding, my husband get them what they want and they catch a bad cold or even fever. I start accusing him but I know its not his fault. The logical side in me knows that kids are too adamant and wouldnt move an inch from the shop if not given what they want.

But its an instinct or the impulsive fear about her kids inside every mother that makes her react in a bizarre manner. That doesnt mean you love only your kids and not anyone else. Husband and Kids are both dear to a woman but in such situations, a mother's heart weighs down and it overpowers every other emotion of a woman, be it love for her husband or anything else.

Here Ishita knows Raman had signed by mistake or has been tricked by Shagun but then she can never take this so lightly because it concerns their daughter. Even Raman wouldnt forgive himself for his mistake.


I dont know how much sense I made...hope I got my point across! 😊



You completely made sense...yes any woman in Ishita's shoes would react the same way..

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