Dear Divyanka...Ignore the crazies.-DT NT Pg8 - Page 7

Originally posted by: vibhutii

yaa...social media is like that only... and i agree the more u gave footage to such people the more they react... but everyone has a limit to bear all this... and if this is mentally affected them..and by giving a clarification or nay msg...if she feel calm...that atleast she tried and done her best to stop idiots... wats wrong in that...

i also dnt want her to get affected by all this...

but i dnt find her wrong by giving that description along with selfie..people often ask her about issues b/w her n her costar... and many othr personal questions too... Fans didnt understand yet..taht she has ended her twitter activities... it means something is really affecting her a lot

and u're talking about social media meghz... in india...we hv to daily go through such commnts... advices by random strangers... and many at times i choose to keep quite and many at times...i loose my control..

So if she is a celeb or a common person... She is ahving her own mind... she is there in industry from so many years... we are no body to advice her how to handle fandom...

I'll say it one more time before I go to bed...it's late here lol.

She needs to remember she's a professional...a public figure...anything she posts online is up for public consumption...so she either needs to develop a thicker skin or craft her messages always in accordance with her personal brand.


Thanks to everyone who commented:)))

Originally posted by: sunny303

I'll say it one more time before I go to bed...it's late here lol.

She needs to remember she's a professional...a public figure...anything she posts online is up for public consumption...so she either needs to develop a thicker skin or craft her messages always in accordance with her personal brand.


Thanks to everyone who commented:)))

This topic is now re-open for discussion but is under watch please do not get personal with each other over differing opinions or bash mock the actor in question .Kindly engage in healthy debate

I do apologize for having had to close this topic but having gone into the depth of it and the reason why it was made I believe a debate is a fair option since the actor in question has fuelled it themselves

However please do not draw comparisons with other actors and stay on topic

Apologize once again for any inconvenience this may have caused .

YHM DT

Originally posted by: Ridhi.

Not taking sides but comparing divs with anita is totally off.I am pretty sure Anita was not totally spammed with crazy fan messages,she is married and mostly she plays vamp and ppl love her work and leave it at that.
Drama leads or always in tipsy position with crazy fans following their every move and if you are hit as an jodi,there will be all kind of rumors surrounding you and i guess i don't need to explain where karan n divs stand here,so yeah dealing with fans is very important to tell them off,or else it may effect their working environment.
If you had followed divs before show you would know how cool she is.So,yeah my opinion of comparing divs n anita is not right.

Your post reminded me of the movie Rockstar. "No matter how talented one is.. One has to display a certain personality facade (even if it's a fake one) if they want to be an apple of the publics eye"

there is nothing about dictating cz end of the day actors are living their life. I felt DT should keep herself away from fans personal zone. not only DT no actor can save themselves from bashing. The truth of life is - if u loved by 1 u will be hated by other 1. ... i also didn't like that word "live & let live". Actors can publicize anything for their own popularity & when some people is bashing u, u r telling "live & let live"?? common -- that's not make any sense to me!!

Originally posted by: -RD-

This topic is now re-open for discussion but is under watch please do not get personal with each other over differing opinions or bash mock the actor in question .Kindly engage in healthy debate

I do apologize for having had to close this topic but having gone into the depth of it and the reason why it was made I believe a debate is a fair option since the actor in question has fuelled it themselves

However please do not draw comparisons with other actors and stay on topic

Apologize once again for any inconvenience this may have caused .

YHM DT

A huge Thank You to you RD!!!
Thanks 😊 😃

Originally posted by: isha01

there is nothing about dictating cz end of the day actors are living their life. I felt DT should keep herself away from fans personal zone. not only DT no actor can save themselves from bashing. The truth of life is - if u loved by 1 u will be hated by other 1. ... i also didn't like that word "live & let live". Actors can publicize anything for their own popularity & when some people is bashing u, u r telling "live & let live"?? common -- that's not make any sense to me!!

I agree with you...it's not easy finding the right balance between engaging your fans and still keeping them at a safe distance. Many Hollywood celebrities constantly crib about the paparazzi invading their personal lives and take pics of their children...this totally would suck if it happened to anybody, but they confuse everyone when they go speak about their personal lives including stories and pics if their kids when it comes time to promote a show or a movie.

I'm assuming it's the same with Bollywood and Indian TV stars. Finding that balance is important. Many either engage too much or don't engage at all. They have to do what works for them of course, but if you're on a public forum constantly engaging your fans (who are complete strangers by the way!) then you must apply some a caution if you aren't skilled at strategy or you need to hire a team to help you out.

I've pointed to Anita H. throughout my comments in this thread...I'm not being fangirly about it...I'm honestly impressed by her skill. She has successfully managed to keep her fans engaged and still keep them at arms length without making them feel as if they're being held there. It's brilliant!

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

Your post reminded me of the movie Rockstar. "No matter how talented one is.. One has to display a certain personality facade (even if it's a fake one) if they want to be an apple of the publics eye"

When public says hate you.. You say yes hate me.. When they say love you...you say yes love me... No matter what, have to be politically correct.. Audience see them as larger than life.. They don't want the actors to explain themselves or give reasons that are close to real life.. That would make them real people...

Indifferent is what the attitude should be... According to me... This glamour line is a very difficult world.. It's not for soft hearted, otherwise people would just eat them alive!

Indifference works for some...all I'm saying is stick to your brand, stick to your message. So if staying aloof is your thing then stay aloof a the time, don't all of sudden be chummy chummy come award season or when your promoting something it confuses everyone lol.

There are many who remain off social media and have still retained their popularity...it can be done. However, social media is now and the future, for all of us, it's why you've been seeing so many celebs who were only a year or so ago, adamantly against social media all of sudden launching their pages. If you're a professional in today's world and don't have an online presence of some sort then companies overlook you...that's the truth.

Originally posted by: sunny303

I agree with you...it's not easy finding the right balance between engaging your fans and still keeping them at a safe distance. Many Hollywood celebrities constantly crib about the paparazzi invading their personal lives and take pics of their children...this totally would suck if it happened to anybody, but they confuse everyone when they go speak about their personal lives including stories and pics if their kids when it comes time to promote a show or a movie.

I'm assuming it's the same with Bollywood and Indian TV stars. Finding that balance is important. Many either engage too much or don't engage at all. They have to do what works for them of course, but if you're on a public forum constantly engaging your fans (who are complete strangers by the way!) then you must apply some a caution if you aren't skilled at strategy or you need to hire a team to help you out.

I've pointed to Anita H. throughout my comments in this thread...I'm not being fangirly about it...I'm honestly impressed by her skill. She has successfully managed to keep her fans engaged and still keep them at arms length without making them feel as if they're being held there. It's brilliant!

@bold ...ri8.