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Posted: 10 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: mnr123

I agree with u, Not that I don't support Divyanka on the stand she was taking. Nor did I really understood for whom it was directed😆


But still I feel celebrities should not get affected by Fan wars, fans bashing etc.

Last time she took a stand by giving us a video, but don't want her to do it again n again coz no matter how much she tries to clarify, there will be some people who will not understand her. So no point in giving out explanations to people who don't want to listen in the first place and those who understand will not need any explanation.

Her work is awesome and she is an amazing actress.😳Use social media only to understand viewers expectations or to promote ur work. one can't make everybody happy in this world. Just my POV.



^^^ this is what I have quoted.

@Nicchus n Sobha- In what way M I immature or insensible? Did I ever call Divyanka a crazy celeb?

Nope I think she is wonderful, my only point was dont get affected by bashing n use social media to promote urself and ur serial. In what way is this wrong in asking ur Favourite celeb to not get affected by bashers? If she lacks in PR Skills n if some one is giving her an advice (its upto her not to take it obviously) whats wrong in that? giving a constructive criticism about her PR strategy is not wrong IMO.

Let her respond to bashers nothing wrong in it, but its a never ending cycle and I dont want her to engage or waste her energy in it. If wishing good for her is taken in the wrong spirit then yes I guess m Immature n insensible as u guys have put forth.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: vibhutii

if u're talking about PR team...she got a good one already..coz they only promote her catalogues pics.. daily episodes.. and sometimes her pics with SM... they havnt indulge in any wrong promotion till now..

And since she is a celebrity so its obvious that she ignore all nonsense...Deepika padukone with TOI.. alia bhatt on her jokes..salman on clash with fans during BB7..srk when ppl doubt on his nationality... they didnt choose to kept quite...

It reuqires alot of guts to stand for a co star who himself didnt reacted on any controversy so far... where KP choose to ignore...she choose to answer back..and she knew that it might will turn the topic on her... but then also she put that msg..

at her time..when she ws bashed...she ws damn polite to bashers...but this time her msg is not that polite..and really..i ws upset that why ws she so polite...and why she is answering idiots...but somehow its important...

for me its like... standing up if any body is teasing u on a road... some will advice to keep mum for that teasing...but all women cant bear any kind of torture...

if u dnt like them.. if u dnt like their actions... u are free to back off..she is not demanding to see her daily at 7.30... she is just saying.. to dnt advice them..they are capable of taking their decisions..






But dear even after all these celebs clarifying their points have the TROLLS stopped?

Alia bhat jokes r still made, SRK questions n speculations of his affairs r still made, its never ending. Celebs should not get affected with it.

Once Divyanka reacted n yet if people r bashing her and if she keeps on explaining n clarifying to bashers then its waste f time nothing else, because internet Trolls feed on this all the time, the more u take stands the more aggressively they will target u. Unfortunately this is how "trolling" Social media works. It is a never ending cycle.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#53
Although in all this mess I agree with Divyanka that her life n she has a right to decide what to do n what not with it.

But people who understand will get it n people who want to bash will not, they will keep on bashing.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#54
first of all this is will be last cmnt here... i dont want to go... with
not sense making posts wen its not goin to do any gud.. for me or anyon here

everyone have their own views... is wht i said...

i agree with vibhu ... wht she said... if u dont like her doing so just ignore..
she snt demanding ur like or follow...
then abt brand... wht u mean by brand...? keeping decency... if so... i didnt say anything bad.. did i?

my point is... being a celeb doesnt means she should shut her world around..
like myself lots f people are inspired to her...(now dont ask me y im inspired...bcz.. the thing which inspired be ntg to u wen u chk it..)
and all r luking forward for her pics msgs etc...

by supporting her costar or media... i have to salute her for getting the guts
to stand for right and open up publicly.. rather being a coward n hiding away frm public...

to mnr.. did i say u was imature..insesible...if u felt it.. then... u shld have felt urself ur psot wasnt gud... ryt ?
i talked on generallly... i didnt even put any personal type coments except for TM

as tm was the one who puts the points of her/his pov...

"celebrities should nt get afected by fanwars fans bashing etc"

why...? can u explain...( i wnt b replying anyways...)
acrdng to me... every human are emotional...in one way or other...
some shows by ignorance... some shows by crying.. some shows by
standing alone..n shutting frm others...
doesnt celebs have these things...
the one who have heart...mankinds... they feel

if tey wont feel... then tey r non livin things...

coming up with clarification... its her personal view to clarify or nt

or keep away frm public... u or i or others dnt jhave the right to say

as it Freedom of Indians to Speak
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Posted: 10 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: mnr123



But dear even after all these celebs clarifying their points have the TROLLS stopped?

Alia bhat jokes r still made, SRK questions n speculations of his affairs r still made, its never ending. Celebs should not get affected with it.

Once Divyanka reacted n yet if people r bashing her and if she keeps on explaining n clarifying to bashers then its waste f time nothing else, because internet Trolls feed on this all the time, the more u take stands the more aggressively they will target u. Unfortunately this is how "trolling" Social media works. It is a never ending cycle.



yaa...social media is like that only... and i agree the more u gave footage to such people the more they react... but everyone has a limit to bear all this... and if this is mentally affected them..and by giving a clarification or nay msg...if she feel calm...that atleast she tried and done her best to stop idiots... wats wrong in that...

i also dnt want her to get affected by all this...

but i dnt find her wrong by giving that description along with selfie..people often ask her about issues b/w her n her costar... and many othr personal questions too... Fans didnt understand yet..taht she has ended her twitter activities... it means something is really affecting her a lot

and u're talking about social media meghz... in india...we hv to daily go through such commnts... advices by random strangers... and many at times i choose to keep quite and many at times...i loose my control..

So if she is a celeb or a common person... She is ahving her own mind... she is there in industry from so many years... we are no body to advice her how to handle fandom...
Edited by vibhutii - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: vibhutii

if u're talking about PR team...she got a good one already..coz they only promote her catalogues pics.. daily episodes.. and sometimes her pics with SM... they havnt indulge in any wrong promotion till now..

And since she is a celebrity so its obvious that she ignore all nonsense...Deepika padukone with TOI.. alia bhatt on her jokes..salman on clash with fans during BB7..srk when ppl doubt on his nationality... they didnt choose to kept quite...

It reuqires alot of guts to stand for a co star who himself didnt reacted on any controversy so far... where KP choose to ignore...she choose to answer back..and she knew that it might will turn the topic on her... but then also she put that msg..

at her time..when she ws bashed...she ws damn polite to bashers...but this time her msg is not that polite..and really..i ws upset that why ws she so polite...and why she is answering idiots...but somehow its important...

for me its like... standing up if any body is teasing u on a road... some will advice to keep mum for that teasing...but all women cant bear any kind of torture...

if u dnt like them.. if u dnt like their actions... u are free to back off..she is not demanding to see her daily at 7.30... she is just saying.. to dnt advice them..they are capable of taking their decisions..






If she has a PR team then they're doing a half assed job. Getting her into magazines etc is only a part of what they are responsible for...they are responsible for making her look good, getting her connected I the right projects by marketing her as a good person for the job...they are responsible for helping her with her brand management. And they have t done a good job of that. Even if she handles her own social media page they should still make sure that she is projecting her brand image...that's what she would be paying them for...if she has a team then she's wasting her money.

I'm not familiar with Deepika's issue, but the other three I do know about.

Salman Khan is alway on brand. Bollywood bad boy with a heart of gold, who takes shit from no one. His reactions were normal and even if he isn't controlling it, he is always on brand.

Shah Rukh Khan..another amazing marketer...he is Bollywood. That's his brand...badshah of Bollywood, he is charismatic superstar and plays the part always. His issues and his response only helped him.

Alia Bhutt is using the jokes at her expense to enhance her brand. She's in on the joke...she's played up the "oh silly little me" stuff to the bank!

That's my whole point...as long as you stay on brand you're alright...Divyanka went off her established brand with the comments. Defending your co-star is great. It's good that she cares about him and wants to defend him...she could have framed it way better then what she did.

She could have posted the pic and her solidarity would have been obvious. Her words, those particular ones, weren't necessary.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#57
Ya Vibhuti her choice m not saying she should do things as per my wishes 😆 I dont even know her personally so y will she take my advice seriously.

My POV is ignore the trolls, the more u engage with them its waste of time nothing else.

N i dont mean that she should always post images of herself etc. N I also dont want her to keep quite if certain controversy affects her.

Even her 2 simple lines wud have been enough that- "my life my choice" beyond that explaining problems of people bashing etc will get her more attention from Trolls<< again my POV I m not saying she shud do only this.

All m saying is be diplomatic, the moment u say something against bashers they will not take 1 sec in coming back to u( Saw some posts in forum saying y is she taking side of her lead actors Badi behan etc)
So even after explaining problem in detail she is the one getting bashed here. Its not gonna stop.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@mn123 i have not read ur comment when i made my comment...
this my last comment on this topic...
fans r not god..we r no one to teach how they should handle bashers and true fans..

if someone is not satisfied than simply ignore..
aleast it can give mental satisfaction...

she has been in indusrtry from long time i guess 10 yrs i know her from yhm..she is matured enough how to handle thing..she knows whats the is best way..

she know what is right and wrong for her...
if something irritates or hurt u people speaks she did the same..just it needs guts which she have all celeb really dont hve guts to take stand for themselve or others..what wrong in tht..

thank you
Edited by sobha - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: sunny303



If she has a PR team then they're doing a half assed job. Getting her into magazines etc is only a part of what they are responsible for...they are responsible for making her look good, getting her connected I the right projects by marketing her as a good person for the job...they are responsible for helping her with her brand management. And they have t done a good job of that. Even if she handles her own social media page they should still make sure that she is projecting her brand image...that's what she would be paying them for...if she has a team then she's wasting her money.

I'm not familiar with Deepika's issue, but the other three I do know about.

Salman Khan is alway on brand. Bollywood bad boy with a heart of gold, who takes shit from no one. His reactions were normal and even if he isn't controlling it, he is always on brand.

Shah Rukh Khan..another amazing marketer...he is Bollywood. That's his brand...badshah of Bollywood, he is charismatic superstar and plays the part always. His issues and his response only helped him.

Alia Bhutt is using the jokes at her expense to enhance her brand. She's in on the joke...she's played up the "oh silly little me" stuff to the bank!

That's my whole point...as long as you stay on brand you're alright...Divyanka went off her established brand with the comments. Defending your co-star is great. It's good that she cares about him and wants to defend him...she could have framed it way better then what she did.

She could have posted the pic and her solidarity would have been obvious. Her words, those particular ones, weren't necessary.


Divyanka is getting good work already... she recently promoted a mall in amravati...and she ws on hoardings also for a jewellery brand..
PR doesnt ask for work... PR increases popularity... and she has crossed 1 million mark on fb...thats all PR team's work..coz they keep updating her pics...from various saree catalogues..

am not getting ur "brand" thing... sry for that...

@bold: its lovely that u appreciate her action...and it looks like u are not satisfied with choice of words...well it could be ur personal opinion...and am okay with it... everyone has right to think of his own and expres here...

and if talking about her words needed or not... its like somebody daily pinches u from back...and u are constantly bearing that pain...but one day u lost control...and ur anger turns into words...

I rest my case here... 😊



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123

Ya Vibhuti her choice m not saying she should do things as per my wishes 😆 I dont even know her personally so y will she take my advice seriously.

My POV is ignore the trolls, the more u engage with them its waste of time nothing else.

N i dont mean that she should always post images of herself etc. N I also dont want her to keep quite if certain controversy affects her.

Even her 2 simple lines wud have been enough that- "my life my choice" beyond that explaining problems of people bashing etc will get her more attention from Trolls<< again my POV I m not saying she shud do only this.

All m saying is be diplomatic, the moment u say something against bashers they will not take 1 sec in coming back to u( Saw some posts in forum saying y is she taking side of her lead actors Badi behan etc)
So even after explaining problem in detail she is the one getting bashed here. Its not gonna stop.



i ws not pointing at u yr...on advice wali line 😆 😆 ...u hvnt advice yet...😆..

@bold : Cost for showing guts...😆 i knew it that things would go against her after this msg...




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