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Why in India we attach so much importance to how a married person (I wrote person to include both genders), is behaving as against one who is not married? 😲
Now lets take example of Manveer here.
His mother is denying he was married ever and it could be a case of either a mom trying to cover up her son or, it could be the truth!
Assume the worst----imagine he was married-----wasn't happy-------(At start of show he did mention a few times how he used to run away each time topic of his marriage came up or he was asked to see a girl for possible marriage with her---He also said in his first intro that he was a regular when it came to Daroo ka Thhekas"). 😆
I am again saying OK, imagine he was married and ran away from his marriage!
Much as deserting his wife and running away from his responsibilities is condemnable and abhorrable, does it have any correlation with his being in BB House, his conduct, performance and ultimate triumph there? 😲
Before this show, I did not know who any of the Commoners were just as I had no clue about any celebrity except for Rahul Dev! Apart from Rahul, only guy I knew before Season-10 began was Om Swami (Thanks to his Maara-Maari with a woman in a News show).😆
From posts here only I learned Gaurav was in a relationship with that Naagin playing girl, don't know her name and their relationship did not work out!-------Lopamudra in a conversation indicated she has been in relationships before just as I guess Bani has been!
Any marriage is what? A relationship, right?
So if a relationship does not work out, be it when you officially exchanged the rings for that relationship or you did not---how actually is it any different? 😲
Just in case someone says in case of X, Y,Z atleast we know he / she was in a relationship and we atleast knew about it, let me offer to suggest, you only know what you know and what you know, could be partial truth or even untruth!-----
--How does any one know for sure, from how many relationships Rahul, Karan, Rohan, Bani, Lopa or anyone else in house have run away / were a failure at it / mistreated their partner /s? 😲
Obviously, our's is an evolved society. We accept that people get involved in relationships and if it doesn't work out, sometimes with bitterness and sometimes amicably, two grown up adults move on in life and that's the way it should be! 👏
However, inquisitiveness, ire and anger of media and average viewer only converges on an individual if he was actually married.
We actually do not care how a not married person handled his various previous relationships! 😛
So bottom-line is if you hold a marriage certificate or have taken 7 Pheras around the holy fire or said Qubool-Qubool-Qubool in front of Maulvi Saab or I do-I do-I do in front of Holy Priest, you better watch out your ass and stay well behaved!
As long as you are NOT MARRIED...have a ball, we respect your private life!
WHY?
Hell, now even courts of India now recognise legal rights of woman in live-in relationships! ⭐️
It is time we too broadened our thinking horizons and started looking at failed relationships as failed relationships, be they happen for a married or not married person!😊
2 Cents!
*** Some news reports say he ran from marriage but his brother ended up marrying the lady...while some say Manveer has a 5 year old daughter too. Well, if he deserted an innocent child then I do not wish to support him in a any matter. For the record, I never liked him any way ad the above post was merely to point out that for me, whether some one is married or in a serious relationship, both are equally responsible to give it their best shot! 😊
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Mangal Lakshmi
