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Posted: 12 years ago
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Pari even today when Arjun asked all Ds to let him talk to Ovi for once...He said sorry for his mistake, He explained abt Pari which was before marriage, but not a single word to Ovi in condolense or mourning abt their stillborn dead baby...He did not utter a word saying He is sorry they lost their child may be because of his reckless driving..Feel guilty abt the baby...Well he should repeat the same words to Ovi which he spoke to Purvi when he thought her baby had died in the accident..
On top of that this ungrateful, cheating, two timing man tells Ovi that Pari needs her, He needs her...For what? so Ovi can be Pari's unpaid nanny? A Chauvanist 🐷 IMHO
Arjun is not only MCP but he does not respect Ovi or her feelings alltogether..He has taken Ovi for granted from long back...Its abt time Ovi stays firm to her decision and let the lover boy raise his love child by himself..Or take pari back to the bio mother who is emotionally manipulating dada, maushi and rest moving from one mayka house to another along with her husband who has no self respect period..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: sashashyam

No, Pari dear, while I agree with your post, I do not trust the SBS segment you have watched,which probably showed some alternative track that they have discarded now.

See today's telecast and you will understand what I am saying. They showed Arjun convinced that Ovi would never accept Pari, and getting set to raise her by himself. Where then would the lines they have shown you fit in?

Secondly, if Ovi were to leave her home, that would be the D house, whereas Arjun has taken Pari to the Kirloskar mansion. The Ds are very hostile to him, even Teju, and if he came back and tried any such stunt with Ovi, Manav would thrash him black and blue. It just does not make any sense.

I  do not think Arjun will deviate from the track they showed today, the details of which I have summarised on Waneeka's thread.

Shyamala Aunty




Amen to your prediction Shyamala Aunty. Like I said in one of my posts addressed to Jhanvi, how this is major play space for CV's now. Everything is out in the open, no lies no more, not Punni's, not Arjun's, not Purvi's nor Onir's and Ovi's final realization of her failed marriage, dead baby and a husband who never loved her. All characters have come to a stand point now, where what they do here on is very crucial to their character development. 

I for one, would love to see a new twist on Arjun, a more grown up Arjun and taking charge of his life and working on his weaknesses ( love for Purvi) What I would like to see, is if he is not shown to miss Ovi or finally come to realize that he will never be able to work a marriage with her due to their mucky history and that he cannot ever love her, he needs to walk out of this marriage. They both need to file for divorce and Pari should be raised by Purvi. Where they take Arjun's character from here on would be very very interesting as now he has no attachments neither to Purvi ( as she is someone else's wife and nor to Ovi, if he divorces her). This is unlikely as they cannot possibly bring a new lead for Arjun and he cannot be shown to grow old, his handsome self, by working like DK all his life and being a single father. 

In an alternate scenario, he should repent his decisions of the past and have some major insight into what love for Purvi brought him to. It is not Purvi's fault alone for the mess today and nor Ovi;s alone. He has been weak in his love for a woman and has played his life according to other's whims and fancies. So now, he needs to know that Purvi;s love weakens him while Ovi's love he can become strong with. He should miss his wife, repent all wrong doings of past, as must she, and after struggling apart and getting space from each other to figure it out, they should decide to work on their marriage. Pari I think should always be with Purvi, simply because I would not want a situation where Purvi comes back to claim her in the future. If legal adoption is done, Pari should grow up with Ovi, with no shackles of bio mom from Purvi. 

Purvi- like I said needs insight into her self first and foremost, needs to start living life liek a normal person who looks after their own grihasti and happiness. If she cannot do this, she should start smaaj seva and renounce ghar parivaar. She needs to also have major insight into what Onir has been for her, which is nothing short of an angel. She needs to now embrace her husband as a man and not a friend who she can keep using now and then to cry or to carry out elaborate baby switch plans and to protect her from wrath of others. They should make babies happily and they should show successful marriages after this huge debacle.

Arjun-Purvi can have a normal relationship, but it would be too messy to be jeeja-saali and also bio-parents to a child. so they should stay away I think. It will never work to be around each other and their always explosive past in the face of their spouses. 

There are hundreds of stories that can be woven around these 4, from their individual marriages and the challenges that come with it, all 4 are very very different people so it is would be interesting to see how an Arjun-Ovi deals with a situation or adversity versus how a Purvi-Onir deals with it. They make sense together these couples and they should hence stick to one another once repentance is done and apologies are made and past is forgotten and left behind. Their babies are a whole different track all together, with PAri always having an interesting track for development. 

This is why I was excited and hoped that CV's would use this intelligently to repair PR. So let's hope for what you say and it turns out true. Any more crappy unrealistic and bugger tracks, there will be no saving grace for this show. 

Added : OR just bring ARVI together with their pari and bring new leads for Onir and Ovi and how they all go ahead in life but still have some kind of interconnection. I don't know what else can be done from here on, but yes, if Pari's life has to be saved, just bring the lovers together and free the poor spouses Onir and Ovi from always playing second fiddle. Onir can have a new woman and Ovi can have a new man and their crossing pathways with ARjun-Purvi can be new story forward. I really want Ovi to get a man worth her and Onir to get a wife who will show him what being a husband means. 

Edited by pari87 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Pari even today when he asked all Ds to let him talk to Ovi for once...He said sorry for his mistake, He explained abt Pari which was before marriage, but not a single word to Ovi in condolense or mourning abt their stillborn dead baby...He did not utter a word saying He is sorry they lost their child may be because of his reckless driving..Feel guilty abt the baby...Well he should repeat the same words to Ovi which he spoke to Purvi when he thought her baby had died in the accident..

On top of that this ungrateful, cheating, two timing man tells Ovi that Pari needs her, He needs her...For what? so Ovi can be Pari's unpaid nanny? A Chauvanist 🐷 IMHO
Arjun is not only MCP but he does not respect Ovi or her feelings alltogether..He has taken Ovi for granted from long back...Its abt time Ovi stays firm to her decision and let the lover boy raise his love child by himself..Or take pari back to the bio mother who is emotionally manipulative dada, maushi and rest moving from one mayka house to another along with her husband who has no self respect period..


Varsha di,

THAT is a major reason for why I think of Arjun the way I do. A wife chalo, one can say he never loved her, marriage was deal of a sham, blah blah blah, but what reason can one give for his no-remorse for dead child. This, after he was shown to be feeling super guilty and going crazy apologizing to Purvi for her supposed dead child?

how can a father be this way? HOW? He has taken a dip not for being a bad husband, but for being a ridiculous father. Him loving Pari can do nothing to amend him NOT grieving his dead child with Ovi.

I wrote in a post above to Shyamala aunty about how I want this story now to move forward, and first and foremost that I would like is if Arjun has to get back with Ovi, then there has to be genuine remorse and sorrow for a child that was his and died due to his driving skills. There has to be a closure for this husband and wife for their dead child, to ever move forward. For this reason alone, I would like Pari to be raised by Purvi. but if that happens, Arjun will never move forward in his marriage.

I dislike all of them except Ovi who is the onyl character that is being developed to show growth, but the rest are left for degrading and being wasted. NOw this point in the show, where everything is outi n the open and lies are all out for all to see, they can do very interesting things with how these 4 go from here on. And If Arjun is going to be shown a lead, and not dead, then he needs to seriously evaluate his life and they need to show his character developing beyond a lallu lover and a pathetic husband into a strong husband and a loving father. Only then, can he be redeemed in my eyes.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54

The thing that bothers me the most is Arjun yet has not taken offense to Purvi-Onir getting rid of his-Ovi's child like a yesterday's trash...He has not mourned for the stillborn or not taken offense to the way that unlucky stillbron was mishandled...As afather he owed it to his wife and the baby...He should not only be angry but madly furious at the duo...But he dismisses it because Purvi is his ex and he has hots for her...How sad for the stillborn..

That is what makes him the most MCP in my book...Hell if he does not love his wife than why did he have sex with her and got her prego? Why could he not curb his urge to surge???? Its all hogwash when they say he did not love his wife...But when u have sex with someone there are implications to it...If he feels responsible for Pari than why not for the stillborn..I would have fought for my cub dead or alive to give him-her the proper place in this world...Man what is wrong with this man?
Stillborn is not even mentioned as if that baby was illegit and a shame to the family...Its Pari who is illicite child out of wedlock and not the stillborn...I am just upalled at this nonsense..
ADD: Not only he failed Ovi as a husband but to the stillborn as a father..he let them both down big time..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#55
very good points from all of you 👏. I also noticed at party, ovi was drunk but when it came to speaking she had cleared head and knew exactly what she had to say , and when it came to walking she was drunk as she could barely walk.

In all this, will Mittal's wrong doings re. organ stealing go unnoticed???
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Varsha di,

The CV's failed there too. There were umpteen times when Arjun should have stuck to his guts in front of Purvi starting right at that hilltop, but he has simply bowed down due to his love or lust or whatever jaadu she did on him.

No other situation beats the one where onir and purvi disposed off their child without giving them any rights to see hold and mourn the death as parents. He should have asked those questions to purvi who he loves so much and onir who is his best friend, just as Ovi asked them. Pari is his daughter yes, but that child was also his na? The CV's could have showed such a different angle, where, he could have blown his lid off at this latest revelation, told all to Ovi and shown his wrath finally to Purvi and to Onir. A court case demanding legal custody of Pari and barring Onir and purvi from meeting her, as righfully for never giving them teh chance to see their baby. This new shift in him could have done wonders for TRP's if you ask me.

As for ARVI and the chemistry this forum exists for, they could have shown the previous khadoos Kirloskar and the forum would still go crazy. After a while, show Purvi give it back to him for rights to Pari as a bio-mom and see the fireworks and let ARVI fanatics be happy with this fighting chemistry ( if that's a thing) that this forum had gone crazy over?

That way, they are not only opening interesting avenues to the same characters but keeping TRP audience and kids happy. Carrot dangling rakhna hi hai, toh aise rakhe.

But instead what a HUGE disappointment that they showed Arjun so weak, so spineless and such a disgrace to loving fathers and strong men in this world. This could have been a BRILLIANT track and we would have been happy so would the ARVI fans
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Posted: 12 years ago
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At one time I was also fan of confident, no nonsense, khadoos Arjun...But when he crossed his path with the obnoxios indian novelty and boom he is what he is today...So wish he had gone back to his khadoos self and given bonnie and clyde left right and center for disposing off his-Ovi's stillborn w/o their knowledge..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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About Onir .

By refusing Punni's blackmail , Purvi made a choice . She would protect Aaji's house even if husband lost his career .

Then and there she decided to sacrifice Onir for Sulochana . Punni was not just talking on the basis of overhearing ...she had concrete proof . A proof that could damage him irrepairably that could shame him professionally .

And he had compromised his medical ethics for her word .

Yet she chose Sulochana 's house over him .

Today Mittal clearly told Sulochana that he would not give the CD to the police if she signed away her house to him .

Manav and Sulochana had come strutting self righteousy in offering Mittal property , money whatever for the CD .

But they looked shocked when Sulochana's house was demanded as if it was the Vatican Cathedral .

THAT was out of the question it seems . I was puzzled . Why , over a damad's career . Manav has plenty of money , if he chooses he can easily plant Sulochana in some flat . The matter , though highly embarassing and delicate was a family matter and both should have shown absolute distaste for police involvement . Especially since Manav was a reputed businessman and so was DK and Onir's arrest could cause scandalous publicity .

Besides , anger apart , the career of a hitherto good man was at stake .

But Sulochana refused to give up the house . Onir's career can be destroyed , not the sacred house .

And all this after Onir stood through thick and thin by Purvi , slept on the floor , did a medical crime for her sake , folded clothes , bed sheets and what not in Sulochana's house , slogged in Punni's wedding etc . Both ditched Onir after using him till it suited them is the bottom line .

I know this is far fetched but i want Onir realising this .


Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yamzy

Brilliant analysis Jahnvi 😊


Thank, you, deep bow :))
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..aastha..

amazing post.
And ur description on every character is too good.

The way i love rithvik and asha i always try to ignore mistakes of arjun and purvi bt now i simply cant deny purvi is turning more dangerous than any vamp. She is worst mother i had ever seen. Even archana, savita and sulo were much better. Archana- who is main inventor of tyag and mahaanta never tried to play swapping game..

But but but in party it was so weird people shouting and slaping her nt for her mistake of baby swaping bt for getting physical with arjun.

They were behaving like they dnt know history of arvi. As if nothing happened before arjun-ovi's marriage. Selective memory!

And manav's bias behaviour was too much. Today he opened his mouth when matter is out of hand. If he wanted to speak so why nt on the day when ovi gave him surprise by getting married with arjun without inviting him? Why nt on the day when ovi spoiled his annvrsary party by slaping purvi? She didnt tried to even stop ovi like its birth right of ovi to treat purvi as garbage. And he crossed all limits when he was quit when ovi asked purvi to leave home that also when she was pregnant. And it was so cheap that ovi was trying to prove purvi a thief and no strong reaction from manav? If he was standing like a statue when ovi was performing all kands so better nt to take part in discussion when its purvi's turn. So agree.

I dnt mean that he should nt react on situation bt he should atleast try to make realize ovi that it is happening coz u forced urself on arjun and selected loveless life. If he had done that much earlier, his daughter would have been spared the heartache.


It was bizarre and everything had to happen in front of everyone at a party as always. I was looking for people other than family there and did spot a few faces. The D clan and the K clan must have the worst reputation in town. Everyone must be vying for an invitation to their parties, tamasha galore every single time. Yucks!

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