Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
About Onir .
By refusing Punni's blackmail , Purvi made a choice . She would protect Aaji's house even if husband lost his career .
Then and there she decided to sacrifice Onir for Sulochana . Punni was not just talking on the basis of overhearing ...she had concrete proof . A proof that could damage him irrepairably that could shame him professionally .
And he had compromised his medical ethics for her word .
Yet she chose Sulochana 's house over him .
Today Mittal clearly told Sulochana that he would not give the CD to the police if she signed away her house to him .
Manav and Sulochana had come strutting self righteousy in offering Mittal property , money whatever for the CD .
But they looked shocked when Sulochana's house was demanded as if it was the Vatican Cathedral .
THAT was out of the question it seems . I was puzzled . Why , over a damad's career . Manav has plenty of money , if he chooses he can easily plant Sulochana in some flat . The matter , though highly embarassing and delicate was a family matter and both should have shown absolute distaste for police involvement . Especially since Manav was a reputed businessman and so was DK and Onir's arrest could cause scandalous publicity .
Besides , anger apart , the career of a hitherto good man was at stake .
But Sulochana refused to give up the house . Onir's career can be destroyed , not the sacred house .
And all this after Onir stood through thick and thin by Purvi , slept on the floor , did a medical crime for her sake , folded clothes , bed sheets and what not in Sulochana's house , slogged in Punni's wedding etc . Both ditched Onir after using him till it suited them is the bottom line .
I know this is far fetched but i want Onir realising this .
Kools, if Purvi had accepted Punni's deal she would have been hammered as well, just as she was for accepting Ovi's deal. Damned if she does and damned if she doesn't.
I take hope in that with the Arjun fiasco, Purvi kept him in the dark, this time around she not only said no to the blackmailing, deal proposing female but also informed Onir about the situation, albeit after the fact, though to her credit she did try to call him right away.
Also, it is good that the truth be dealt with now in all its ugly aspects rather than hang over their heads eternally. Onir should be punished for his part, he will be acquitted, Mittal needs to be brought to justice for his sickening trade and the latter can be done only if Onir and Purvi have a reason to go after Mittal which the imprisonment will provide.
As for Arjun being a male chauvinist, I think all these soaps are geared to make the women seem inferior and appear long-suffering and the men to misunderstand and act like lords. That said, I was trying like our Pari to analyze Arjun's psyche. I have been one of his harshest critics so I am trying to be as objective as possible. The guy is without a backbone, sure but why and when? When it comes to the women he loves. He loves Ovi but is in love with Purvi, he cannot disappoint or hurt either and because of this he fails. He is not a strong person mentally, maybe cos of his age, maybe cos of his lack of a mother growing up (we are granting that to Ovi and granting the adopted syndrome to Purvi so let us make that admission for him as well).
I do not think Arjun liked baby Pari any less before and more now that she is Purvi's. In fact, I don't think he considers the baby as Purvi's at all but just as his. At the party, he thanked Ovi for Pari and I think he means it, Ovi is Pari's mother so to speak, she has taken care of the baby to date and to him Ovi, Pari and him are family now. He apologizes to Ovi for not telling the truth, he does realize her hurt, he did not disclose the truth the other day because he felt she would break if she knew the truth. His intentions were not bad, yes, he should never have lied to her about the phone call but we all know how Ovi has reacted in the past and it was an innocent call. As he told her, he has not been unfaithful to her, he even tells her lets chuck all this and head back to Canada. When he asks her to think of Pari, he is not seeing Pari as Purvi's daughter but as "their" (Ovi's and his) child. Dumb, yes, idiotic, yes, inconsiderate, perhaps. Of course, it is easier said than done, Ovi is a woman scorned and hell hath no fury to beat that. His plea for them to remain a family is a sincere request to put the past behind them and move on. He has laid his ghosts to rest and he wants Ovi to do the same. Revenge, hurt, separation can go round and round, what these two need is healing. If Ovi divorces Arjun, what is the guarantee that the next man will not be just as inconsiderate. Better a known devil than an unknown angel. If she were my daughter, I would console her, cry with her (even though I know in my heart that she went into it knowing he loved another) but will try to help her make peace with her husband. Arjun will never be able to forget how much she loves him, he will owe her an eternal debt of gratitude, the buniyad that Manav was talking about would be as strong as a house built with mortar and bricks and not flimsy like a house built with a deck of cards, and Purvi will be a forgotten dream of Arjun's.
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 12 years ago
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